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Nagkukwento ba kayo sa parents nyo tungkol sa love life nyo?

I have a daughter kasi na "growing up"na. She's turning 10 and I can feel she's now changing fast. She's been asking me some things about friendships, like what would I do if I've a friend na ganito, ganyan, which I enjoy hearing naman from her. Pero she never tells me anything about crushes, which I hear oftentimes from her girl classmates.

As a mom, I want to know everything kasi about my daughter's lif, more so, syempre if it concerns the opposite sex. I dunno if this is a legit request pero I just hope ganon sya ka open sa kin. I never opened anything up to my parents before, ewan ko rin kung bakit.

Kayo, do you tell your parents things about your love life? If not, why? Paano ba magiging "approachable" ang isang parent without appearing too nosy? Anu-ano ba ang mga gusto nyong gawin namin as parents para you will open up to us regarding your questions on boys, love relationships, or sex even? :rolleyes:
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  • KiTTY2babeKiTTY2babe Resident Feline PExer
    Sometimes I do, but I leave out the "nasty" details. I just want to share--not to be lectured on! What may be right to me may be wrong to her.

    It would help if parents would be more open-minded and stop comparing about their time and our time. Keep in mind that that was THEN, this is NOW and things have drastically changed since then.
  • crazy_fool_22crazy_fool_22 U wont SEE me CRY PExer
    i just tell my mom the decent and kilig part... but i leave out the intimate part...
  • dee-deedee-dee LORD PExer
    my mom asked me that question once if i am in love or if i have a boyfriend and all. i answered, "ma...be rest assured that i am not going to throw away my dreams and my life for anybody." end of the discussion. but that was a bitchy remark...my mom never asked me those questions again.
  • art727art727 Member ✭✭✭
    Originally posted by dee-dee
    my mom asked me that question once if i am in love or if i have a boyfriend and all. i answered, "ma...be rest assured that i am not going to throw away my dreams and my life for anybody." end of the discussion. but that was a bitchy remark...my mom never asked me those questions again.
    :rolleyes: Sana your mom will ask you again ....what are those dreams you are having and what kind of life you can offer to your love...hehehe
  • Originally posted by KiTTY2babe
    Sometimes I do, but I leave out the "nasty" details. I just want to share--not to be lectured on! What may be right to me may be wrong to her.

    It would help if parents would be more open-minded and stop comparing about their time and our time. Keep in mind that that was THEN, this is NOW and things have drastically changed since then.

    Yup, it's good if parents "update" themselves of what's going on and what the changes are so they can better understand the things that their kids are going through.

    ;)
  • namename .oOoOo. PExer
    Nope.

    I tell them the basic stuff.

    Nanliligaw lang si ganyan. Kami na. Hindi na kami.

    Pero other than that ... hindi na :)
  • Originally posted by name
    Nope.

    I tell them the basic stuff.

    Nanliligaw lang si ganyan. Kami na. Hindi na kami.

    Pero other than that ... hindi na :)

    Yup, ako rin ganon dati. I was hoping nga lang sana my relationsip with my daughter would be different, pero asa pa no? Syempre kids would have this impression na medyo dyahe... or something like that. :hiya:

    Anywayzzz.... ngayon ko rin lang na realize.... siguro my mom din before was hoping I'd open up more. Kasi I didn't know na talaga palang with age comes a wealth of experiences... kala ko non (honestly), my parents didn't know better... as in they couldn't understand. Ngayon I know na walang wala pala akong alam dati, compared to my parents, and that if I had only tried to tell them things, baka nga they would have understood.

    Hehe. Corny ba? Kasi naman mom na ko... medyo senti nga lang.... :flower:
  • namename .oOoOo. PExer
    Fairy : Siguro rin kaya hindi ako maka open up sa parents ko .. parang unreachable ng dating nila sa akin eh. Feeling ko rin wala silang pakialam .. hehehe :) And minsan, kaunting kwento ko palang .. biglang sermon na yung aabutin ko. Kaya mas pinili ko nalang na hindi magkwento.

    Pero I've seen parents who talk to their kids about anything. And sobrang nakakainggit. Parang they treat their kids as friends and vice versa. I guess, you just have to be your daughter's (girl sya right? :) ) best friend.
  • RoyalAssassinRoyalAssassin Inculpated CradleSnatcher PExer
    mahirap kasi 'pag lalake eh. lalo na 'pag malaki 'yung gap ninyo ng mom mo. lalo na kami ng mom ko, eh madalas kami mag-away. mayroon kasi kaming sari-sariling mundo.

    pero, sometimes, we find ends meet. nagkakausap naman kami ng masinsinan aboutlittle stuff. pero _bihira_ ako mag-open. siya 'yung nagtatanong. madalas, ginagawa niya 'yung 'pag naririnig niyang may kausap akong girl. hindi naman ako magtatago sa kanya, siyempre. pero hindi ko lang talaga inoopen sa kanya 'yung topic, hinahayaan ko siyang magtanong.
  • Originally posted by RoyalAssassin
    mahirap kasi 'pag lalake eh. lalo na 'pag malaki 'yung gap ninyo ng mom mo. lalo na kami ng mom ko, eh madalas kami mag-away. mayroon kasi kaming sari-sariling mundo.

    pero, sometimes, we find ends meet. nagkakausap naman kami ng masinsinan aboutlittle stuff. pero _bihira_ ako mag-open. siya 'yung nagtatanong. madalas, ginagawa niya 'yung 'pag naririnig niyang may kausap akong girl. hindi naman ako magtatago sa kanya, siyempre. pero hindi ko lang talaga inoopen sa kanya 'yung topic, hinahayaan ko siyang magtanong.

