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Weird ex boyfriend

I had this terrible heartache with my ex.
I was really in love with him. He's funny, sweet, cute and caring. But everything gradually fade. Until everything turned out messy. He almost lose respect for me, and then chase another girl. I left him for my own good. It was too painful for me. I then kept myself busy, find a new job, meet new friends and eat what I want (that's why I gained so much weight:lol:) It took long time before I recovered my pain over him. It's been a year now. Til I met this new guy.

I'm in a relationship with him now for 4 months and then there's my ex, showing up some drama. He says he regret everything he's done. Been thinking about me even though he's already with his girlfriend(the one he chase before we gone off) and tell me I am different. Hindi nya raw maramdaman sa girlfriend nya yung naramdaman nya sa akin.

It's just ironic that all of a sudden naisip nya yun. Is it because they just didn't work out so he intentionally decided to miss me, or he just really realized he still love me after he found out na may boyfriend na ako.

I admit, I'm still affected somehow. I actually cried after he confessed (though I'm not convinced)
The pain got back. And I'm not having proper sleep since that day.

I love my new relationship. Everything is organized and he loves me, but honestly it's not as happy as my relationship with my ex.
I'm not planning to cheat on my boyfriend but this is really bothering me..
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  • true_orangetrue_orange PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Ano ba yan happiness with your ex na hindi mafulfill ng current bf mo?

    Anyway, magulo utak ng ex mo, immature pa siya. Huwag ka maniwala sa kanya, naghahanap lang yan ng damay. See, nagugulo na rin tuloy utak mo ngayon.

    Selfish din yan ex mo. Ayaw niya makita na mas naging maayos at peaceful ang buhay mo after niyo maghiwalay.
  • Tourjack10Tourjack10 PEx Rookie ⭐
    Iwan mo na ex mo... linilib0g lang yan at namimiss yung ano mo. :glee:

    Dyan ka na lang sa bago mo.
  • depende kung sino sa kanila ang talagang makakapagbigay sa iyo ng kaligayahan. ikaw pa rin ang mamimili sa bandang huli, marahil naisip din niya na mali ang ginawa niyang pambababae. Pero baka ang totoo niyan ay baka ayaw na sa kanya ng babae, at naisip ka niyang balikan dahil wala na siyang babae sa ngayon.

    alamin mo muna ang totoo at isipin ang dapat mong gawin, mahirap din kung napipilitan ka lang sa isa. kung magdedeisyon ka yung tipong ikakaligaya mo,hindi basta naawa ka lang o napilitan. tingnan mo kung ano talaga ang gusto mong mangyari.
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    patay na alam na sino mas magaling. :glee:
  • jecjaburnsjecjaburns PEx Rookie ⭐
    hahaha, gusto lang bumalik sayo ni ex mo kasi gusto nya magparaos sayo, iba ka daw siguro, after nyan makatapos iiwasan ka uli nyan balik na lang uli pag kailangan. wag mo na kausapin yan ex mo at magugulo lang bago mong relasyon.
  • kung mas napapasaya siya ng bago, hindi na niya maiisip yung dati.
  • Newbie_101Newbie_101 🐯 Tiger Squad🥈
    jannacake wrote: »
    I had this terrible heartache with my ex.
    I was really in love with him. He's funny, sweet, cute and caring. But everything gradually fade. Until everything turned out messy. He almost lose respect for me, and then chase another girl. I left him for my own good. It was too painful for me. I then kept myself busy, find a new job, meet new friends and eat what I want (that's why I gained so much weight:lol:) It took long time before I recovered my pain over him. It's been a year now. Til I met this new guy.

    I'm in a relationship with him now for 4 months and then there's my ex, showing up some drama. He says he regret everything he's done. Been thinking about me even though he's already with his girlfriend(the one he chase before we gone off) and tell me I am different. Hindi nya raw maramdaman sa girlfriend nya yung naramdaman nya sa akin.

    It's just ironic that all of a sudden naisip nya yun. Is it because they just didn't work out so he intentionally decided to miss me, or he just really realized he still love me after he found out na may boyfriend na ako.

    I admit, I'm still affected somehow. I actually cried after he confessed (though I'm not convinced)
    The pain got back. And I'm not having proper sleep since that day.

    I love my new relationship. Everything is organized and he loves me, but honestly it's not as happy as my relationship with my ex.
    I'm not planning to cheat on my boyfriend but this is really bothering me..

    Ano tanga lang? Babalik ka sa taong nanakit sayo kasi hindi mo maramdaman yung "saya" na binigay ng ex mo?

