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HOW to KEEP the LOVE ALIVE

Hello... i'm not sure if this is the right forum but I'm currently in this new relationship. We've been dating for 6 months and I would admit that we are both head over heels with each other. We never get tired of missing each other and making "lambing".

I'm just getting paranoid sometimes of how am I going to prepare (or maybe both of us) if this kilig phase fade. Napaguusapan naman namin yun na siguro darating yung time na mawawala ito pero I'm really scared.

while eating, I've seen this couple dining pero hindi naguusap, they just keep staring to their phones and ayokong dumating *** relationship namin to that point

Laki ng problema ko no? :rotflmao:

for pexers who have been married for long or at least into a long-term relationship na, how do you keep the love alive?

Salamat
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  • kurttrukkurttruk PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    sounds like this is the very 1st time you've been in a relationship. anyway...
    MrICEDTEA wrote: »
    how do you keep the love alive?


    this might help.


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    don't just rely on a simpleng "lambingan" lang.

    [#]pangmatagalan[/#]

    lame.set.match

    :glee:
  • gotta lick itgotta lick it PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    put some spunk into your date.
  • MabuheyMabuhey PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    wag mo muna problemahin kung magtatagal kayo or hindi.. tsaka na lang mag isip ng solusyon kapag nanjan na ang problema.. enjoyin mo na lang yung mga moments na magkasama kayo.. wag mashado mag expect sa mga bagay bagay, Lalo na sa relasyon.. lahat ng bagay sa mundo nagbabago.. enjoy lang ;)
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    The little things brother it could go very far.

    A. Appreciation- women, WHATEVER YOU DO/SHE DOES FOR YOU, they look for/try to sense for your reaction. Did you like it, was there a smile on your face, did you get excited etc etc. That's kind of shyet they think about when they make you food, they give *****, they make a scrap book for you, they organize you closet.

    They expect the amount of effort = the same amount of reaction from you. They might lie and say 'it's not a big deal' but try to brush it off, they'll start to feel unappreciated. Women validate their actions with your reactions.

    So for whatever she does for you, don't do the guy thing and try to minimize your reaction (because to us guys we don't necessarily show our feelings even if we're full of that emotion).

    Make it visible, make it verbal, make it for the record.

    You come home and she's cleaning the house, give her a peck on the cheek and pretend you want to help her out, she's trying to lose weight and she's been on the gym, even if she hasn't loss anything or look much different, just pretend she looks a ton different from two weeks ago. PS Anything they buy you, they expect you to somewhat use them. :glee:

    B. Have your own life/friends but still make time for you two. If you're always together = it gets boring, but if you don't see each other = you fall apart. Healthy in between, like you were still dating...except now you live together.

    C. Try new shyet. Doing the same thing over and over again = boring. Do stuff that throws her off balance from time to time. Plus the little things, write her a note on a Tuesday put it on her a place where she would see it (ie her make up table or computer screen). Short sweet like "I saw you drooling this morning while you sleep...disgusting but cute :)" Take her out on a Wednesday on a new restaurant. Dress up with the clothes she likes. Buy a stem of rose and bring her take out food she likes.

    D. But keep what works on a regular. If she likes to chill 9/10 on Sundays, then do that. If she's a runner and she runs five times a week, expect that. Keep what's good and make it better.

    E. The devil is in the details. Guys don't care about the details, women do. How you pronounce your words, how big your smile is, what words you use. To us we're just cool we get a gift, women expect you to give them gifts that are our thought out. Example, you get a nice shirt, cool right? Well women you buy them a shirt there has to be a reason why you bought them that shirt, did you custom make it, did you get it from the store that you first met each other, did you get it in her favorite color.

    What makes a difference between a normal thing/gift/complement/comment/anything, is sometimes just a little more effort. You buy her a necklace. vs. you buy her a necklace with custom made words that says "FA and Natasha", huge difference to them. Giving them something vs. giving them something wrapped nicely, huge difference. Plus a small note, even bigger difference.

    They won't say it to you but they care about the details.

