Home PEx Family and Society Buhay Pinoy
COMMUNITY NOTICE: If you are having trouble in your account access, please do send us a message at [email protected] for assistance.

the key to happiness

hardrivehardrive PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
Everyone's path to*happiness*is different
Or should i say meaning of happiness is different for everyone

Some will be happy in life to have their own house,
Own cars, family, money,dream jobs etc.

What is making you so happy in life?

I have this and that and i think i have a freaking misserable life
I supposed to be happy i havd all of this things around me but darnit
I am not happy in life
Is there something wrong with me :lol:
Really do i have mental problem or something?
Like right now im at the apartment
Most would be happy holding 9k in their hand
Well not me its like its nothing
Its just paper with written stuff all over it
«13456

Comments

  • Ikaw ang nagpapatibay na HINDI NAGPAPALIGAYA ang salapi at makamundong pag-aari.

    [#]NakabubusogNgunitDiNakapagpasasaya[/#] [#]DiMadadalaSaHukay[/#]
  • hardrivehardrive PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Ill go mcdonalds that should make me happy a big mac maybe :glee:

    No honestly is there something wrong with me
    Maybe i have a depsression?
  • Vit@min_C[email protected]_C PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    money and french fries :bow:
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Rookie ⭐
    Kung may anak at asawa ka...walang kang 9k sa kamay mo.

    :blowsmoke:

    [#]ThereRPerksOfBeingSingle[/#] [#]PuntaKaNaLangSaKTVBarAtITableMoMgaKoreanaWithFakeDede[/#]
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Rookie ⭐
    9k para sa pitaka lang? Sayang.

    Ito 20-50 baht (that's 50 cents to 1.50 USD) for two hours, happy time.

    Kung maiinlove ka sa mga girls, eh di save her...parang feeling good Samaritan ka pa.

    Wag sayangin 9k sa kamay. Mas magandang anti-depressant...cheaper pa.

    :blowsmoke:

    [#]YOLO[/#]
  • Happiness is sharing, so share some of that 9k with me, alright!:lol:

    But seriously speaking, you need to love yourself first in order for you to find happiness from within. We often look for happiness elsewhere w/o realizing that we've lost a sense of who we are in the process. Most of the things you've mentioned are tangible things. Start asking yourself as to why you're supposed to be living a happy life. It truly does start from within. When all the things you've mentioned disappear, what is there for you to appreciate and be thankful for?

    Alam mo, madalas ko din tanungin sa sarili ko dati kung bakit parang hindi ko mahanap ang tunay na kaligayahan. Mayroon naman akong magandang trabaho, mataas na pinag-aralan, maayos na natutuluyan, at may mga bagay na alam kong wala ang ibang tao. I didn't realize that by not looking at the things that I already have, I was simply wandering off the road to desperation. When I've learned about my illness last year, and I've lost my driving privileges because of that, that's when I've realized that driving in itself is a gift that I should have appreciated. When I was rushed to the ER this year, I've realized how important it is for me to be thankful about my health. When my dog died 2 years ago, I learned that there was nothing wrong with me fighting for animal advocacy even though there were people that were ridiculing me because of it. We often care too much about other people's opinions of us that we lose sight of how we want to live our lives the way we really should. There are kids taking courses they truly don't want to take simply just to please their parents, and there are so many other decisions we make just to make others happy and that's when we lose ourselves along the way.

    In the end, it's all about prioritizing what will make you truly happy with your life. There is always a compromise involved because what we often see as a "happy self" in the future may not always be the true "happy self" that you're longing for. You're making a lot of money now and living comfortably, but is convenience more important to you than happiness? You can be a successful lawyer now, but is that truly what's going to make you come home every night feeling satisfied. Your calling may simply be to become a teacher, but if you give in to other priorities that will satisfy your other worldly needs, is it worth it and are you willing to live that kind of a life for yourself.

    Try visiting under privilege children or helping out in the community. Sometimes, there is often a need for us to be reminded as to how lucky we are for having the lives we're living. And trust me, you will not be disappointed when trying to reach out to those who are asking the same questions that you have because happiness in itself is selfless. Kapag nakita mo na kung gaano kahalaga ang kaligayahan na naidudulot mo sa ibang tao, dun mo makikita ang halaga mo bilang tao! Good luck to you!
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ***** account

    :naughty3:
  • anima9anima9 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Two things:

    1. Lowered expectations
    2. Not giving a fuck
  • I am not happy in life

    You don't laugh often, do you?

