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Hi there!

Just want to ask for opinion about this topic? 2 months pa lang kami magkakilala pero crush ko na sya. pero mukhang palapit na sa falling in love. im not sure kung ganun din sya sa akin.

- paano mo masabi na gusto ka ng boss mo kahit malayo kayo sa isa't isa? magkalayo kami ng boss ko, magkaibang lugar kami, through text or phone ang communication namin. pag may concern ako, tinetext nya ako or tawag.
- do you think its normal for a boss na sya mismo tatawag sa akin kahit minsan kinukwento na nya kabwisitan nya sa work. for instance, may text ako sa kanya, then wala pang 5 minutes tatawag na sya sa akin.
- normal din ba yung for instance may favor ako sa kanya about work, wala pang arte, go agad sya sa idea ko
- pag may negative text against me, tinatawagan nya agad ako to comfort me.

do you think, ano kaya ang next move ko para mas makilala ko sya ng mabuti. magkikita muli kami ng boss ko next month for a company party, pwede ko ba sya makausap about personal stuff. ano naman klaseng tanong yung tatanungin ko? any tips will be appreciated. gusto ko rin sya maging friend aside sa boss-employee relationship but dont know how? pwede bang ako as a girl magsasabi na pwede ba kitang maging friend? di ba turn off yun?

thanks in advance!

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  • turatko!turatko! PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Parehas ba kayong single?
  • Hindi yata single si Boss, :lol:
    at si TS naman, may kalandian, I am pretty sure. :lol::lol:
  • 2 months p lang? hayaan mo sya magsimula at kung pede friend lang talaga kasi same company kayo kamo di ba mahirap na. :)
  • nev3rmindnev3rmind PEx Rookie ⭐
    or baka gusto ka lang ma-experience ni boss kaya panay pa-pogi points
  • FUBU chances 90%..hihihi
  • kung single sya go .pero kung may asawa na yan wag nalang hahahaa mahirap maging kabit
  • 2 months p lang? hayaan mo sya magsimula at kung pede friend lang talaga kasi same company kayo kamo di ba mahirap na. :)

    @juanito: korek ka dyan. gusto ko talaga maging friends lang kami. siguro sa company meeting namin this May sana hindi lang puro work usapan namin...pero weird thing lang kasi everytime na may concern ako kahit text or email, mas gusto nya tawagan ako, to think na prepaid pa gamit nya. Kanina, may follow up ako sa kanya, he told me na "incomplete ang araw ko kapag walang nagfollow up sa akin". ano kaya ibig sabihin nito. panay sorry ko sa kanya kasi baka nakulitan na sa akin pero sya lang kasi makakasagot nun.

    thanks!
  • kung single sya go .pero kung may asawa na yan wag nalang hahahaa mahirap maging kabit

    @secretgirl82: im not so sure kung single pa sya or may gf na, since hindi kami magkasama sa work. different location kami pero directly reporting ako sa kanya. kasi magkikita kami sa company party this May, do you think pwede ko sya mapagkwentuhan about personal things, syempre light lang.

    weird lang din kasi kanina, magfollow up lang ako sa kanya, bigla ba naman hirit nya na "incomplete ang araw ko kapag walang nagfollow up sa akin". ano kaya ibig sabihin nito. panay sorry ko sa kanya kasi baka nakulitan na sa akin pero sya lang kasi makakasagot nun.

    ok lang sabihin ko as a girl na gusto ko makipagfriends sa kanya, bawal ba yun?

    thanks!
  • teka lang ha ingat baka mamisinterpret mo yung motive niya sayo baka nga gusto ka lang nya talaga tulungan regarding work, malay mo ganon talaga sya sa mga nasa ilalim niya.

    pede pagkwentuhan yung tungkol sa work, family, hobbies, ex relationships, etc kaso paglumayo na like gusto na manligaw or about sex ingat ka na ate.
  • Hi there!

    Just want to ask for opinion about this topic? 2 months pa lang kami magkakilala pero crush ko na sya. pero mukhang palapit na sa falling in love. im not sure kung ganun din sya sa akin.

    - paano mo masabi na gusto ka ng boss mo kahit malayo kayo sa isa't isa? magkalayo kami ng boss ko, magkaibang lugar kami, through text or phone ang communication namin. pag may concern ako, tinetext nya ako or tawag.
    - do you think its normal for a boss na sya mismo tatawag sa akin kahit minsan kinukwento na nya kabwisitan nya sa work. for instance, may text ako sa kanya, then wala pang 5 minutes tatawag na sya sa akin.
    - normal din ba yung for instance may favor ako sa kanya about work, wala pang arte, go agad sya sa idea ko
    - pag may negative text against me, tinatawagan nya agad ako to comfort me.

    do you think, ano kaya ang next move ko para mas makilala ko sya ng mabuti. magkikita muli kami ng boss ko next month for a company party, pwede ko ba sya makausap about personal stuff. ano naman klaseng tanong yung tatanungin ko? any tips will be appreciated. gusto ko rin sya maging friend aside sa boss-employee relationship but dont know how? pwede bang ako as a girl magsasabi na pwede ba kitang maging friend? di ba turn off yun?

    thanks in advance!


