9 years younger than me yung nagugustuhan ko. Anong gagawin ko?

emsifortyseven

May nagugustuhan kasi akong girl ang problema 9 years gap namen at mas matanda ako. Almost 1 week na kameng magka chat pero never pa kaming nagmeet. Any advice? Maraming salamat 💔💔💔

i_am_belisarius

Nothing wrong as long as she's of consenting age.

mcdelpinoyex

eh di ligawan mo. maygad bro
iba nga jan 10/15yrs gap

IronHandofJustice

emsifortyseven said:

Hay sana mattunan kong dedmahin sasabihin ng iba 😑

You should!

Importanteng tao ba sila sayo? If not, then you're worrying about it too much.

Desert_Dolphin

emsifortyseven said:

May nagugustuhan kasi akong girl ang problema 9 years gap namen at mas matanda ako. Almost 1 week na kameng magka chat pero never pa kaming nagmeet. Any advice? Maraming salamat 💔💔💔

As long as she is legal, walang problema. Age gap is not even a problem.

One week pa lang naman kayo magka-chat. Alot of things could happen.
Know her more. Meet up. Engage in actual conversation. Be yourself. Your life is not about pleasing other people.

Desert_Dolphin

emsifortyseven said:

She's 22 and im 31 already. We're both moving on from our past relationship. Gusto ko na syang ayain lumabas pero natotorpe ako 😅. Ang hirap

So ang problema natotorpe ka hindi yung age gap. No other way but ask her out. Sabihin mo sa kanya na punta ka sa, say, Jollibee or Sbarro, mamya or bukas. Then ask her kung gusto nyang sumama.

There are times when you need to force yourself to do something you are afraid of. This is one of those times.

Desert_Dolphin

emsifortyseven said:

Ang hirap kasi lalo na't ang dami ko pang priorities at responsibilities sa pamilya, hayy. Salamat sa inyo

So, may problema din sa priorities mo. The real problem is, you always make up excuses. Stop doing that.

loiscollins

Age is not the problem..Attitude and desire are the problems. Usually, a young person has a young idea and a matured person has matured ideas. You have more life experience and knowledge than her. but you need to adapt to her ideas and desires when need to maintain a sucessful relationship. Use your maturity in serious cases, not in usual thing such as eating ice cream or buying a teddy bear

jefoy

if you're true to your intentions at inde libog , push mo yan bro  

emsifortyseven

Hay sana mattunan kong dedmahin sasabihin ng iba 😑

emsifortyseven

She's 22 and im 31 already. We're both moving on from our past relationship. Gusto ko na syang ayain lumabas pero natotorpe ako 😅. Ang hirap

mcdelpinoyex

Body is 6 characters too short.

emsifortyseven

Ang hirap kasi lalo na't ang dami ko pang priorities at responsibilities sa pamilya, hayy. Salamat sa inyo

panis_na_puto

^^Priorities at responsibilities sa pamilya? Magpaalam ka muna sa MISIS mo bago ka manligaw ng iba!

emsifortyseven

Wala pa akong asawa at anak haha tama kayo dami pa pwede mangyari. Di na rin kame masyado naguusap. Bugso lang siguro ng damdamin kaya ako napa hingi ng advice dito. Thank you thank you haha

Nils

Susme, mag-aaya lang magkita hindi mo magawa, paano pang makipag relasyon?