My gf broke my heart on my bday.. this is sad
First of all, we've been together for 1yr and 2mos. We had so many ups and downs. more on downs but we managed to save our relationship. Shes 49 yrs old and im 35.
What happened was, yesterday it was my birthday and we planned to have a dinner. She was so ahead of our meeting time which was at 3.30pm but she told me shes going out the office early in 10mins. Thinking about her being too early I had to go shower quickly and iron my clothes. She drove her car until she came at our meeting place just near my house before I could even finish dressing up. So I hurried anyway.
She called me on the phone and asked me if I was on my way, I said Im on my way then suddenly out of nowhere she snapped at me almost to the point of hurting my feelings. She said 'ur so slow!!!' with that hurtf tone of voice. I shook it off but I was feeling hurt considering it was my bday but she did that anyway snapping at me.
She did it (snapping) more than 2x. via txt and phone call. She knew me in person that I easily get hurt when she snaps at me, esp on my bday. So i was already on a bad mood to meet up with her coz I was embarrassed for what she did to me but still I managed to meet her up for the sake of our plan.
We met up, she went in my car and tried to smile and kiss me and greeted me happy bday but I shoved away with pissed face because of what she did.
She then reacted violently by throwing to my face her money from her bag and I was really shocked. It was like my world had just stopped and I couldnt move. All I could think of was that she did this to me on my bday seriously????
That moment I decided not to continue what we planned and I just celebrated my bday with my friends without her.
I broke up with her because of this. This is the nth time she loves to hurt me. I want this to end but it's hard sometimes. Guys help me what am i going to do. Thanks.
What happened was, yesterday it was my birthday and we planned to have a dinner. She was so ahead of our meeting time which was at 3.30pm but she told me shes going out the office early in 10mins. Thinking about her being too early I had to go shower quickly and iron my clothes. She drove her car until she came at our meeting place just near my house before I could even finish dressing up. So I hurried anyway.
She called me on the phone and asked me if I was on my way, I said Im on my way then suddenly out of nowhere she snapped at me almost to the point of hurting my feelings. She said 'ur so slow!!!' with that hurtf tone of voice. I shook it off but I was feeling hurt considering it was my bday but she did that anyway snapping at me.
She did it (snapping) more than 2x. via txt and phone call. She knew me in person that I easily get hurt when she snaps at me, esp on my bday. So i was already on a bad mood to meet up with her coz I was embarrassed for what she did to me but still I managed to meet her up for the sake of our plan.
We met up, she went in my car and tried to smile and kiss me and greeted me happy bday but I shoved away with pissed face because of what she did.
She then reacted violently by throwing to my face her money from her bag and I was really shocked. It was like my world had just stopped and I couldnt move. All I could think of was that she did this to me on my bday seriously????
That moment I decided not to continue what we planned and I just celebrated my bday with my friends without her.
I broke up with her because of this. This is the nth time she loves to hurt me. I want this to end but it's hard sometimes. Guys help me what am i going to do. Thanks.
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Think about it, maiinis ka ba ng ganun kung hindi mo naman birthday? Most likely hindi. So the act alone isn't sufficient to justify your retaliation to her.
Mag muni2x ka muna at hayaan din siya. Sa totoo lang, pakiramdam ko nasa 20s pa kayo para pag awayan ang mga ganito.
Wahhahahah
Damn youre more worse than a a girl with a tampon hahahha
That was hilarious really
Hinayaan mo ang sarili mong maging doormat ng gf mo.
Find someone who deserves your love and affection. End of story.
Ngayon na pinatulan mo, so anong nangyari? Diba nasira lalo ang araw mo at mas nagkasakitan pa kayo ng loob, to the point na masisira na kayo.
May mga bagay na hindi mo kailangang i-confront right away, lalo't mainit ang ulo mo. Kasi the moment na hinayaan mong magpadala sa emosyon, pinapalala mo lang ang sitwasyon. Ano ba ang kaya mong kontrolin, iyong treatment niya sayo or reaction mo?
Kung gusto mo pang ayusin ang relasyon niyo, magsorry ka and be matured enough to explain yourself na hindi siya maging defensive.
Apologizing doesn't always mean ikaw ang mali kundi ikaw ang mas nakakaintindi and you put more value sa ibang bagay kaysa sa ego mo.
Parang natakot ako bigla if magpamilya silang dalawa, kung anong klaseng parenting style ang kaya nila.
Dapat cguro pag usapan nyo nangyari pag kalmado na kayo at malamig na ulo nyo... i mean if you still want the relationship to work..