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Need your reactions or advice. I have a friend with one child. She is currently working abroad. She is happily married but when she started working abroad, it turned their relationship into sour. She always says that she went abroad for their child's sake. But I think, it is for her own sake. I am saying this because she aborted her own child when she learned that she was pregnant while processing her papers for going abroad. It was supposed to be their second child. Her husband confessed it to me. No one knew about it even her family She said that the chances of working in an another country will be ruined because of her pregnancy that is why she aborted the child. She already made up her mind of getting an abortion and even her husband can't do anything about it. He doesn't like the idea of killing an unborn child.
In deciding for working abroad, she and her husband talked about it. She told her husband that she got more chances of getting a job in another country than him. So the husband agreed for their child's future. While she is away, the husband started a business here in the Philippines but it didn't go well, so he sold the business. He also started to look for a job, but luck wasn't on his side. So rumors is starting to come up. Arguments between them started. She was told that her husband was doing vices and even drugs but all of these wasn't true. Her husband even took the drug test to prove that everything she heard wasn't true but to no avail. She wasn't listening. I just don't know why she doesn't trust him. He tested negative and was certified clean. She's also been told that the husband mistreating her family but also it wasn't true. She also accused her husband of mishandling the money she sent for their child. She is not listening to him but she listens to what other's says to her. I am a close friend to both of them and I know what's really happening.
Now, she's not talking to her husband. But she allowed him to see their child. By the way, their child was living with her family. If she wants to send a message to the husband, she will tell it to her sister to relay it to him. She even blocked him in all social media sites and even in emails, phones etc. I saw her fb page and looks like she's enjoying being away. I pity her husband because of the way she and even her family treated him. They were a happy couple before. They were so sweet to each other and I even envy them during that time. Because my husband wasn't like that to me. When her husband is still working, they all come up to him when they needed something. They were always on his side. Now, he is useless because he is currently jobless. Her husband started to get sick and now thinner than before. I feel sorry for him. Despite of everything, I saw that her husband still really loves her so much and want to work it out their relationship. But she is still not listening. She said that she is just being wise. But in my mind, it wasn't a good idea for them to get back together but still I am a friend of them and I want them to get back together. I want to see them just like before. A happy and sweet couple with their child. They were a perfect family for me. I want to help them to be together again but i don't know how. I don't want to be told that I am meddling with their affairs but they are my friends. And also for their child's sake. Can anyone give comments, suggestions or advice? I really appreciate it. Thanks in advance.


  • Ang payo ko HUWAG KANG MAKIALAM sa buhay ng may buhay!
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    TS ikaw na lang ang mag labas ng hinaing mo sa asawa mo :glee:
  • J05J05 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Hi TS, mas mainam na yung huwag mang himasok...gulo lang.
  • Can anyone give comments, suggestions or advice?
    Be productive- go clean your house or bedroom. Your friends don't need your 'help.'
  • kurttrukkurttruk PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    matatanda na saka magasawa mga yan.. bakit mo kelangan pagtuunan ng pansin, buhay nila yan eh..

    wala karin sigurong magawa :glee:

    ayaw na ng babae sa asawa niya. hindi siya kagad maniniwala sa haka haka kung talagang mahal niya pa mister niya. wala ka nang magagawa at wala kang dapat gawin.
  • katze_schmusekatze_schmuse PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Since kaibigan mo pala ang lalaki tulungan mo nalang siya humanap ng work.sa relstionship issues, wag ka na mangialam.ang ayusin mo iyong buhay mo at ang asawa mo at baka me kabit na yan.
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