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safe days..

kelan ba talaga ang safe days? nalilito kc ako... it is before and after ng period safe yun? ilang days pagitan?

si bf kasi ayaw ako pa take ng pills. ayaw din nya ng withdrawal or condom, hay nako kung makabuo daw e di ok...e di pa ko ready sympre gusto ko ikasal muna bago magka baby, pangit naman tingnan buntis ako. pero sabi nya safe naman daw sya coz low sperm count sya.. so ginawa ko nag pills pa din ako ng patago na lang muna kaso kaka start ko lang e...i want to know yung safe days din...nabasa ko kc sa book for marriage na safe yung before and after pero sabi ng friend ko di daw safe yung after ng period..pag kakatapos lang.
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  • ishtepishtep ♥ iDo ♥ PExer
    as far as i know, pag before magkaroon daw safe daw yun pero hindi ko alam kung ilang days before magkaroon ang safe..kapag after menstruation naman, ang alam ko din hindi safe yun..

    try moh mag fertility method..pag naputol daw yung whitish na lumalabas sayo, it means infertile ka pero pag tuloy.tuloy or matagal bago ma.break-fertile daw poh yun..
  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 Babae po ako PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    safe days pag naka condom o kaya on the pill ka na :p :glee:

    unless super regular ka mahirap ata talaga i determine kelan ka "safe".
  • baklitabaklita taas kilay PExer


    at nagpapauto ka naman sayong bf.
    buking siya na niloloko ka lang at
    sex laang ang habol niya sayo.

    gumising ka babae.
    ika nga, eh, use your brain instead
    of your horny drive, noh!

    aihihihi!!! :lol:

    baklita



  • sweetwahmsweetwahm Just Another PExer PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Never bank on low sperm count. Sperm can survive for days in a warm, moist environment, like your insides. And all it takes is one strong swimmer and it's a 9 month crash course into parenthood. In your case, the latter part of those 9 months will leave you without direct visual of your feet if you happen to be standing. :glee:

    This is off topic, but it's kinda weird na parang ok kay bf mo na low sperm count sya. Hmmm, ganun lang siguro pag perceive ko sa sinulat mo.

    Bat naman ayaw ng bf mo mag pills ka? It's one of the safest means of contraception if you take it regularly. Mas mabuti magpatingin ka muna sa ob-gyne para maka prescribe sya ng pills and instruct you properly.

    On safe days. Depende rin yan sa cycle mo. The more regular your cycle is, the more likely you'll know your safe days. The average is 28 days, but some women follow a 30 or 35 day cycle. 7 days before and 7 days after ang safe days, ika nga (using the first day of your period as Day 1).

    Pero, pero, pero wag ka rin umasa sa ganitong paraan... the rhythm method isn't that all reliable. Besides, recent studies show that there are actually very few safe days you can have unprotected sex, meaning everyday can be a fertile day even if you are expecting your period on that day. And the same goes with couples who do want to conceive.... kahit mag sex pa sila on a fertile day, chances are di rin naman kaagad mabubuntis ang girl.

    Point is, if you want to avoid pregnancy, then don't rely on your cycle. It will work for some girls, but not all. You're better off with contraceptives.
  • IslaNegraIslaNegra Member PExer
    i took pills nga e patago nga lang, but i dunno if it works right away..on the 2nd day i took the pill may nangyari sa amin...e kakatapos ko lang ng period ko nun... im taking dianne35...wala kasi akong time to go to an OB right now, but im planning soon, dunno when lang coz medyo busy pa..di maka tyempo

    low sperm count si bf nasobrahan daw kc sya dati...then the doctor said rest lang daw dapat sya kung gusto nya makabuo in the future...pag pagod at stressed sya di daw talaga makabuo..kaya ayun, ayaw nya akong mag pills kasi medyo nega feedback nya na nagiging moody nga daw and baka pag gusto na namin magka baby e di mangyari, mga ganon...takot sya for me.. niyayaya na nya din ako magpakasal but feeling ko parang it's too early pa to decide kasi mag 3 months palang kami..e nasa right age na naman kami but i dont want to have regrets sa huli kasi lifetime na yang marriage e....baligtad nga e ako pa ang takot magpakasal, haha! actually, he knows maswerte sya sa akin kaya feeling ko ayaw na ko pakawalan pa, but who knows ...dami pwedeng mangyari
  • sweetwahmsweetwahm Just Another PExer PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    The thing with pills is they need to sorta "stabilize" first. Just coz you popped one the first day doesn't mean protected ka na from pregnancy. Kaya you will have to use condom or some other contraceptive, at least in the beginning. Your body has to get used to the pills for a couple of days.

    Regular ba naman cycle mo? Maaring safe ka kung ganon.

    One of these days you're gonna have to talk to your bf about the pills. If your bf is all too concerned about pills and what he thinks are the effects, why don't you find out about it together? Like he could go with you when you visit your OB or you could both explore other contraceptives. Parang big deal sa kanya ang pills, eh ayaw nya rin naman ng condom. Looks like he's on a mission to get you pregnant :lol: Keeping that a secret is a trust issue just waiting to explode. :shrug:
  • ishtepishtep ♥ iDo ♥ PExer
    ^^ sabi ng friend ni mami & si mami habang nag.uusap sila, naririnig ko na kapag na.break yung pag.inum ng pills it will be null/void..kahit pa daw matagal na ikaw naka.inum nun basta't pag hindi moh tinapos or hindi correct yung pag take nun, mawawalan ng silbi ang pills.. & i dont know if it's still effective when you do sex while taking pills..