    Malamang ginawa sa kanya nung ex GF niya yung ginawa niya sayo kaya narealize niya na balik na lang siya sayo, nasa isip niya isa kang reserved GF, tanga lang ang babalik sa nakaraan at mas malaking katangahan ang isipin na kaya ka babalik kasi "mas masaya" ka nung panahon mo sa kanya.
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    magparaos ka muna bago ka magisip... mas makakapag desisyon ka ng maayos. :glee:
  • NilsNils PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Knee jerk reaction lang yan ni ex nung nalaman na may bf ka na. Teritoryo nya yung katawan mo, pag-aari nya, walang ibang dapat makatikim, sya lang. Kaya yan bumabalik at gumagawa ng drama.
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    6 8 12

    Ooh, ooh

    Do you ever think about me?
    Do you ever cry yourself to sleep?
    In the middle of the night when you're awake
    Are you calling out for me?
    Do you ever reminisce?
    I can't believe I'm acting like this
    I know it's crazy
    How I still can feel your kiss

    It's been six months, eight days, twelve hours
    Since you went away
    I miss you so much and I don't know what to say
    I should be over you
    I should know better but it's just not the case
    It's been six months, eight days, twelve hours
    Since you went away

    Do you ever ask about me?
    Do your friends still tell you what to do?
    Every time the phone rings
    Do you wish it was me calling you?
    Do you still feel the same?
    Or has time put out the flame?
    I miss you is everything okay?

    It's been six months, eight days, twelve hours
    Since you went away
    I miss you so much and I don't know what to say
    I should be over you
    I should know better but it's just not the case
    It's been six months, eight days, twelve hours
    Since you went away

    It's hard enough just passing the time
    When I can't seem to get you off my mind
    And where is the good in goodbye?
    Tell me why, tell me why?

    It's been six months, eight days, twelve hours
    Since you went away
    I miss you so much and I don't know what to say
    I should be over you
    I should know better but it's just not the case
    It's been six months, eight days, twelve hours
    Since you went away
    Sing it for me

    Ooh, ooh


  • pag binalikan mo yung ex mo magpapakita lang yun kung gaano ka kahina at kayang kaya ka nya controlin or hawakan. if nagawa nya dati sayo na iwan ka malamang kaya nya ulit ulitin un

    wag mo hanapin sa iba yung meron sa ex mo dati dahil hindi lahat ng tao pare pareho dadating din ang time na marerealize mo na meron ang present bf mo na wala sa ex mo.
  • Wag mo Na balikan yan Di worth it. Paiiyakin Ka Lang ulit niyan
  • Kent_210Kent_210 Member PEx Guru 🎖️🎖️
    He's not weird, he's simply selfish.
  • jannacakejannacake PEx Rookie ⭐
    I already talked to him. Sabi ko, hindi na worth it to get the relationship we had. Then he suggests if we can be friends. Its been a year actually. I honestly got confused about him getting back with me, but I can't bear to waste my new relationship. And besides, I realized na oo he's much funny and and adorable. But he's not a lifetime material partner. Unlike my new one. He is a responsible and matured boyfriend. He make plans and respect me. I'm lucky to have him. I shouldn't do something he'll be hurt about.
  • Tourjack10Tourjack10 PEx Rookie ⭐
    jannacake wrote: »
    I already talked to him. Sabi ko, hindi na worth it to get the relationship we had. Then he suggests if we can be friends. Its been a year actually. I honestly got confused about him getting back with me, but I can't bear to waste my new relationship. And besides, I realized na oo he's much funny and and adorable. But he's not a lifetime material partner. Unlike my new one. He is a responsible and matured boyfriend. He make plans and respect me. I'm lucky to have him. I shouldn't do something he'll be hurt about.

    Ano sinagot mo? :glee: I sense danger. :naughty: Yan isa sa mga moves para magakaroon ng swabeng comback. :glee:
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    urge......


    cravings......

    pag yan mineet mo... ganito mangyayare...


    i have a penissss you have a pepeeee

    uuggghhhhh.....


    :naughty3: :glee: :lol:
  • mankeymankey PEx Rookie ⭐
    TS. gaano ka katanga? haha. may present relationship ka tas willing kang itapon yung okay na relasyon sa ***** mong bf?

    walang relasyon na pareho. wag mong sayangin ang present relationship mo na may chance to grow sa past relationship mo na bulok at may bahid na nag kadiliman. sabihin nating naging kayo uli ni ex, may assurance ka ba na di nya na uli gagawin yun sayo? wag kang maging confused sa feelings mo towards your ex after the confession he made to you. wala na yun, tapos na, nagsisimula ka na uli ng bago.

    di nawawala ang pagmamahal natin sa mga ex natin. mahal natin sila, pero di na katulad ng dati. magkaiba yang love na nararamdaman mo from past and from present. sa past with your ex nainlove ka talaga, you feel like he's the one pero yung present love na naramdaman mo ngayon sa ex mo pitty na lang yun and curiosity na "why did he tell you those ****".

    at wag ka ding ***** na sasabihin mong okay kayo ng present mo, di ka maguguluhan ng ganyan kung okay ka with your current bf.
  • littlegurllittlegurl PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Ex-bf that he is, cut off your communication with him. Wag ka nang mapabilang sa mga babaeng ***** na paulit ulit lolokohin ng mga mapagsamantalang lalaki.
  • J05J05 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Run and don't look back
  • Masarap lang sa feeling natin na binalikan tayo; feeling natin super special natin para hindi makalimutan. The truth is wala lang silang mapagbalingan or maybe nabobored lang sila sa current relationship nila. Hindi nila ikamamatay kapag hindi na natin sila binigyan ng chance; hahanap lang ulit sila ng panibagong relationship para panakip sa pride.
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