    Talaga yatang mas hindi open ang guys, lalo na sa mom nila... talaga bang ganun? Buti na lang babae ang anak ko. ;)
  • RoyalAssassinRoyalAssassin Inculpated CradleSnatcher PExer
    siguro. malamang. probably. :lol:

    pero kadalasan naman 'yung mga mom namin eh kaunting bagay lang eh mang-aasar na o kaya gagawa na ng issue... "oy! kayo na ba ni ... ?" "nililigawan mo ba si ... ?" :lol:
  • ^moonface^^moonface^ ewan ko na lang!!! PExer
    uhm... open ako sa kanya with everything pero pagdating sa lovelife, hindi... ayaw niya na magkaroon ako nito e... e ngayon, meron akong significant other, and nakikiramdam pa ako kung kelan ko sasabihin... sasabihan ko pa rin siya kahit alam kong may masasabi siya... lagi kaming ganito pag lovelife ang usapan... hindi ko maintindihan kung bakit takot na takot siya, sila ng tatay ko... wala pa akong ginagawa takot na sila... lalo na siguro ngayon... o well... :bop:
  • rains_delightrains_delight Banned by Admin PExer
    Tanungin daw si rains_delight... of course not. :no: di pwede. alam mo naman mommy shyra ang situation namin. Hindi kami pwedeng ikasal kasi magkaiba kami ng religion. :glee:

    even before, :no: duh! I dont tell them my secrets.
  • Originally posted by rains_delight
    Tanungin daw si rains_delight... of course not. :no: di pwede. alam mo naman mommy shyra ang situation namin. Hindi kami pwedeng ikasal kasi magkaiba kami ng religion. :glee:

    even before, :no: duh! I dont tell them my secrets.


    Hehehe :hiya: Hirap talaga pag magkaiba ang religion... :lovers:

    Pero kung ako ang mom mo, tanggap na tanggap ko... :tinyangel:

    Oh well... siguro prayers will make everything alright in the end... :sunflower:
  • Originally posted by ^moonface^
    uhm... open ako sa kanya with everything pero pagdating sa lovelife, hindi... ayaw niya na magkaroon ako nito e... e ngayon, meron akong significant other, and nakikiramdam pa ako kung kelan ko sasabihin... sasabihan ko pa rin siya kahit alam kong may masasabi siya... lagi kaming ganito pag lovelife ang usapan... hindi ko maintindihan kung bakit takot na takot siya, sila ng tatay ko... wala pa akong ginagawa takot na sila... lalo na siguro ngayon... o well... :bop:

    Wala pa kasi ako sa stage na medyo pwede nang magka-boyfriend ang anak ko e. Pero if that time comes, sa tingin ko, I'll also be scared !

    Kasi, it's not that we don't trust the young people. kaya lang we know how LOVE is and the vulnerability to do something because of love.... You know, like giving in to impulses and eventually getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant. O, may mag re react... ;)

    As I've said, no matter how much we trust our children, nandyan pa rin kasi ang danger of people being impulsive... baka lang ganon kaya medyo "concerned" sila and scared of you having relationships... and they wanna know.

    I guess you should tell them that there's already a significant other. Mabuti na yon para open ka sa kanila. I believe it'[s how you carry the relationship naman, and it's a chance for you to show them that you're a better person with her around... :angel:
  • nakikipost_po!!nakikipost_po!! witch,w/ capital B PExer
    kung ako lang, di ako nagkukwento. mejo ksi they belong sa "old school" eh, so i doubt they will understand. pero eventually, nalalaman din nila, with the help of my lil bro. haaayyyy...

    seriously, kung magkakaroon ako ng kid, gusto ko open sha sa akin about it. kami ksi ng nanay ko, mejo malayo agwat namin eh, (m turnin 22 tapos sha turnin 54) siguro dala na rin ng nabuong "takot" ko sa kanya ever since i was a kid kaya medyo di ako open sa kanya.
  • crazybeautifulcrazybeautiful state of paranoia PExer
    :spinstar: yeah, i do tell my parents about my love life. im so open with them about relationships. well, i don't tell them every single detail about the relationship but at least, they know who im going out with and they trust me with my boyfriend. i tell them these things coz i don't want to give them any reason not to trust me or to doubt me. :spinstar:
  • levi19levi19 the cute chemist PExer
    hmmm...
    i do share my lovelife... kasi para maturuan nila ako kung papano harapin ang mga problems...and ang mga bagay na makapapag-grow sa isang romantic relationship...

    :D
  • RoyalAssassinRoyalAssassin Inculpated CradleSnatcher PExer
    Originally posted by nakikipost_po!!
    kami ksi ng nanay ko, mejo malayo agwat namin eh, (m turnin 22 tapos sha turnin 54)

    buti ka pa nga eh... eh ako 18, ermat ko 62 na!
  • the_FLYthe_FLY F*ck Off Jack*ss!!! PExer
    Very rarely...i'm not open with my parents...heck my friends know me more than my parents...i'm not really close with my parents...heck i'm not really close with anyone...

    "Embrace The Darkness"
    :evilgrin:
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