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Pregnant and abandoned. Need advice please
My boyfriend left me while 4months pregnant. We are both 22. Simula kasi nabuntis ako di na kami nagkakasundo. Madalas kami nag aaway. February to April. Lagi ko na syang inaaway. Madalas naiinis ako saknya. Small things. Big things. To the point he broke up with me April 30 kasi nawalan na daw sya ng gana. Im hurting so much right now. Ive seen no flaws kay ex bf simula nung naging kami. Binigay nya lahat, at di sya nagkulang. He said he felt unimportant, unloved and unappreciated. But this all just started nung February. I tried to tell him na pinaglilihian ko lang sya and this was all pregnancy hormones but di sya naniwala. Still i could have been more easy to him daw. The thing is he had a 4 yrs relationship before me. He left the girl for me last year kasi super nainlove sya sakin. Now i just found out they are dating na ulit and nagkaayos na sila. My whole world is falling apart. 1 month din ako nag beg saknya to give me another chance. Magbabago ako i said. Still nagalit sya kasi pwede naman pala magbago. Pero why did i choose to hurt him ng paulit ulit sa mga away namin. Soft hearted kasi si ex bf. Super bait nya. Wala akong nakitang flaws sakanya sa buong relationship namin. Inaamin ko i shared huge part sa desisyon nya. Ikakasal na dapat kami this May din. I tried to talk to his parents. They said hayaan ko na daw sya since ayaw na daw talaga nya. My parents said the same thing. Altho galit na galit sila skanya kasi he just asked my parent's blessing nung April palang for the wedding. Kaya nashock ako sa desisyon nya na iwan ako. The baby is planned. He still wants to be a father but no longer wants me. I think his ex contributed to his decisions din since sinalo agad sya ng ex nya and accepted him back. His ex told me this is my karma for taking him away from her. My ex told me if only i treated him like asawa o boyfriend this wont happen at all. He said i treated him more like trabahador. I didnt know nag kikimkim pala sya ng mga sama ng loob sakin tuwing nag aaway kami. Kasi sinumbat nya lahat ng wrongdoings ko. He said he just woke up and realized i dont deserve him. Too controlling, too demanding, masungit, matapang, high maintenance daw ako. Pagod na pagod na daw sya dealing with me and maybe we are not meant to be. They said baka magka change of heart sya once nakita na nya si baby. Duedate ko is October pa :(
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