xaidesoyo wrote: »
As witnessed, contradicting to what I've experienced and I'm experiencing, some girls do not want to be in a long distance relationship because they're AFRAID they might do something stupid (or should I say behave WRONGLY) while in a relationship--
Reality is sometimes when our life turns upside down, of course we want our significant others to be there to comfort us, unfortunately for those in LDRs this seem to be not that simple-- because well a hug or physical gesture of comfort can't be done through email, mobile communication and stuff.
And then some girls tend to look for this physical comfort to others. Good if you look for comfort from families or girl friend of yours but if somehow you find yourself looking for this comfort from a person on the opposite sex, thus making the relationship complicated, good luck; either ways it's a matter of choice.
And one relationship rule I know is that, you should never seek comfort from a person on the opposite sex, especially ALONE when you're troubled and down-- you tell your partner or family/friends (even if they're the reason why you're down). What are relationships for, right?
Well.. i said a lot haha, technically, some girls wouldn't want to be in LDR because they're not strong enough as individual themselves, thus seeking comfort to others which they expect to be their partner (all the time).
I'm a girl who wanted to answer this question despite being one to be in LDR