Dilemma with my ex girlfriend

Hi guys! Gusto ko lang humingi ng advice sa inyo kung anong dapat gawin. Here's the story. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up last April. From then until now we were working really hard para magkabalikan kami. Pero last June lang I found out na meron siyang account sa isang online dating site, she was honest naman about that pero meron siyang nilihim sa akin which I found out later on na meron siyang naka sex na guy dun.

Personally I was hurt but I understand naman she's technically single and she can do whatever she wants, back then medyo nag alangan na ko if she still serious of getting back together. 3 months passed yesterday lang nagconfess siya sa akin na meron nanaman siyang nakasex na guy. Nagalit na ko at ang dahilan niya dun wala na daw siyang sexual desire sa akin. It tears me apart seriously sasabihin mo sa akin yun at gagawin mo sa ibang guy habang winowork on natin yung relationship. For me I felt disrespected parang di niya vinalue yung relationship na inaayos namin. Help me naman guys. Is it still worth it to have her back or just leave her and move on? Thank you so much guys!

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  • LTLT Member PEx Guru ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
    Move on and have sex with other girls also.  Just make sure to wear rubber.  Who knows if your ex practiced safe sex with them (sorry to mention that); mamaya madamay ka pa sa possible unhealthy lifestyles nila

    Stop being so enamored with your ex.  Mukhang ikaw lang naman gusto makipagbalikan at hindi sha.  Let her go man, and enjoy your life too ;)
  • fektusfektus Member PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    MOVE ON.

    all caps yan para intense.  =)
  • NilsNils Hunter PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    "Nagalit na ko at ang dahilan niya dun wala na daw siyang sexual desire sa akin."

    Nampowtah! Sinabihan ka na ng ganyan tapos kailangan mo pa magtanong kung dapat mo bang mag-give up sa ex-jowa mo? :lol:
    Hindi naman sa sinisipa ko pa yung nakahandusay na, pero dude, niyurakan na yung pagkalalake mo, ume-emo ka pa? :lol: Hindi na ako nagtatakang nasabi nya yun!
  • shayukizxcshayukizxc Member PEx Rookie ⭐
    Nakakababa ng self confidence at pride yon kapag sinabihan ka ng ganun! HAHA
    Kung ako sa situation mo, wag mo nang habulin. obvious na obvious naman.
    OO MAHAL na MAHAL mo. andun na tayo. Pero sa tingin mo tama pa ba? lolokohin mo lang sarili mo diyan.

    May times na magpaparamdam yan sayo pero wag ka maging marupok. MAN UP! Umiwas kana. Pakita mo rin naman value mo.
  • migz@70x7[email protected] Member PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    @ShakenBlake
    If it turns out that you two be okay again, alam mo na kung ano mangyayari. Ihanda mo sarili mo sa mga heart-breaking moments pa more. Kung kaya mo naman syang i-let go na, then do it as early as now.
  • enostrenostr PEx Rookie ⭐
    Hi guys! Gusto ko lang humingi ng advice sa inyo kung anong dapat gawin. Here's the story. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up last April. From then until now we were working really hard para magkabalikan kami. Pero last June lang I found out na meron siyang account sa isang online dating site, she was honest naman about that pero meron siyang nilihim sa akin which I found out later on na meron siyang naka sex na guy dun.

    Personally I was hurt but I understand naman she's technically single and she can do whatever she wants, back then medyo nag alangan na ko if she still serious of getting back together. 3 months passed yesterday lang nagconfess siya sa akin na meron nanaman siyang nakasex na guy. Nagalit na ko at ang dahilan niya dun wala na daw siyang sexual desire sa akin. It tears me apart seriously sasabihin mo sa akin yun at gagawin mo sa ibang guy habang winowork on natin yung relationship. For me I felt disrespected parang di niya vinalue yung relationship na inaayos namin. Help me naman guys. Is it still worth it to have her back or just leave her and move on? Thank you so much guys!
    Move on ka na par.

    Judging by your story alone, I suspect na manipulative itong GF mo, She can keep it to herself yet she is openly telling you this kind of things tingin ko yung objective niya is to break you down.

    Get up and move on, don't try to water dead plants.
  • tidgetidge lie and die PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    tanong mo naman yung details tapos share mo dito  =)
  • Just MOVE ON. I don't think she still have plans of saving the relationship. Don't waste your time on her. Sometimes, the process is painful and hard... but in the end, yung mga ganitong experiences... you'll realize na God wants you to be tougher and stronger. Sana nakahanap kana ng new girl na mamahalin mo :)
  • alchemistofophiralchemistofophir Christian Communist PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    edited June 10
    isipin mo kung bakit nya kinukwento sa yo yung mga sex activities nya.. para ba pagselosin ka sobra kasi tingin nya attached ka pa rin sa kanya? o ineengganyo ka ba rin na gumaya sa kanya na magkaroon ng gf kaagad o sex life habang naghahanap ka?

    pero kahit sa anong anggulo mo tignan, ex mo na sya. so wala na dapat attachments kahit ikwento nya sa yo na nagtriple DP sya at yung 3 lalake nyang nameet sa dating site.

    B) B) B)
    .V.. ..I..
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer soundscapes PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    okay lang kung gusto mo pa rin siyang isipin 24/7. walang makakapigil sa iyo. as long as hindi apektado ang mga iba mong gawain araw-araw sa study, work, rest, recreation, etc.

    pag na maintain mo na ganyan, magkakaroon na rin ng natural death 'yang feelings mo sa kanya. until eventually naaalala mo pa siya pero feeling okay ka na. 

    sayang ang panahon. 65 to 70 na lang ang lifespan natin. maghanap ka na ng bagong hello kitty. 🐱 yung medyo malaman na hello kitty para masarap laro-laruin. 🙀🤣🤣🤣

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