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I badly need Help... (suicidal)

yendish0132yendish0132 Member
Sa mga online sana matulungan nyo ako or mabigyan ng payo. I'm really serious about this one... I'm 25 y.o actually still living with my parents. My mother and I got in a fight dahil ayaw nya sa GF ko because of family background and religion(born again si gf)... And my mother is controlling me so much  because of it sobrang close minded niya about this issue and the way na makakapag ayos kami is to break with my gf. My mother forbids me going to manila , cause my gf lives in manila. My father  is neutral with my situation, OFW kasi kaya wala sa bahay. While my brothers are collaborating against me kasi saakin kasi ipapamana yung mga ari arian kasi ako bunso... They are doing my best para siraan ako sa parents ko...  Now my problem is this Is it reasonable to leave home without a consent. I tried na maglayas and pinipigilan talaga ako ng mom ko. Yung bag ko nakaimpake na talaga. Yet araw araw na lang niya ako inaaway. Sobrang Toxic same issue palagi. Never naman ako sumagot sa mga magulang ko. Lahat ng gusto nila sinunod ko hanggang sa pag tanda ko. It seems na pati sa taong mahal ko kokontrolin nila ako. Right now I just resigned with my 3 year job in the academe dito sa province(IT instructor) I also work before as a Software Engineer sa manila for a year. May ipon naman ako na 300,000 sa banko pero ayun lang wala trabaho ngayon. I plan to go back being an I.T pero mag entry level muna ulit.Sobrang mahal ko yung gf ko and im willing to lose everything for her. She is working as a teacher at makati btw.  Now hihingi ako ng payo mga sirs/mam should I leave home without consent kasi alam kong di naman nila ako papayagan kahit mag paalam ako. or hiwalayan ko si GF (1 year na pala kami BTW lagi patago). Hayyy life is so unfair. sana matulungan nyo ako mga sirs/mam. pagod na talaga ako s bahay kasi sobrang toxic na... na naiisip ko na pakamatay minsan

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  • pusang_miyawpusang_miyaw ask.fm/pusangmiyaw ✭✭✭
    I dont know about your love life or about your family issues. Pero about pagbubukod, you're an adult now so YES pwede ka na bumukod anytime. Kung ayaw mong ma-control then umalis ka na sa poder ng magulang mo.
  • I can't agree more to @pusang_miyaw. The fact that you have savings you can already start on your own. Move out and detox yourself from the negativity you are experiencing. Suicide is NEVER the solution to any of your problem. And it's not a joke. I'm really sorry to hear about your situation by the way. There is so much more to live your life for. And all problems are temporary. It will all pass. Sooner or later what you're having will be a memory that you will look back to. Use that emotion to make yourself stronger and inspiration to prove yourself and your family that you are capable of making your own decision. You should pray sincerely and ask for guidance and strength. Good luck to you. :) 
  • panis_na_putopanis_na_puto Member ✭✭✭
    25 taong gulang MAGSARILI ka na! Huwag pabigat sa magulang!
  • Suicide will only worsen things. You will leave your family and girlfriend devastated. Iwasan mong isipin yan. Ganito nalang, timbangin mo ang sitwasyon mo. Alam ko mahirap kasi pareho mong mahal ang involved. Pero deep in your mind and heart, alam mo kung ano talaga ang gusto mo. subukan mong magtoss coin. Tao para kay mama mo, agila para sa girlfriend mo. Kapag ano man ang result at you find yourself unhappy sa result, malalaman mo kung ano pala talaga ang gusto mo. 
  • piquanteyepiquanteye Member ✭✭✭
    edited May 20
    Malaki at may trabaho ka na.. Isn't it the right time para bumukod ka na and follow what you want? follow your heart.




  • phillyphilly Member ✭✭✭
    edited May 21
    just because you disagree with your Mom, you think of ending your life? do not even think about doing it. ang daming mas mabibigat na problema. 

    leave the house if you have to. matanda ka na. find a solution to your problems. that is how life is. unfair sometimes. nobody is exempted.

    but in the end, try to find a way to communicate with your Mom and come to an understanding and respect for each other. she only want what is best for you. kahit sumosobra sya minsan, that is not such a bad thing.
  • migz@70x7[email protected] Member ✭✭
    You`re at the right age para bumukod. Desisyon mo rin kung paninindigan mo ang gf mo kung gusto mo talaga. Now sa pamana, well may karapatan ka sa mana dahil anak ka bali-baligtarin man ang mundo. Pero, on the contrary, may punto rin ang mother mo kasi they`ve been there. Napagdaanan na nila yan kaya `wag mo rin isawalang bahala.

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