    This will help you.
  • katze_schmusekatze_schmuse PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    hardrive wrote: »
    Everyone's path to*happiness*is different
    Or should i say meaning of happiness is different for everyone

    Some will be happy in life to have their own house,
    Own cars, family, money,dream jobs etc.

    What is making you so happy in life?

    I have this and that and i think i have a freaking misserable life
    I supposed to be happy i havd all of this things around me but darnit
    I am not happy in life
    Is there something wrong with me :lol:
    Really do i have mental problem or something?
    Like right now im at the apartment
    Most would be happy holding 9k in their hand
    Well not me its like its nothing
    Its just paper with written stuff all over it

    Ang happiness kasi depende sa definition mo talaga yan at motivations sa buhay.Para kanino ka ba bumabangon sa araw araw?Sa tingin mo ba yong dahilan ng pagbangon mo ay sapat para magpatuloy ka?

    Naalala ko dati may kaibigan ako na hindi masaya sa trabaho namin.She's crying every night tuwing papasok dahil panggabi trabaho namin.tulog lahat pero kami mga gising.Umuulan PA noon, whatta perfect timing for drama, yeah? So may nadaanan kaming isang mag anak na nakahiga sa gilid ng 711.Sabi ko "don't you ever realize you're so lucky compared to this family?"
    It's a matter of appreciation of the little things that you have which might be a mine to some.Anyway HD, I think it's high time you get out and forget about your RC's.Get some laugh, go travel and I'll tell you'll get a happier perspective in life :D

    Akin nalang yang 9k:rotflmao:
  • hardrivehardrive PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Kung may anak at asawa ka...walang kang 9k sa kamay mo.

    :blowsmoke:

    [#]ThereRPerksOfBeingSingle[/#] [#]PuntaKaNaLangSaKTVBarAtITableMoMgaKoreanaWithFakeDede[/#]


    Hahahha i agree bahala na siya Hahawak sa 9k ako naman bahala sa anak namin maglalaro kami sa park :lol:
  • hardrivehardrive PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    9k para sa pitaka lang? Sayang.

    Ito 20-50 baht (that's 50 cents to 1.50 USD) for two hours, happy time.

    No way na papatol ako sa mnga ganyan na babae
    Desperate na ako masyado kong papatol ako ss ganyang klaseng babae
    Binabayaran
    Plus diko kayang gawin yan sa kanila
    Siguro kailangan nila ng pera kaya ginagawa nila yan
    Meron din mnga buwaya na mag advantage sa kanila
    Diko kayang gawin yan
    Tapos mamaya magka sakit pa ako
  • hardrivehardrive PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    jperry wrote: »
    Happiness is sharing, so share some of that 9k with me, alright!:lol:

    But seriously speaking, you need to love yourself first in order for you to find happiness from within. We often look for happiness elsewhere w/o realizing that we've lost a sense of who we are in the process. Most of the things you've mentioned are tangible things. Start asking yourself as to why you're supposed to be living a happy life. It truly does start from within. When all the things you've mentioned disappear, what is there for you to appreciate and be thankful for?

    My health i guess lol
    I dont know


    Alam mo, madalas ko din tanungin sa sarili ko dati kung bakit parang hindi ko mahanap ang tunay na kaligayahan. Mayroon naman akong magandang trabaho, mataas na pinag-aralan, maayos na natutuluyan, at may mga bagay na alam kong wala ang ibang tao. I didn't realize that by not looking at the things that I already have, I was simply wandering off the road to desperation. When I've learned about my illness last year, and I've lost my driving privileges because of that, that's when I've realized that driving in itself is a gift that I should have appreciated. When I was rushed to the ER this year, I've realized how important it is for me to be thankful about my health. When my dog died 2 years ago, I learned that there was nothing wrong with me fighting for animal advocacy even though there were people that were ridiculing me because of it. We often care too much about other people's opinions of us that we lose sight of how we want to live our lives the way we really should. There are kids taking courses they truly don't want to take simply just to please their parents, and there are so many other decisions we make just to make others happy and that's when we lose ourselves along the way.