    :blowsmoke:

    [#]DevilWearsPrada[/#]
  • Darating naman talaga sa puntong magiging aware kayo na parang nawawala na yung spark sa relasyon at kadalasan kapag umabot na sa ganyang stage eh jan na nagsisimula na gumawa ng effort ang isa't isa para mapanitiling meaningful ang relationship.

    Yung iba sumusuko pero yung iba hindi nag gigive-up, nag e-exert sila ng effort dahil may pagpapahalaga sila sa relasyon. Alin ka sa tingin mo jan?

    Tulad ng post ni FA na super detalyado, yung appreciation sa mga magagandang bagay na ginagawa hindi dapat nawawala.

    Tandaan mo na ang tagumpay ng isang relasyon ay nakakamit hindi lang sa kung anong nabigay at natanggap ng isat isa kundi sa mga pagsubok na napagdaanan pero nagawang lagpasan. Yan ang nakakapag patatag at nakakapag pa-mature ng isang relasyon na walang makakatibag.

    Swerte nalang ako pare kasi sa ilang taon naming pagsasama ng aking mahal e natatawa parin sya sa mga jokes kong baduy at paulit ulit.

    Minsan natanong ko sya kung anong nakita nya sa akin na after all these years poging-pogi parin sya sakin. Wala siyang sinagot tawa lang sya ng tawa. Ano bang joke ang sinabi ko e hindi naman ako nag jojoke?
  • darmonxdarmonx PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    your conversations just mature.. but its more of the actions that keeps it going.
    - i still give her flowers on valentime.
    - i still take her out for dinner on her birthday
    - pag lumalabas kami.. mata ko nakatuon lang sa kanya.. kahit dumaan pa si Pia Wurzbach.. siya lang ang babaeng nakikita ko.
    - kiss before leaving and kiss when i get home.
    - you are providing security keeping her safe at home or at the mall.
    - take her shopping when she is having a bad day.

    so do i worry na magsasawa siya? no.. kung magsawa siya sa akin.. lahat ng nilista ko.. sa ibang babae pupunta + may kilig factor uli ako dahil may bagong chicks nanaman ako.
  • mcsteamy17mcsteamy17 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Manuod ng bold na magkasama... *pacute*









    Unting lib0g araw-araw... ...aaahhhh...
    :dizzy:
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ +10

    sabayan mo maligo.. sabunin mo ang katawan... :naughty:

    maglakad ka naked sa haws once in a while make sure poging pogi si tarugs

    paga nasa public kayo pisilin mo ang pwetan ng pasimple. like nila yan.. haplusin mo ang buhok amoyin mo ang batok at hingahan mo ang ears...

    pag nagcocomute kayo pahawak mo tarugs mo palaro mo sa kanya ng pasimple...

    in short dapat ***** parati sayo si gf wag mo din kakalimutan diligan para hindi HB :lol:
  • I-type mo sa Google ito: "how to keep relationship strong"

    Marami kang mapupulot na babasahin!

    [#]LimaCincoAngMgaPayoSaGoogleBFF[/#]
  • littlegurllittlegurl PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Say yes to me now, and I'll court you forever :love:
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    minsang maging bastos ka sa kanya... wag yung mumurahin mo sya sa maraming tao :glee: hindi yung ganung bastusan :elk:
  • littlegurllittlegurl PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    tidge wrote: »
    minsang maging bastos ka sa kanya... wag yung mumurahin mo sya sa maraming tao :glee: hindi yung ganung bastusan :elk:


    Explain further. Yung murahan na toh :bop:
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    balbolski wrote: »
    ^ +10

    sabayan mo maligo.. sabunin mo ang katawan... :naughty:

    maglakad ka naked sa haws once in a while make sure poging pogi si tarugs

    paga nasa public kayo pisilin mo ang pwetan ng pasimple. like nila yan.. haplusin mo ang buhok amoyin mo ang batok at hingahan mo ang ears...

    pag nagcocomute kayo pahawak mo tarugs mo palaro mo sa kanya ng pasimple...

    in short dapat ***** parati sayo si gf wag mo din kakalimutan diligan para hindi HB :lol:

    SO TRUE :glee:
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    littlegurl wrote: »
    Say yes to me now, and I'll court you forever :love:

    Korean novella to no? :glee:
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    littlegurl wrote: »
    Explain further. Yung murahan na toh :bop:

    tipong... sh!t ang sarap mo sa suot mo... para kang suman... o kaya

    pag naka skirt naman: "Pusang Ina...Gusto kong dilaan yang legs mo parang crispy pata"

    mga ganyan :glee:
  • The little things brother it could go very far.

