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Love.. bakit wala ka pa?

Di naman ako passive na babae, I'm not even ugly. But then again, yung mga dumadating namin, di ko naman gusto.


Saan na kaya si Love?

KUpido tamaan mo naman ako ng todo.


Kayo ba? Bakit wala pa Si Mr./Ms. Love sa inyo?
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  • naku ts...yan din ang tanong ko. Ive had relationships after another pero not one of them is the one for me...:rolleyes:

    one time sinabi ko ayoko na maghintay and im ready to live a life of single blessedness...tangap ko na and nakakapagod na rin kasi. Then out of the blue, while listening to my favorite evening radio program on the way home, the dj said "don't lose hope in finding the one for you". He was reading some answers from a quick question he shot out to listeners. :eek:

    I guess that was the universe telling me to just hang in there. Until when...who knows. :confused:
  • pushpoppushpop PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    umame25 wrote: »
    Di naman ako passive na babae, I'm not even ugly. But then again, yung mga dumadating namin, di ko naman gusto.


    Saan na kaya si Love?

    KUpido tamaan mo naman ako ng todo.


    Kayo ba? Bakit wala pa Si Mr./Ms. Love sa inyo?

    TS, di ba ikaw yung naghahanap ng intelligent men dun sa kabilang thread? :hmm:

    Baka naman mataas masyado ang standards mo, to the point na unreasonable na? Wala talagang papasa sa ganun...

    Or baka naman vague ang standards? Like yung quest mo for "intelligent men" - that's still vague eh.

    Ano ba ang basis mo para masabing intelligent yung guy? Test scores? Kailangan summa ***** laude? Bar topnotcher? Inglisero? Or basta good conversationalist eh pasado na?
  • cecill wrote: »
    naku ts...yan din ang tanong ko. Ive had relationships after another pero not one of them is the one for me...:rolleyes:

    one time sinabi ko ayoko na maghintay and im ready to live a life of single blessedness...tangap ko na and nakakapagod na rin kasi. Then out of the blue, while listening to my favorite evening radio program on the way home, the dj said "don't lose hope in finding the one for you". He was reading some answers from listening to a quick question he shot out to listeners. :eek:

    I guess that was the universe telling me to just hang in there. Until when...who knows. :confused:


    Uu nga Cecil eh.. Di naman ako perfect... When I was in a rel, loyal naman ako. Pero I've had my share of games. Pero as time goes on, tumatanda tayo (middles 20s ako), nagseseryoso na ako. My biggest fear is to make a mistake but at the same time, when I feel the guy is worth it, risk taker naman ako. But I'm all about feelings too. If wala akong maramdaman, wala talaga. That's why Iniisip ko, the Lord is planning my greatest love story. Ika nga, you have to undergo a lot to really appreciate "the one". I was listening to Dr Charles Stanley about "Patiently waiting upon the Lord".
  • pushpop wrote: »
    TS, di ba ikaw yung naghahanap ng intelligent men dun sa kabilang thread? :hmm:

    Baka naman mataas masyado ang standards mo, to the point na unreasonable na? Wala talagang papasa sa ganun...

    Or baka naman vague ang standards? Like yung quest mo for "intelligent men" - that's still vague eh.

    Ano ba ang basis mo para masabing intelligent yung guy? Test scores? Kailangan summa ***** laude? Bar topnotcher? Inglisero? Or basta good conversationalist eh pasado na?



    Yes pushpop, di ka nagkakamali. Ako nga yun. Di naman sa mataas yung standards or mababa, its all about if you feel that person is for you. Connection, chemistry, etc. But aminado ako, plus points talaga pag matalino yung guy. MAy instances nga, matalino yung guy pero in other aspects, may pagkukulang siya na he can't make up for it. Balance dapat.

    Basis ko to say matalino yung guy.
    1. Good Conversationalst with correct grammar and spelling.
    2. Madiskarte (he's using his brain)
    3. Excellent educational background
    4. May direction sa buhay at sound job (naapply niya pinagaralan niya)
    5. He can represent himself enough to be likable or influence another.

    So far... yun lang ata muna.
  • jen_bugajen_buga PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    masyado ka maraming hinahanap TS. I think, just let nature take its way towards you..wag mo itong hanapin at wag na wag kang mag seset ng standards..dahil once you have that, you will never really find him..

    maipapayo ko lang, sa isang thread ang sabi mo diba you feel lonely at sometimes, parang you feel alone? you can go out sometimes siguro not necessarily hanging out on bars, siguro try to meet new people..and learn to appreciate little things..not the standardized things..
  • umame25 wrote: »
    Yes pushpop, di ka nagkakamali. Ako nga yun. Di naman sa mataas yung standards or mababa, its all about if you feel that person is for you. Connection, chemistry, etc. But aminado ako, plus points talaga pag matalino yung guy. MAy instances nga, matalino yung guy pero in other aspects, may pagkukulang siya na he can't make up for it. Balance dapat.

    Basis ko to say matalino yung guy.
    1. Good Conversationalst with correct grammar and spelling.
    2. Madiskarte (he's using his brain)
    3. Excellent educational background
    4. May direction sa buhay at sound job (naapply niya pinagaralan niya)
    5. He can represent himself enough to be likable or influence another.

    So far... yun lang ata muna.

    hehehe, baka kasi dahil meron ka na pre determined qualities kaya nahihirapan ka...

    malay mo nakilala mo na pala siya pero dahil sa wala sa kanya yung lahat ng qualities na hanap mo, di mo lang siya napansin..

