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Dating problems with my boyfriend HELP!!!!!!!

Guys more than 2 years na kami ng boyfriend ko and hanggang ngayon lagi kong pinoproblema yung pagiging late niya sa mga lakad/date namin... Nung una hindi naman siya ganon dati siya lagi nauuna sa date hindi niya ako pinaghihintay ng matagal para bang excited niya akong makita pero ngayon nag bago na sya, lagi na siyang late tapos parang hindi na siya interested sa mga lakad namin. Ano ibig sabihin non? I need your opinions specially guys.

Btw, hindi nman aq boring kasama lagi nga aq nagpapatawa madaldal naman aq may sense of humor pag kasama ko sya.

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  • ehleesyanehleesyan PEx Moderator
    It's best to discuss this with your partner.

    Maaring nawalan ng gana, maaring na-traffic lang, o di kaya'y may problema na bumabagabag, o may hindi siya masabi sa iyo. Maraming posibleng rason, na mas mabuti na malaman mo direkta mula sa kanya.
  • lilyamlaclilyamlac PEx Rookie ⭐
    ehleesyan said:
    It's best to discuss this with your partner.

    Maaring nawalan ng gana, maaring na-traffic lang, o di kaya'y may problema na bumabagabag, o may hindi siya masabi sa iyo. Maraming posibleng rason, na mas mabuti na malaman mo direkta mula sa kanya.

    Yes na discuss ko na sa kanya ito, pero lagi niya sinasabi na "go with the flow" gusto daw niya na parang magkaibigan kami and lovers at the same time and lagi siya nag rereason out inutusan daw siya, etc., hindi ba dapat pag priority mo yung tao mas maaga ka magshow up sa date? kahit anong reason pa yan dahil excited kang makita mo siya? :(
  • nineteeskidnineteeskid PEx Rookie ⭐
    lilyamlac said:
    ehleesyan said:
    It's best to discuss this with your partner.

    Maaring nawalan ng gana, maaring na-traffic lang, o di kaya'y may problema na bumabagabag, o may hindi siya masabi sa iyo. Maraming posibleng rason, na mas mabuti na malaman mo direkta mula sa kanya.

    Yes na discuss ko na sa kanya ito, pero lagi niya sinasabi na "go with the flow" gusto daw niya na parang magkaibigan kami and lovers at the same time and lagi siya nag rereason out inutusan daw siya, etc., hindi ba dapat pag priority mo yung tao mas maaga ka magshow up sa date? kahit anong reason pa yan dahil excited kang makita mo siya? :(
    How old are you both? 
  • lilyamlaclilyamlac PEx Rookie ⭐
    I'm 22 his 23 y/o. i want to save our relationship pero should I talk to him about it? Not in good terms cool off kami ngayon eh o wait ko siyang gumawa ng paraan. :(
  • ryekyenryekyen PEx Rookie ⭐
    lilyamlac said:
    I'm 22 his 23 y/o. i want to save our relationship pero should I talk to him about it? Not in good terms cool off kami ngayon eh o wait ko siyang gumawa ng paraan. :(
    Gaano k tagal b sya late?oras ba?baka nman malayo dating place nio?anu ba pingkakaabalahan nya? It happened to me before..ayaw ko mauuna kc nkktamad mghintay..haha
  • lilyamlaclilyamlac PEx Rookie ⭐
    ryekyen said:
    lilyamlac said:
    I'm 22 his 23 y/o. i want to save our relationship pero should I talk to him about it? Not in good terms cool off kami ngayon eh o wait ko siyang gumawa ng paraan. :(
    Gaano k tagal b sya late?oras ba?baka nman malayo dating place nio?anu ba pingkakaabalahan nya? It happened to me before..ayaw ko mauuna kc nkktamad mghintay..haha
    30 mins late nope super lapit lng walking distance lng sa kanya yung place compare sken na kailangan pa mag commute.
  • lilyamlaclilyamlac PEx Rookie ⭐
    lilyamlac said:
    ehleesyan said:
    It's best to discuss this with your partner.

    Maaring nawalan ng gana, maaring na-traffic lang, o di kaya'y may problema na bumabagabag, o may hindi siya masabi sa iyo. Maraming posibleng rason, na mas mabuti na malaman mo direkta mula sa kanya.