    A. Appreciation- women, WHATEVER YOU DO/SHE DOES FOR YOU, they look for/try to sense for your reaction. Did you like it, was there a smile on your face, did you get excited etc etc. That's kind of shyet they think about when they make you food, they give *****, they make a scrap book for you, they organize you closet.

    They expect the amount of effort = the same amount of reaction from you. They might lie and say 'it's not a big deal' but try to brush it off, they'll start to feel unappreciated. Women validate their actions with your reactions.

    So for whatever she does for you, don't do the guy thing and try to minimize your reaction (because to us guys we don't necessarily show our feelings even if we're full of that emotion).

    Make it visible, make it verbal, make it for the record.

    You come home and she's cleaning the house, give her a peck on the cheek and pretend you want to help her out, she's trying to lose weight and she's been on the gym, even if she hasn't loss anything or look much different, just pretend she looks a ton different from two weeks ago. PS Anything they buy you, they expect you to somewhat use them. :glee:

    B. Have your own life/friends but still make time for you two. If you're always together = it gets boring, but if you don't see each other = you fall apart. Healthy in between, like you were still dating...except now you live together.

    C. Try new shyet. Doing the same thing over and over again = boring. Do stuff that throws her off balance from time to time. Plus the little things, write her a note on a Tuesday put it on her a place where she would see it (ie her make up table or computer screen). Short sweet like "I saw you drooling this morning while you sleep...disgusting but cute :)" Take her out on a Wednesday on a new restaurant. Dress up with the clothes she likes. Buy a stem of rose and bring her take out food she likes.

    D. But keep what works on a regular. If she likes to chill 9/10 on Sundays, then do that. If she's a runner and she runs five times a week, expect that. Keep what's good and make it better.

    E. The devil is in the details. Guys don't care about the details, women do. How you pronounce your words, how big your smile is, what words you use. To us we're just cool we get a gift, women expect you to give them gifts that are our thought out. Example, you get a nice shirt, cool right? Well women you buy them a shirt there has to be a reason why you bought them that shirt, did you custom make it, did you get it from the store that you first met each other, did you get it in her favorite color.

    What makes a difference between a normal thing/gift/complement/comment/anything, is sometimes just a little more effort. You buy her a necklace. vs. you buy her a necklace with custom made words that says "FA and Natasha", huge difference to them. Giving them something vs. giving them something wrapped nicely, huge difference. Plus a small note, even bigger difference.

    They won't say it to you but they care about the details.

    :blowsmoke:

    [#]DevilWearsPrada[/#]

    THIS. :)
    True. :)
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    galitin mo pagselosin mo tapos sibakin mo ng wagas sa make up sex....

    ganyan lang paulit ulit... :lol: :naughty3:
  • littlegurllittlegurl PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    tidge wrote: »
    Korean novella to no? :glee:
    Hindi ah, di nga ako nanonood ng kahit anong teleserye or novela wtf.
    tidge wrote: »
    tipong... sh!t ang sarap mo sa suot mo... para kang suman... o kaya pag naka skirt naman: "Pusang Ina...Gusto kong dilaan yang legs mo parang crispy pata" mga ganyan :glee:
    Nang-asar pa! haha didila ka nalang..
    balbolski wrote: »
    galitin mo pagselosin mo tapos sibakin mo ng wagas sa make up sex....

    ganyan lang paulit ulit... :lol: :naughty3:

    Eto pwede i-consider :glee:
  • tidgetidge PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^^ syempre inisin mo muna :lol: bago mo romansahin :teehee:
  • littlegurllittlegurl PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    tidge wrote: »
    ^^ syempre inisin mo muna :lol: bago mo romansahin :teehee:

    Based on experiences ba yan bes?
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