    Landi mo naman teh. Tapos ***uming pa. Unahin mong alamin kung may asawa o GF sya. Kung meron wag ka na lumandi makakasira ka lang ng pamilya, kung wala wag maging sobrang landi. Onting landi lang :bop:
  • freeman2981freeman2981 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    TS, maganda ka ba? Kung maganda ka meron siya motive sayo kaya ka tinatawgan at concern sayo kapag meron problema regarding sa work mo.. Pero kung panget ka namimis-interpret mo lang siguro yung mga ginagawa niya ***. got mah point?:)
  • kung mag text man siya sayo o tumawag dahil sa may problema ka... baka naman ganun din siya sa iba, dahil nga boss niyo siya and as a leader he needs to take care of his subordinates :> basta wag lagi lagyan ng malisya lahat :>
  • Umaatikabong labanan yan sa company outing.
  • curly topscurly tops PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    malaki ang chance na magka jombagan kayo soon, medyo mabilis ka TS, walang nasasayang na kilos. keep up the good work, ok?! :D
  • Malamang sa company outing nyo may 2 taong mawawala. May quickie sa shower room.
  • Kelan ba yang company outing para makapaglabas ng earthquake at tsunami warning.

    :D
  • wag mashado mag assume..saka naman ano bang klaseng boss yan..bakit naka-prepaid lang? :lol:
  • hehe after May meeting..ano na nangyari? walang "follow-up"? hehehe
  • Hi there!

    Just want to ask for opinion about this topic? 2 months pa lang kami magkakilala pero crush ko na sya. pero mukhang palapit na sa falling in love. im not sure kung ganun din sya sa akin.

    - paano mo masabi na gusto ka ng boss mo kahit malayo kayo sa isa't isa? magkalayo kami ng boss ko, magkaibang lugar kami, through text or phone ang communication namin. pag may concern ako, tinetext nya ako or tawag.
    - do you think its normal for a boss na sya mismo tatawag sa akin kahit minsan kinukwento na nya kabwisitan nya sa work. for instance, may text ako sa kanya, then wala pang 5 minutes tatawag na sya sa akin.
    - normal din ba yung for instance may favor ako sa kanya about work, wala pang arte, go agad sya sa idea ko
    - pag may negative text against me, tinatawagan nya agad ako to comfort me.

    do you think, ano kaya ang next move ko para mas makilala ko sya ng mabuti. magkikita muli kami ng boss ko next month for a company party, pwede ko ba sya makausap about personal stuff. ano naman klaseng tanong yung tatanungin ko? any tips will be appreciated. gusto ko rin sya maging friend aside sa boss-employee relationship but dont know how? pwede bang ako as a girl magsasabi na pwede ba kitang maging friend? di ba turn off yun?

    thanks in advance!


    I had to use Google translator in order to decipher this. Should you reply to my response please write in Standard American English. Essentially, there are many good reasons why companies frown upon workplace romances. They all emphasize harmony and social cohesion of the employees whatever role they may have with each other in this social sphere.

    Office romances rarely end the way that both parties want them to terminate. Usually, one person wants to take it a step further while the other does not. In terms of your situation, you have to acknowledge whether or not you value employment at a particular company to value it sufficiently over any concern that arises in the personal arena within this workplace. If you think that the attraction and intent between you and your supervisor are mutual, then by all means pursue it only if you are accounting for the possibility that you may no longer be employed at your workplace. Logically, either you quit your job in order to become more serious with him or they will uncover the relationship and terminate your employment anyway.

    I am not sure about whether or not the Philippines has anti-harrassment laws in place in case such relationships end badly. In other words, if you end the relationship yet your boss wants to continue it, then this could make the work situation very tense. Further, it is very difficult to objectify one's feelings. The boss could feel hurt, perhaps use his power over you to compel you to stay in the relationship. Personally, I believe that the best thing one can do is not form any deep attachments to the people at work. After all, we live in a global economy that stresses interchangeability and fluidity. So, when you get close to people at work, next thing you know they are no longer there because of a transfer or downsizing. Always do your socializing outside of work on your own time. I hope this is helpful for you.
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