    --bout the marriage:
    it's not about the span of your togetherness that counts in..
    it's the foundation of LOVE that you built w/in that time that counts..*okay*
    if both of you are conformed with the stability you have now, then it's ok to get married..
  • mommykat_79mommykat_79 xx-proud mom & wife-xx PExer
    sweetheart, kahit na low sperm count ang boyfriend mo it's still not safe to go about having unprotected sex. as for the withdrawal method, i can understand his hesitancy. i'vre read somewhere na may psychological effect sa guys ang withdrawal. not to mention na it's so UNSAFE if your concern is unwanted pregnancy.

    bf doesn't want to use the glove? understandable din kasi it lessens the sensation kaya lang condoms are the only method of contraception that protects both partners from STDs. you're probably serious with your boyfriend already so good for you guys kaya lang you never know...

    when it comes to pills naman, hiyangan din kasi yan. ako i used to take oc pills before kaya lang it worsened my migraine attacks kaya i stopped it already. pero sweetwahm is correct, it's one of the safest means of contraception. i suggest you go to your OB with your boyfriend so that he too can be educated.

    as for safe days... as far as i know it goes like this.
    days 1-8 (day 1 being your first day) are safe as well as days 21 onwards till you have your period again. so DO NOT have sex on days 9-20 coz you are fertile during those days especially days 13-15! pero this method will work only if you know na REGULAR ka (meaning nag re-range ang cycle mo ng 28-30 days lang). but if you know that your cycle is not regular then do not use this method if you don't want to get pregnant.

    hope this helps. goodluck!
  • The KryptonianThe Kryptonian We Can Be Heroes PExer
    sweetwahm wrote: »

    Point is, if you want to avoid pregnancy, then don't rely on your cycle. It will work for some girls, but not all. You're better off with contraceptives.

    This is absolutely right. Your bf is not a pornstar para maging confident sa withdrawal! :D

    Just think about this: a price of a cheap condom vs the price of raising a child.

    Hope this helps. *okay*
  • F8L_TyrF8L_Tyr You make me...ツ PExer
    share ko lang...handa na ba kau ng bf mo na magkababy?
    having a family isnt easy as from what i have observed..
    baka naman oo lang ng oo ang bf mo at pagnabuntis ka na
    bigla na lang mawawala..edi sira ang future mo..

    much better kung puilitin mo ang bf mo na gumamit ng condom
    di naman sya ang maghihirap eh ikaw din..

    dapat di ka magpauto sa bf mo
    stand on your own right.

    kung ayaw nya gumamit ng condom sabihin mo di wag mag sex
    paliwanag mo yung side mo..

    wag kang matakot sa kanya..
    and beside pinoprotectahan mo lang ang sarili mo
    na wag mabuntis.
  • hoovenhooven Member PExer
    puwede mo namang huwag sabihin sa bf mo na nagpi-pills ka... ikaw ang may katawan - protektahan mo ang sarili mo lalo na't ikaw ang magbubuntis kung sakali.... e sabi mo di pa kayo handa...

    gawan mo ng schedule ang pagpunta sa OB-GYN... para di ka maalangan...

    di rason ang low sperm count... kaya dapat ingat talaga kug ayaw mong magpakasal ng buntis... or mabuntis ng di oras...
  • F8L_TyrF8L_Tyr You make me...ツ PExer
    and besides anong klaseng bf yan? ayaw mag condom for the sake of protecting from unwanted pregnancy.
    ano sya happy go lucky? im thinking...s3x lang yata ang habol ng bf mo sa iyo eh..

    from what i see irresponsible ang bf mo.
  • The KryptonianThe Kryptonian We Can Be Heroes PExer
    F8L_Tyr wrote: »

    from what i see irresponsible ang bf mo.

    Mismo! :D

    All he thinks probably is just s3x, s3x, and s3x... and more s3x!
  • grayegcivicgrayegcivic LoveMYWRXSTiToo PExer
    I agree, let him use condom it he aint letting you use pill or injection.
  • F8L_TyrF8L_Tyr You make me...ツ PExer
    tip...wag mo gayahin yung mga pamilyang walang trabaho ang daming anak..almost to the point na nagugutom na ang mga anak mo..
  • IslaNegraIslaNegra Member PExer
    tnx peeps! i visited an OB already and natanong ko na din mga safe days and nagpa chk up na din ako at the same time...im still taking pills mahirap na baka madisgrasya kahit na i told my bf to wear condom na lang next time, ok naman sa kanya or mag withdrawal...di naman sya nag reklamo, hehe.. coz he knows ayoko ma preggy pa.
  • bubbles_019bubbles_019 Member PExer
    hay naku iha, ano ba talaga ang gusto mo...sex or love?
    safe sex? ok..good yan...if you really wanted to know..safe days 5 days before and after your period...but most effective would be the 5 days after, because your discharge isn't clear yet, you can be sure that you are fertile if your discharge is thicker and more sticky.
    for me...you can show love in many ways aside from sex.

    so be a good christian okey

    hehehehe ..gudlak!
  • hypnotizedhypnotized a tout le monde PExer
    mas safe kapag during :glee:
  • BelarmajuliusBelarmajulius Member PExer
    Ligtas po ba makipagtalik isang araw bago ang regla okaya halimbawa Gabe po nagtalik pero Hindi po pinasok kung Baga po kinaskas Lang daw PO tapos ginaumagahan niregla daw mga 9am ........regular namn Yung babae plssss pasagot po para matulungan ko friend ko
  • The RealestThe Realest that's none of my business PExer
    kunwari ka pang friend mo e ikaw yun. mabubuntis ka!

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