I am hiding something... Is there someone na eto rin ang tinatago??? HELP!!

limpbiscuitlimpbiscuit Member PEx Veteran ⭐⭐

Through the many years of my life, meron akong tinatago...

Gusto ko na maraming babae ang nagkakagusto sa akin. 

Kasi, way back in my childhood, nabully ako ng buong class, and nagkaroon ako ng mababang self-esteem. Tapos, nagkaroon ako ng dalawang friends who are very, very popular heartthrobs. 

Kaya ayun, ever since, gusto kong makuha ang liking ng mga girls sa akin. Na magkagusto sila sa akin. 

Does anybody else have the same dark secret like me? Guys, will any of you man up and say if you have the same hidden desire? 

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  • Lahat naman ata gustong maging heartthrobs.
  • IronHandofJusticeIronHandofJustice Member PEx Guru ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
    I can't relate kasi I hate attention sa totoo lang.

    TS, ilang taon ka na ba? Understandable ito kung teenager up to young adult ka pa pero if nasa middle age ka na (i.e. 25 y.o and beyond), then reflect sa desires mo.

    Usually, mababa ang self-esteem natin if the people around us or at least our perception, have little acceptance to who we are. Naranasan ko ito nung tanggap ko ng hindi ako straight and began losing some people, my straight male friends are no longer hanging out with me and they have that curious look in their eyes. 

    I am lucky kasi kahit papano, I was being accepted by some siblings, iilang male friends ko, and very few people. Dahan2x bumalik na ang self-esteem ko until I reached this point na same lang regardless of how they treat me.

    Iyan ang advice ko sayo, look for people na tanggap ka kung sino ka but before that, tanggapin mo muna ang sarili mo.



  • justj_justj_ PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    It is just natural or reasonable to have the desire to be ladies' man like derek ramsay lol
  • limpbiscuitlimpbiscuit Member PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    I'm quite shocked.

    Didn't expect those replies.

    So if it is natural for men to desire to be heartthrobs, then why don't I hear guys verbalizing this?

    I don't hear men talking about this desire? 
  • alchemistofophiralchemistofophir Christian Communist PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kuha ka ng tamang bilang. ang sobra ireto mo sa mga brods mo.

    syempre dapat lahat magaganda at seksi. para wala yung usapan na "bro, bakit sa kanya parang mas seksi sa nakuha ko?"

    Mga Chicks nyo na parang Liberty Condensada, Equality sa Fraternity



    B) B) B)
    .V.. ..I..
  • IronHandofJusticeIronHandofJustice Member PEx Guru ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
    I'm quite shocked.

    Didn't expect those replies.

    So if it is natural for men to desire to be heartthrobs, then why don't I hear guys verbalizing this?

    I don't hear men talking about this desire? 
    It is not "natural", more like part of his "animal instinct" to be a desirable mate.

    This means, kung stuck ka sa stage na iyan tapos mid adult and older ka na, you failed to evolve fully your emotions and control your "id".

    Read some books about psychosexual development, TS. 

  • lordlapulapulordlapulapu PEx Rookie ⭐
    I'm quite shocked.

    Didn't expect those replies.

    So if it is natural for men to desire to be heartthrobs, then why don't I hear guys verbalizing this?

    I don't hear men talking about this desire? 

    kasi po kung ibubulgar mo na gusto mong magkagusto sayo mga girls eh magmumukha ka namang conceited at lalong matuturn-off mga girls sayo. lahat ng tao gusto maging attractive sa opposite sex. kaya no need to speak out the obvious. 
  • I'm quite shocked.

    Didn't expect those replies.

    So if it is natural for men to desire to be heartthrobs, then why don't I hear guys verbalizing this?

    I don't hear men talking about this desire? 
    Verbalizing it is taboo. Another shocking news for you: Most men would like to have sex with as many women as they can but no one would admit that.
  • sabaybunotsabaybunot I'm your Daddy!! PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ganito lang..

    Normal lang na gustuhin mong marami magkagusto sayo... natural yan lalo na mukhang totoy ka pa.

    But

    Whining about it makes you sound like a needy lil b!+ch...
  • limpbiscuitlimpbiscuit Member PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Thank you sa mga replies niyo. 

    Can I proceed to my second question then?

    Pexers, I need your honest take.

    Through the years, may mga nagsasabi sa akin na "chickboy" daw ako and madali daw magustuhan ng mga girls. So may mga tao who think that I am a chickboy. 

    But there is a twist.


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    I just happen to be someone who girls feel comfortable opening up to. Like a brother. A mere friend. 

    Pero hindi 'to alam ng maraming tao, so iniisip nila na nagugustuhan ako nung girl, when actually isn't it more possible that she think of me as just a brother? For otherwise, she would not open up to me like that. 

    So my question is: is this true? Na I am just a brother or friend type of guy to many women? Or totoo yung tingin ng ibang tao na madali daw ako magustuhan romantically ng mga girls? 

  • Thank you sa mga replies niyo. 

    Can I proceed to my second question then?

    Pexers, I need your honest take.

    Through the years, may mga nagsasabi sa akin na "chickboy" daw ako and madali daw magustuhan ng mga girls. So may mga tao who think that I am a chickboy. 

    But there is a twist.


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    I just happen to be someone who girls feel comfortable opening up to. Like a brother. A mere friend. 

    Pero hindi 'to alam ng maraming tao, so iniisip nila na nagugustuhan ako nung girl, when actually isn't it more possible that she think of me as just a brother? For otherwise, she would not open up to me like that. 

    So my question is: is this true? Na I am just a brother or friend type of guy to many women? Or totoo yung tingin ng ibang tao na madali daw ako magustuhan romantically ng mga girls? 

    Baka you are one of the girls kasi kaya madali silang mag-open up sa'yo. Gay friends can give different perspective to the same scenarios.
  • simple-alexsimple-alex Member PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    hmmmm.........................

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