    Trying to make my family is long gone
    I think if i have given them an apoko
    That would of made them very happy
    But tha didnt happen


    In the end, it's all about prioritizing what will make you truly happy with your life.

    Heres the problem
    I have no idea what truly makes me happy
    Its driving me crazy



    There is always a compromise involved because what we often see as a "happy self" in the future may not always be the true "happy self" that you're longing for. You're making a lot of money now and living comfortably, but is convenience more important to you than happiness? You can be a successful lawyer now, but is that truly what's going to make you come home every night feeling satisfied. Your calling may simply be to become a teacher, but if you give in to other priorities that will satisfy your other worldly needs, is it worth it and are you willing to live that kind of a life for yourself.

    Try visiting under privilege children or helping out in the community. Sometimes, there is often a need for us to be reminded as to how lucky we are for having the lives we're living. And trust me, you will not be disappointed when trying to reach out to those who are asking the same questions that you have because happiness in itself is selfless. Kapag nakita mo na kung gaano kahalaga ang kaligayahan na naidudulot mo sa ibang tao, dun mo makikita ang halaga mo bilang tao! Good luck to you!


    I was planning to do that
    When i went home to philippines
    But i end up doing something else
    Once inset foot in philippines
    All plans that i have is gone
  • hardrivehardrive PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Ang happiness kasi depende sa definition mo talaga yan at motivations sa buhay.Para kanino ka ba bumabangon sa araw araw?Sa tingin mo ba yong dahilan ng pagbangon mo ay sapat para magpatuloy ka?


    Wala no reason to get up in the morning
    Babangon siempre nagising na eh :lol:



    Naalala ko dati may kaibigan ako na hindi masaya sa trabaho namin.She's crying every night tuwing papasok dahil panggabi trabaho namin.tulog lahat pero kami mga gising.Umuulan PA noon, whatta perfect timing for drama, yeah? So may nadaanan kaming isang mag anak na nakahiga sa gilid ng 711.Sabi ko "don't you ever realize you're so lucky compared to this family?"
    It's a matter of appreciation of the little things that you have which might be a mine to some.Anyway HD, I think it's high time you get out and forget about your RC's.Get some laugh, go travel and I'll tell you'll get a happier perspective in life :D

    Akin nalang yang 9k:rotflmao:

    Wanna go travel with me then :lol:
    Na paka boring naman mag travel lang mag isa diba

    Hmmmm meron ba mnga escorts sa pinas puwede mang hire ng kasama mamasyal kahit saan hahahha
  • Heres the problem
    I have no idea what truly makes me happy
    Its driving me crazy


    Tatang, alam mo ang mga bagay na nagpapasaya sa 'yo! Sorry to say this pero sa palagay ko ay in denial ka lang. I'm assuming na nasa abroad ka, correct (since ilang beses ko na din 'tong tinatanong sa 'yo pero ayaw mo namang sagutin)? Masaya ka pa ba sa abroad or nabubuhay ka na lang dito dahil sa mga ari-arian mo and for convenience? Yun yung tanong ko sa 'yo sa previous posts ko. Lahat naman tayo gusto natin yung maramdaman na "we belong." Inamin mo na dati na gusto mong may makasama sa pagtanda mo at gusto mong magka-anak. Ang nagiging problema lang based on the info na ibinibigay mo sa amin ay na para bang you've surrendered yourself to failure. Tinanggap mo na lang na wala ka nang makakasama sa buhay; ayaw mo nang mag-effort LOL para hanapin ang magiging reyna ng bakante mong puso.:lol: Unfortunately tatang, pinaghihirapan din ang kaligayahan. Kung totoo naman na financially stable ka na, napaka-swerte mo dahil it allows you to do so MANY things that a lot of people can only dream of doing. Mag-travel ka sa iba't ibang bansa and meet new people. Mag-volunteer ka sa mga organizations na nakakatulong sa ibang tao, and maybe you'll meet someone there na may magandang puso that you could possibly fall in love with. Sabi ko nga sa 'yo happiness is selfless so magpaligaya ka muna ng ibang tao at dun mare-realize mo na unti-unti iba na rin yung happiness na nakukuha mo because of how you're helping others. Start with things that you strongly believe in and be an advocate for it.