    I am not saying na mali o masama ang magkaroon ng certain qaulities na hinahanap pero most of the time, in this life, in this world we live in, too much expectations will often lead to disappointments...kasi madalas once we expect, even if we are not aware of it, we tend to raise the bar higher....

    kaya ako, I personally do not just look at the good qualities of the person, I am more interested sa mga di gaano kaganda na qualities hehe, cause if kaya ko mahalin siya despite yung mga weaknesses niya, how much more dun sa good qualities niya :)


    jusy my opinion :D
  • wag mong intayin dadating din yan.
    malamang sa hindi mo inaasahang lugar at pagkakataon..
    wag mainip... at wag masyadong magexpect.
    baka nakilala mo na sya, sarado lang ang puso mo dahil
    masyado kang mapaghanap.. mas ok na kilalanin mo na lang
    yung mga prospect mo, baka di man sila matalino,
    mamahalin ka naman ng totoo *okay*
    just keep on praying.. keep the faith :)
  • :bop:It will come eventually.

    Basta ako hopeful parin.Think positive and the universe will aline and provide.:naughty:
  • jen_buga wrote: »
    masyado ka maraming hinahanap TS. I think, just let nature take its way towards you..wag mo itong hanapin at wag na wag kang mag seset ng standards..dahil once you have that, you will never really find him..

    maipapayo ko lang, sa isang thread ang sabi mo diba you feel lonely at sometimes, parang you feel alone? you can go out sometimes siguro not necessarily hanging out on bars, siguro try to meet new people..and learn to appreciate little things..not the standardized things..


    Jen masyado ba? Lam mo kasi binaba ko din standards ko nun but then again I ended up with a lowlife loser... I always look on the good side of people pero sometimes natuto rin ako not to settle for something less. I do appreciate the littlest of things. I mean I do have a life, i enjoy it but romantically speaking, when you're so full of love to give, you yourself is itching to be filled with it ..not to say na naghahanap ako.
  • bus_rider wrote: »
    hehehe, baka kasi dahil meron ka na pre determined qualities kaya nahihirapan ka...

    malay mo nakilala mo na pala siya pero dahil sa wala sa kanya yung lahat ng qualities na hanap mo, di mo lang siya napansin..

    I am not saying na mali o masama ang magkaroon ng certain qaulities na hinahanap pero most of the time, in this life, in this world we live in, too much expectations will often lead to disappointments...kasi madalas once we expect, even if we are not aware of it, we tend to raise the bar higher....

    kaya ako, I personally do not just look at the good qualities of the person, I am more interested sa mga di gaano kaganda na qualities hehe, cause if kaya ko mahalin siya despite yung mga weaknesses niya, how much more dun sa good qualities niya :)
    .


    jusy my opinion :D


    I already implied na may standards nga ako... sino naman wala? But then again i also added the fact na di naman nafafollow yun if nahulog ka na eh kasi when you fall in love, if that is true love, you'll learn to accept even the ugliest of traits.. most abominable. But then again, yung nga, wala pang dumarating to prove me wrong
  • dabbydabs wrote: »
    wag mong intayin dadating din yan.
    malamang sa hindi mo inaasahang lugar at pagkakataon..
    wag mainip... at wag masyadong magexpect.
    baka nakilala mo na sya, sarado lang ang puso mo dahil
    masyado kang mapaghanap.. mas ok na kilalanin mo na lang
    yung mga prospect mo, baka di man sila matalino,
    mamahalin ka naman ng totoo *okay*
    just keep on praying.. keep the faith :)


    Thanks. While waiting on it, I am focusing on maximizing my potential, working on becoming the best person I can be, deserving of that love. =)
  • :bop:It will come eventually.

    Basta ako hopeful parin.Think positive and the universe will aline and provide.:naughty:




    That reminds me of the book, THe Secret and The Power.

    Thats the spirit! *okay*
  • jen_bugajen_buga PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    umame25: wala naman kasing perfect na lalaki..kumabaga part talaga ng buhay iyan..i have been there..nain love naman ako ng todo as in todo kahit na mataas din ang standard kong tulad mo..pero when you let go of the standard and be like darating kung darating, eventually it will..the more you search for it, the more siyang lalayo..

    cheers!
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  • caffeine_kittiecaffeine_kittie PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    natanong ko na din yan dati...bakit kaya di ako nagka-bf?
    tinanong ko din sarili ko, baka naman mataas standards ko pagdating sa bf - 'Hindi naman.'
    dadating na lang yan sayo sa tamang panahon, sa tamang pagkakataon...sa tamang tao para sayo. :)

    ipag-pray mo na lang na pagdumating na sya, eh yung karapat-dapat ang ibigay sayo :)
  • java_chiqjava_chiq PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    standards...


    some people call it as it is


    excuses...
  • JameauxJameaux PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Ngek. Wrong thread. :glee:

    Padaan na lang love. :love:
  • s_lo75s_lo75 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Naku TS, WAG NA!!!...I wanted to experience what "Love" is or how to fall in love...pero hindi maganda yung results...I can't eat, sleep, think, my palms are always sweaty, I keep thinking about that person...basta di ko type ma-inlove Nakakaasar! I wish I could take back what I said before na "gusto ko ma feel kung papaano ma-inlove!"

    Ako pa naman yung tipong I always want to keep everything to myself. It's really irritating!!
  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    napanood ko sa isang tv show dati na maglilista ka daw ng qualities ng lalaki na gusto mong makasama sa buhay and then pray over it. ginawa ko yun, and yes dumating naman siya. :hiya: :lol:

    natatawa nga ako pag naalala ko eh pero hihi nakakaaliw lang. :love:
  • inviinvi PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ Haha okay yun ah. Magawa nga. :lol:

    OnT: Parating na yan. Baka na-late lang kasi he's buying you flowers. :)
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