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12 years relationship for nothing.

I'm 29years old and a mom of two boys. Hindi kami kasal ni hubby, magtwo two years pa lang kami na nagsasama sa Bahay. Before ang set up namin dun sya nakatira sa kanila and ako at mga anak ko sa parents ko then nagdecide narin na bumukod na.

So eto na yung problem ko…. Las week lang may nagmessage sakin saying na Ang asawa ko ay may kinalolokohang babae sa opisina nila. Ater ng mahabang tanungan nagmessage na rin sakin yung "GIRL" knwento nya lahat how it started ganyan ganyan, ang pakilala daw ng asawa ko is Single Dad sya etc.

Sobrang sakit, namanhid yungbuo kong katawan and hindi na ako nkapag trabaho ng maayos, kinagabihan kinompronta ko sya and yun nanahimik lang sya tintingnan nya lang ako umiyak ng umiyak, ni wala man lang explanation from him kung bakit nya ginawa yun.

I wanted na makipaghiwalay na talaga. Ang iniisip ko lang yung mga anak ko and relatives namin. I just need some advices from you guys, sobrang ma appreciate ko yun. Salamat! :)

Comments

  • IronHandofJusticeIronHandofJustice Member PEx Guru 🎖️🎖️
    ^ Leave him. Your man doesn't have remorse or humility to admit his fault. Move on to the next chapter of your life. Bata ka pa, you can find a new partner. 
  • psykz27psykz27 PEx Rookie ⭐
    Hey, its my first time in this forum (mostly sports related lang ako nagrereply and lurker lang dito), this time I can really relate and I would feel guilty kung di ko mashashare etong experience ko.

    But first, can you answer me the following questions:

    1. Is this the first incident that you found out na nag cheat sya sayo? If no, can you share a little bit of what happened sa last incident.
    2. Is it a mutual decision na di pa kayo kasal? If not, sino ang may ayaw.
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    "tintingnan nya lang ako umiyak ng umiyak"

    Binigyan mo sana sya ng trophy na available sa bahay nyo...  =)
  • lilyamlaclilyamlac PEx Rookie ⭐
    Maybe hindi pa sya ready mag settle down although may anak na kayo, I think it's best to have someone you deserve.

    May family na sya and may bigger responsibility na,dpat alam na niya yun, hindi na dpat siya lumandi sa iba.
  • ethan911ethan911 PEx Rookie ⭐
    Manuod ka po ng Raffy Tulfo in Action, a lot of cases same as yours.
    Basta may evidence ka sa asawa mo pwedeng pwede mo ipakulong ang mga hayup na yan.
    Kung kailangan ng stable financial support ng mga anak mo, gamitin mo ung bargaining chip para ma force mag support sa mga anak mo. Mas maganda kung di mo sya kailangan sa buhay mo, ipakulong mo na agad.

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