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Blocked by her - Need advice

Hello. I'm new here.
My situation is like this... Nakilala ko si girl na teacher sa probinsya na kinaroroonan ko ngayon (basically dito na ako nakatira). Pinakilala sya ng tito ko sa akin and I added her on FB. Pero hindi ko pa siya niligawan kasi I really want to be friends with her muna. I never had the chance to be friends with her since hindi ko alam bahay nila at nakikita ko lang sya tuwing Sunday sa church (Chapel). Everytime na magkakasalubong or kakausapin ko sya after church ay nagmamadali syang umuwi (May scooter kasi sya.). Bihira sya magreply sa FB messenger. And never ko pa nakuha number niya since mahina ang signal sa barrio nila kaya sa messenger lang ako umaasa. And that's why hindi ko pa siya masyadong kilala. But when I'm scrolling on my FB, nakikita ko recent post nya nang hindi sinasadya. Kaya napapa-react or like na lang ako sa post nya.
And just last month, nagsesend ako ng message sa messenger nya. Hindi na sya nag-rereply because I see only "Sent", not "Received". So ibig sabihin, either "Archived" or "Ignore" message ko sa kanya.
Recently, it was Teachers Day and there was a gathering of the town's teachers. Sinamahan ko yung pinsan ko na teacher din. At sa hindi sinasadya, I saw her nung pauwi kami. I did greet her and said "Happy Teachers Day!" We chat a little bit habang nag-aabang sila ng tricycle pauwi. And then I told her na bibigyan ko sya ng gift for today's occasion (Teachers Day). I've decided to give her a gift which I made. A greeting card for Teacher's Day and some chocolates and a paper rose which I made too.. I asked my tito to give me a lift on his tricycle. Hindi namin alam kung saan ang bahay nila kaya nagtanong kami sa mga kakilala ng tito ko since maliit lang yung lugar at magkakakilala naman sila. And yes, we found their house. Bumisita ako and I gave her the gifts. Nahihiya pa ako kasi andun yung parents nya. Sabi nya hindi nya ine-expect yung gift ko para sa kanya. But I explained to her naman about sa sinabi ko earlier. We chat a little bit. But mostly tahimik siya. And wrong timing ako kasi they were cooking dinner. So I've decided na umuwi na lang. Kasi nahiya naman ako at may ginagawa pa sila. Nagpaalam na ako and told her that I'll see her on Sunday sa church (chapel). After that, hindi ko sya na-chat sa messenger kasi nga "Sent", not "Received" lang ang message ko.
Kinabukasan, I opened my FB, I was scrolling sa "Stories" ng FB friends ko (You know, the 24 hours post then madedelete after). Sa hindi sinasadya, I saw her posted in her Story yung gift na binigay ko sa kanya. Wow! Natuwa naman ako. I sent her a "Like" reaction even though I know na hindi nya ito titignan sa message nya.
Then it was church day. I saw her, nag "Hi" ako sa kanya, but like any other Sunday, nagmamadali syang umuwi. So we never chat that much.
And yesterday, I was scrolling my FB again. Sa di sinasadya, nakita ko ulit post nya. Syempre nag-react ako or "Love" reaction (I do Like and Love reaction sa post nya). After a few hours, I checked my FB messenger para mag-delete ng messages. Nang makita ko yung sa kanya, I checked it out. Just so happened na nabasa ko na lang... "You can't reply to this conversation". I tried to view her profile, but "Trouble Loading Timeline". Then I asked my tito to check if nabro-browse pa nya si girl since FB friends din sila. He still can. But to me, I know naka-block ako sa kanya.
I don't know why kung bakit ako naka-block na sa kanya. I really like this girl. Pa-help naman kung ano dapat kong gawin.

Comments

  • NilsNils Hunter PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    You creeped her or her parents out. 

    Blocking you means ayaw nya ng connection sa iyo. Let her be. Maghanap ka na lang ng iba.
  • Nils said:
    You creeped her or her parents out. 

    Blocking you means ayaw nya ng connection sa iyo. Let her be. Maghanap ka na lang ng iba.
    Creeped her out in what way?
  • Kent_210Kent_210 Member PEx Guru 🎖️🎖️

    Hindi ka niya gusto at yung mga ginagawa mo. It is what it is. Maybe try something different? Don't use FB maybe?

    Normal naman na hindi ka kaagad magugustuhan ng tao pero nagbabago yan depende sa pakikitungo mo sa kanya.

     



  • enchiladasenchiladas Don't blink. PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Sorry. She doesn’t like you, hence, the avoidance. Hey, at least you tried. 

    Pero kinilig din yun dahil pinost nya pa sa FB yung regalo mo. 
  • Nils said:
    You creeped her or her parents out. 

    Blocking you means ayaw nya ng connection sa iyo. Let her be. Maghanap ka na lang ng iba.
    Creeped her out in what way?
    Di na mahalaga kung paano. Ang mahalaga ay AYAW NIYA SA IYO. Kaya huwag mo nang ipagpilit! Marami namang ibang babae!
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer soundscapes PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    she does not like you. 'di ka niya type. 

    whether you have followed all the "protocols" or not, regardless if you messed up or not, walang bearing kung ayaw niya sa iyo in the first place. not your fault. and neither her fault. 

    kasi kung type ka niya kahit pa nagkalat ka, ang epekto lang niyan magkakaroon ng delay sa proseso. but eventually puwedeng mahulog sa iyo. 

    friendly advice: maghanap ng bagong target, hindi kasya lifespan ng tao sa dami ng babae. at tigilan na 'yang pag rely sa FB. nawawala na ang art sa pag diskarte. 
  • tidgetidge lie and die PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kurips ka daw... meron naman daw flower shop malapit sa kanila...

    paper roses.... paper roses...
  • aiden_corbin_daxaiden_corbin_dax PEx Rookie ⭐
    naging advance din siguro pagbibigay ng gifts na magpapahiwatig ng iyong romantic interest..

    tinuloy mo na lang din sana yung pagiging friends lang muna minus the gift/s.. may mga girls kasi na naki creep out pag binibigyan ng regalo, mas nagugustuhan nila yung time n binibigay mo keysa sa mga material things.. again, depende rin sa type ng girl..

    pero, napaisip lang ako kung baka mayron ding bf or nagugustuhan n iba yung girl..di kaya? 

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