Majority Ba Ng Pinoys Walang Goals sa Buhay?!
sushihunk26
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in Buhay Pinoy
I kept on hearing fellow pinoys say "Kunteto na ko sa buhay ko, simpleng buhay." Does this mean a lot of them do not aspire for a better life? Yun kasi napansin ko a lot of pinoys don't strive harder and mas maganda pa gumimik kesa maghunt ng better opportunities. Much better uminom kesa iimprove ang skills.
It really affects our country, the Philippines as a whole. Marami ding nagpapamilya pero hindi naman kayang buhayin. What does simple life really mean? Yung wala ka ng pera and pampagamot man lang wala ka as a pinoy?
Or you just spend your money like there's no tomorrow.
It really affects our country, the Philippines as a whole. Marami ding nagpapamilya pero hindi naman kayang buhayin. What does simple life really mean? Yung wala ka ng pera and pampagamot man lang wala ka as a pinoy?
Or you just spend your money like there's no tomorrow.
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Actually those people who are in the area of upper class and those people who are in lower class ay magkaiba ng pananaw sa buhay. ang mga nasa high class families, magpapayaman muna sila bago ikasal.. pero ang mga nasa lower class, iba din pananaw sa buhay.
What makes you think that being in a relationship completes a person? :glee:
Eto yung gusto kong ma-develop, yung makuntento na sa buhay. Oftentimes, palagi akong may goal or gusto ma-achieve, it stressed me out sometimes. At the end of the day, kahit ma-achieve mo yung mas magandang career, better salary, bigger house, buy all material things... stressed ka pa din naman eh. So anong point?
Worry ko lang, hindi ba boring ang buhay pag kuntento ka na?
Tandaan natin na ang kaligayahan ay nasa isip at wala sa nakamit sa buhay. Ang buhay ay lakbay at hindi patutunguan. Ang taong walang "kontento sa buhay" ay pangit ang buhay dahil hindi maligaya.
Si tatang ang best example ng kuntento na sa buhay base sa mga posts niya. Wala masama diyan dahil na-achieve na niya malamang yung gusto niya sa buhay.
Yung personality na pino portray ni D1ckie dito ang walang karapatang sabihin na "kuntento na siya sa buhay".
In short, mapanghusga lang ang Pinoy. Porke't matalino nung college at nakuntento na sa simpleng buhay, sasabihin agad, "sayang naman, hindi na nagpursige", pero hindi natin alam yung tunay na dahilan.
Yung valedictorian namin nung HS, kuntento na siya na pagiging aktibista (maayos ang ang kanyang adbokasiya, tungkol sa pagsasaayos ng environment). I saw her once sa TV, nainterview siya. I don't think she is making good money out of it but I can tell na natagpuan na niya yung passion niya.
Sabi nga nung author ng "Start With Why", lahat ng tao ay may passion, pero hindi sa iisang bagay.
kung gusto nila sa kubo tumira at humuli ng isda sa ilog, whats wrong with that.
ang masama eh yung mamemerwisyo ka ng iba.
magaanak ka ng sampu tapos ipagagastos mo sa gobyerno (taxpayers money) lahat ng gastusin nyo.
itong simbahan anlakas mag paanak ng mga mahihirap as if nagpapalibre sioa ng binyag, kumpil at kasal, pati patay sinisingil nila.
kelangan maging responsable naman sila.
Basta natutupad ang iyong "values" ay ayos ka. Kung hindi may problema ka at dapat mo itong ayusin.
Pangarap o katayuan sa buhay o ano pa man ay hindi kasing halaga ng "values".
Masama ang kulang sa tulog. Masama rin ang sobra sa tulog:
Relationship goals - I just want to maintain healthy relationships with family and friends..
Kilay goals - Used to pluck my eyebrows, but I don't do it anymore :glee:
Career goals - I'm happy where I'm at and I just want to keep this job for the next 5 years or until the rapture
The same reason when some people say they feel complete without life-partner as long as they have their kids with them; some people say they feel complete as long as they have their families with them even when theyre struggling financially; some people say they feel complete because of their pets. Others feel complete when they have successful careers, able to buy all material things in life even without lovelife. So i think maybe some people feel complete being with the love of their lives even without the riches in the world because they are happy just like that.
It's an extreme situation when simple life means you have nothing for emergencies and no food on the table when building a family. Yes, it is a cliche but most of the people we know are experiencing this in the Philippines.
It's sad but simplicity is mostly define by some pinoys the wrong way. It's sad and pathetic.
Because they grew up that way and surrounded with people who have the same mindset. If they get to hangout with someone whos living a better life, i bet they would change their minds