    Ayaw kong sabihin 'to pero yung pagka-hilig mo sa mga rc toys maaaring nagiging dahilan na lang to cope up with the things you're longing for in life. Bata ka pa at wag mong i-surrender ang buhay mo sa kawalan dahil lang natakot kang kumilos para may magbago. Kung stress lang ang dulot nung property na pagmamay-ari mo, then sell it. Wag mo ding gagawing dahilan yung pagiging single and alone mo para hindi maging masaya. Alam kong alam mo kung ano ang magpapasaya sa 'yo, but you do need to start traveling that road to happiness now because it's not an easy journey to take. Then maybe, just maybe, you can share your new found happiness with me by buying me a rest house in Tagaytay. Sa dami ng pera mo pwede mo akong i-hire na personal chef mo!:rotflmao:
  • hardrive wrote: »
    Wanna go travel with me then :lol:

    Naks naman, yan ang fighting spirit! Great start tatang...ano naman ang laban ng AlDub sa HardKat loveteam! Nakakakilig!:lol::rotflmao::laugh: Pero natatawa lang ako dahil yung approach mo tatang reminds me of Dickie.:lol:

    I'm proud to say na ako ang naka-discover ng HardKat tandem at inaalay ko 'tong song na to sa inyo:
    :love:
  • hardrivehardrive PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    jperry wrote: »
    Heres the problem
    I have no idea what truly makes me happy
    Its driving me crazy


    Tatang, alam mo ang mga bagay na nagpapasaya sa 'yo! Sorry to say this pero sa palagay ko ay in denial ka lang. I'm assuming na nasa abroad ka, correct (since ilang beses ko na din 'tong tinatanong sa 'yo pero ayaw mo namang sagutin)?

    Hahah sorry diko nakita yan tanong mong yan
    Hawaii to be exact


    Masaya ka pa ba sa abroad or nabubuhay ka na lang dito dahil sa mga ari-arian mo and for convenience?

    Ok naman dito sa hawaii
    Pero diko naman masabing masaya ako
    Nabubuhay dahil buhay pa naman



    Yun yung tanong ko sa 'yo sa previous posts ko. Lahat naman tayo gusto natin yung maramdaman na "we belong." Inamin mo na dati na gusto mong may makasama sa pagtanda mo at gusto mong magka-anak. Ang nagiging problema lang based on the info na ibinibigay mo sa amin ay na para bang you've surrendered yourself to failure.

    Ilan beses ma dapat ma failed bago mag surrender
    Di naman sinasabing nag surrendered na ako
    Sabi ng ng iba itll come stop looking for it


    Tinanggap mo na lang na wala ka nang makakasama sa buhay; ayaw mo nang mag-effort LOL para hanapin ang magiging reyna ng bakante mong puso.:lol: Unfortunately tatang, pinaghihirapan din ang kaligayahan. Kung totoo naman na financially stable ka na, napaka-swerte mo dahil it allows you to do so MANY things that a lot of people can only dream of doing. Mag-travel ka sa iba't ibang bansa and meet new people. Mag-volunteer ka sa mga organizations na nakakatulong sa ibang tao, and maybe you'll meet someone there na may magandang puso that you could possibly fall in love with. Sabi ko nga sa 'yo happiness is selfless so magpaligaya ka muna ng ibang tao at dun mare-realize mo na unti-unti iba na rin yung happiness na nakukuha mo because of how you're helping others. Start with things that you strongly believe in and be an advocate for it.

    Ayaw kong sabihin 'to pero yung pagka-hilig mo sa mga rc toys maaaring nagiging dahilan na lang to cope up with the things you're longing for in life.