    Yes na discuss ko na sa kanya ito, pero lagi niya sinasabi na "go with the flow" gusto daw niya na parang magkaibigan kami and lovers at the same time and lagi siya nag rereason out inutusan daw siya, etc., hindi ba dapat pag priority mo yung tao mas maaga ka magshow up sa date? kahit anong reason pa yan dahil excited kang makita mo siya? :(
    How old are you both? 
    I'm 22 his 23 y/o.
  • meowmeowmemeowmeowme PEx Moderator
    Baka he's not getting the same feels anymore. Kumbaga, he's just there pero wala na talaga? Have you two talked about it na na? Have you asked him why?
  • Ama-ronAma-ron Member PEx Rookie ⭐
    wag ka mag-assume masyado na kesyo nawalan na sya ng gana or what. Baka nga lang busy sya. If you really love him you have to be understanding rin. But who knows. Baka naging kampante na sya na kelangan di na sya mageffort to please you.
  • softysofty Member PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    lilyamlac said:
    I'm 22 his 23 y/o. i want to save our relationship pero should I talk to him about it? Not in good terms cool off kami ngayon eh o wait ko siyang gumawa ng paraan. :(
    Communicate. Try mo pa din iexpress yun concern or worry mo sa pagiging late nya as in you are not okay with it. If by your request na wag na syang ma late ng sobra sana and he still ignores it, then you know where you stand. If he's not concern on what makes you happy anymore - the end  :)

    To make a relationship working ,both of you have to PARTICIPATE. 
  • You do tha same
    Next time na meron kayong date
    Be late for an hour
    Give him  a taste of his own medicine 
  • kurdapskurdaps PEx Rookie ⭐
    Try mo sabihan na pag within 30 mins and wala pa siya uuwi ka haha tignan mo reaction niya. Kung mukhang okay lang lang sa kanya, may problem na sa relationship niyo.
  • ethan911ethan911 Member PEx Rookie ⭐
    Naisuko na ba ang Bataan?
    Truth be told it usually happens to men who only go for this kind of thing.
    Excited sa courting kasi di pa naconquer ang Bataan.
    Pero after that, boom ayaw na.
  • panis_na_putopanis_na_puto Member PExer
    Ang taong madalas huli sa usapan ay WALANG MODO, WALANG PINAG-ARALAN.

    Kung ako ang ginaganito: deal breaker ito. HIWALAYAN NA!
  • palaging nale.late sa date? haha ako yan. matiisin lang talaga gf ko kaya balewala lang yun sa kanya nung una pero madalas nagrereklamo na sya na palagi nalang akong late. sinasabi nya na sakin kalaunan na kung hindi pa daw ako darating in 15mins or 30mins watever, uuwi na sya. kaya kapag sinasabi na nya yun, nagmamadali na ako para d ma.late.

    yung pagiging late sa date, hindi naman dahil meron akong iba or wala na akong love sa kanya. parang tamad lang kasi ako maligo tsaka magbihis ganun. umabot din ako sa point na kampante na ako. na hindi na ako naeexcite sa mga lakad namin pero hindi nman ibig sabihin nun hindi ko na sya love. 

    always remember love is not about all the excitement and fun. u have to go thru such different phases in ur relationship and thats the challenge there - how to stay in love.

    u have to love and accept the changes thats happening. kung wala syang iba, edi wala. kung meron, ehdi alam mo na kung bakit nagkakaganyan sya. 


  • Decide what you want, what kind of marriage. 
  • by the way, I can advise you to look for women for relationships through dating sites.
  • Have you tried such methods?
  • SlasserSlasser PExer
    edited August 11
    Decide what you want, what kind of marriage. I can advise you to look for women for relationships through dating sites. It is easy and simple. You can see the woman's profiles through https://www.wantmatures.com/ and choose the appropriate option.
  • fidesrepuntefidesrepunte Member PExer
    If you want to know more about your relationship with your boyfriend, go read Cosmopoiltan Philippines Magazine. I swear, you and him will go a long way. Hey, maybe you both will end up in marriage.  

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