Tarantado Move Ba Kung Liligawan Mo May Boyfriend Na?

Burt_Macklin

...or nah, since everything is fair in love and war?

If a woman is married, is that where things are delineated (ie where she shouldn't entertain suitors)?

Is Filipino courtship similar to capitalism wherein competition is better for the consumer ie the women (the best men compete for her companionship)? Esp. since there are no divorce

If it's 'fair', then is a woman wrong for entertaining multiple men at one time (in order for her to sift through those that'd be best for her)...yet why is she demonized for "pinagsasabay" multiple men's offers at once?

If it isn't it noble for someone to pursuit a girl in a relationship since he's planning to provide for her a superior companionship than her current bf?

In a country where there is no divorce, isn't it fair for this to be the etiquette (for her to maximize all her opportunities to get the best mate before marriage, because she has ONE chance of getting it right ie no recourse to dissolve marriage)?

If it isn't, who out of the parties involved is the most "tarantado": the gf that entertained offers from other men or the other men who pursued women knowing they are in committed relationships or the bf that was lacking to the point that his gf is cheating?

BigDickSteve

Maloko ako dati, dahil alam kong sobrang dami ang nagkakagusto sakin despite I am introvert, sinusubukan ko ang mga babae na may BF na I-flirt sa real life, parang social experiment lang ba if mas malaki ang percentage ng babae na faithful sa kanilang bf and guess what madami sa kanila hindi faithful sa kanilang partner. Yung sinasabi ng mga babae na manloloko at nangiiwan ang mga lalake, madami din naman sa kanila hindi faithful kapag lapitan sila ng guy na may kaya, matangkad at pogi.. Plastic ng mga babae. Kung madaming lalake ang cheaters, ganun din karami ang cheaters na babae or mas madami pa.

Yun nga ang mas gusto ko eh na i-flirt yung babae na may BF na sa personal dahil mas challenging, iniisip ko, if ito mapaamo ko ito within few days lang kahit may bf na, iba na talaga ako nito. Pero dati yun hindi na ngayon, may pagka conceited kasi ako dati pero humble na ako sa real life ngayon. Intelligence is better than good looks.

Alam mo yung one of the most flattering I have ever heard from random people? They say I look younger than them and I'm already 28 and they are only 22 or younger. Yung nasa 21 lang sila pero akala nila kasing age ko lang sila pero age gap.

pong_padour

Pag di pa kasal, ok lang.
I have to admit, may times na di sinasadya na nasusulot ko yung mga babae na may bf na. Started with my first gf. Brineak nya agad bf nya.
Some instances, kahit mga kaibigan ko from college or work, nagseselos dahil medyo maflirt gf nila sa kin. Ako pa dati pinagbintangan ng tropa ko na nakabuntis sa gf(now his wife) nya. LOL
Kung medyo loko pa ko ngayon, 2 na sa gf ng mga tropa ko dinale ko dahil nagbibigay ng signs at nangfflirt. One is a Flight Attendant, the other is an HR in one of the company here. Ayoko lang kasi makarma at maging reason ng away sa mga kaibigan ko. Ok lang siguro pag di ko kilala or tropa yung lalake. 

It also happened one time back in 2015 to 2016. 
She's a Cebuana socialite from a rich family who's into the construction business. 
We dated for a year without her boyfriend knowing. We sometimes meet at Great World City near her bf's condo or sometimes in their place or at Wine Connection Robertson Quay. I finally decided to stop meeting her dahil nakonsensya ko at naawa sa bf nya. They're happily married now with 2 cute kids. Parang hawig ko yung panganay 

She wanted some kind of release nung one time nagaway sila. Then nasundan ng nasundan lagi.

art727

Pong!, what a Best example of you, A KISS AND TELL GUY.. I never tell anybody my Past. Romantic episode its like betraying your partner. 

pong_padour

^ kwinento mo nga dito yung romantic Coke saga nyo nung tindera manong art.
Besides, di naman Pexer yan at anonymous tayo dito. Kaya nga tinakpan ko name.

Burt_Macklin

BigDickSteve said:

.. Plastic ng mga babae. Kung madaming lalake ang cheaters, ganun din karami ang cheaters na babae or mas madami pa.

A lot of women cheat. They're the same as men for the most part. I use to be nicer about these things but it all changed when I turned 30 realizing I'm playing a noble game in a game that's not noble.

Get as much peckpeck before one you find one you can tolerate for marriage. Better yet, don't marry them (you'd be surprised how many are okay with just 'super girlfriend status' lmao) and if you do make sure you have an exit strategy.

justj_

Short answer no. Especially ngayon sa social media arena napakaraming ganap na lokohan. The game is so much easier now than before. You just have to be careful kung ano ang pinasok mo kaya mong labasan ( no pun )

Jameaux

Get ready na ma-Tulfo at mapasikat ni Senyora kapag nagcheat yung niligawan mo. Hehe

MountainBiker

I think, no, although I've never done this before as a sign of courtesy to the other guy. I just think that marriage is the delineating point for this question. If you ever decide to court a girl already in a relationship, you better work things out first before making your relationship serious.

art727

Saken walang problema, dahil hindi pa sila kasal at kung nagpapahiwatig yung babae na parang sinasabi sa kilos, "Iligtas mo ko dito sa lalaking ito ang sama  ng pag-uugali!", ikaw ang gusto ko! 

Juan Plus One

art727 said:

Saken walang problema, dahil hindi pa sila kasal at kung nagpapahiwatig yung babae na parang sinasabi sa kilos, "Iligtas mo ko dito sa lalaking ito ang sama  ng pag-uugali!", ikaw ang gusto ko! 

Art, sana sa darating na bagong taon ay makasama mo na sa buhay ang mailap na Tinderalla este Cinderella. 

Good luck po.

nikkilove

in America where people carry guns like carrying combs sa pilipinas in their bags or pockets for men, well go ahead and try.

Celynne

Kung gusto talaga at seryoso, di sigue give yourself and the girl a chance if you think you're better suited to each other. Kung thrill lang, hwag naman.