    I think so too
    I buy things to make me happy for a little while
    I think thats the reason why i keep buying things i dont really need


    Bata ka pa at wag mong i-surrender ang buhay mo sa kawalan dahil lang natakot kang kumilos para may magbago. Kung stress lang ang dulot nung property na pagmamay-ari mo, then sell it. Wag mo ding gagawing dahilan yung pagiging single and alone mo para hindi maging masaya. Alam kong alam mo kung ano ang magpapasaya sa 'yo, but you do need to start traveling that road to happiness now because it's not an easy journey to take. Then maybe, just maybe, you can share your new found happiness with me by buying me a rest house in Tagaytay. Sa dami ng pera mo pwede mo akong i-hire na personal chef mo!:rotflmao:



    Ayan nananamn lol
    Di ko pagaari mnga to mana ko lang sa family
    Yeah i think ill go back to philippines again
    Tumira na muna ata doon
    Mas maraming tao nakakausap
  • Ok naman dito sa hawaii
    Pero diko naman masabing masaya ako
    Nabubuhay dahil buhay pa naman



    Wag kang mabuhay dahil lang nabubuhay ka pa! Mabuhay ka dahil marami ka pang pwedeng gawin para mapasaya mo ang sarili mo AT ANG IBANG TAO!

    Ilan beses ma dapat ma failed bago mag surrender
    Di naman sinasabing nag surrendered na ako
    Sabi ng ng iba itll come stop looking for it

    Never surrender, tatang! Life is not a game...hindi ka hihinto dahil lang ilang beses ka nang natatalo. Corny, oo, pero totoo na habay may buhay may pag-asa. At napakalaking BS na kasabihang don't look because it will come to you. Baka nasa death bed ka na wala pa ding dumadating.:rotflmao: Ikaw ang may hawak ng buhay mo at hindi aandar ang sasakyan ng walang driver! Ikaw ang driver ng buhay mo and your final destination will be where you decide to go inspite of all the storms along your way.
    I think so too
    I buy things to make me happy for a little while
    I think thats the reason why i keep buying things i dont really need

    Yes, sir! Ayaw kong isipin mo na nagpapaka-expert ako dahil problema ko din yang problema mo pero sa bawat pagkakataong nadadapa ako, lagi akong bumabangon. Sa tingin ko ang pinaka-malaking problema mo ay SELF-DOUBT! Palagi mong pinagdududahan ang sarili mo. Problema ito ng napakaraming tao at laging dahilan kaya maraming tao ang hindi ichinallenge yung sarili nila para abutin yung pangarap nila. Labanan mo yan! Gumawa ka ng plan of action TODAY, and even come up with a list of things na gusto mong gawin na magpapasaya sa 'yo; things like going to the Philippines, helping out the community, going to Europe, etc. Pag may agenda ka, mas madali kang kumilos at hindi yung go with the flow lang. Ready ka na, start!!!
  • Kung may anak at asawa ka...walang kang 9k sa kamay mo.

    Kung may asawa't anak ka baka mas malaki pa sa 9k ang hawak mo. Mangyari pareho kayong kumikita ng misis mo at ang anak mong nasa tamang gulang na ay kumikita na rin.

    [#]DobleKita[/#] [#]Duling[/#]
  • pusang_miyawpusang_miyaw PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    TS You do not search for happiness. The key to happiness is you and only you. I think what you are lacking is Appreciation. Try to change your perspective. Stop searching how to fill that 'emptiness' and start recognizing the good things around you. Sometimes people are so used to being pampered and comfortable that they overlook their blessings.

    Or maybe you're not unhappy. Maybe you're just bored. Find a new hobby then, or travel, experience something new, do silly things, go out with your friends etc etc

    Now if you want to be scientific about it--- like getting a surge of happy hormones--- then you should try to do these regularly --- they may sound like a cliche but they are pretty useful (seriously) : Exercise, Listen to music, Eat more fruits and vegetables and drink lots of water, Go out and see nature (or atleast give yourself some sun exposure), Sleep well and Meditate.

    It's easy as going to the park for a 15-30 min. jog with your earphones on, then you take a break and drink water, eat an apple. You go back home and do whatever you want, then you give yourself a 10 min. meditation with calm.com, then at the end of the day you go to sleep.

    If you think about it, Happiness is a combination of Having a positive outlook plus a healthy lifestyle-- and only YOU can make it happen.

    ----
    That's all folks! :lol:

    [CROUCHING-TIGER-DISAPPEARING-SPOILER]Oh and I forgot sex. Go and have sex as well---or *****. :lol:[/CROUCHING-TIGER-DISAPPEARING-SPOILER]
Sign In or Register to comment.