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Buhay sa Labas ng Pinas

Mahirap lalo pag dumarating yung mga araw na nangungulila ka sa pamilya mo. Tapos nakakakita ka ng mga larawan ng mga paborito mong pagkain at lugar sa Pinas. Pero Ayos lang, kaya naman basta alam mong para sa ikabubuti ng lahat ang ginagawa mo. :)


Ikaw? Anong mga naranasan mo sa paglabas mo ng bansa? :rolleyes:
Anu-ano maipapayo mo? ;)
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  • Kent_210Kent_210 Member PEx Guru 🎖️🎖️
    Liann27 wrote: »
    Mahirap lalo pag dumarating yung mga araw na nangungulila ka sa pamilya mo. Tapos nakakakita ka ng mga larawan ng mga paborito mong pagkain at lugar sa Pinas. Pero Ayos lang, kaya naman basta alam mong para sa ikabubuti ng lahat ang ginagawa mo. :)


    Ikaw? Anong mga naranasan mo sa paglabas mo ng bansa? :rolleyes:
    Anu-ano maipapayo mo? ;)

    Nasaang lupalop ka ba ng mundo?

    Normal ang nararamdaman mo pero unfair sayo kung ganyan ang mararamdaman mo sa mahabang panahon.

    Ang advise ko, unahin ang makasama ang pamilya. Mag abroad lamang ng maikling panahon, mag ipon at bumalik sa pamilya para makapagsimula ng maayos na buhay. Kung kaya mong dalhin ang pamilya mo diyan, mas makakabuti.

    Madami akong kilala na 20-30 years na nag abroad at hindi nakasama ng matagal ang pamilya. Maayos nga ang buhay pero hindi ganun kaganda ang relationship sa pamilya. To me, it was COMPLETE FAILURE.
  • Kent_210Kent_210 Member PEx Guru 🎖️🎖️
    mcgirl04 wrote: »
    Yes I agree with Kent. Mas maganda pa din kasama mo pamilya mo. Nabibili mo nga lahat ng gusto mo abroad tapos hindi mo kasama mga anak mo, bale wala din. But that's me. Merong mga tao ok lang sa kanila. Daddy ko umalis ng bansa 5 years old pa lang ako. Nagkasama sama kami 15 years old na ako. Meron na din sya bagong asawa. I don't think I can do that to my family. Although he didn't completely abandon us. Nagpapadala sya ng monthly support noon.

    DO you think kung hindi umalis ng bansa ang daddy mo, baka hindi sila naghiwalay ng mommy mo?
  • DunedainDunedain PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Malungkot kapag solo pero work keeps u busy. Plus I made new friends who's culture are far different from Pinoys. For instance: Birthdays. They buy you dinner. Sa Pinas, ikaw ang magpapakain.
  • Leaving the Philippines is the best thing that happened to me. I got a new lease on life. Binata pa ako ng umalis, so wala akong Asawa or anak na kailangan bisitahin regularly.

    When I was in the Philippines, I was very miserable. Although I was working, I was in debt coz of my casino gambling problem.

    Marami rami akong ipon so pag uwi Ko this March marami akong puhunan lol
  • Salamat sa mga reply guys...
    Alam ko yang ganyan... Marami rin akong mga kaibigan na nangibang-bansa rin ang mga magulang sa mahabang panahon...

    Karamihan nagkaroon ng ibang pamilya sa ibang bansa, lumaki nang malayo ang loob ng mga anak, meron din namang naubos lang ang ipon kakapagamot sa mga sakit nila na dulot ng masyadong pagpapakapagod at pagkakaroon ng samo't saring trabaho.

    Yung kasalukuyang sitwasyon ko... (salamat sa Dyos at hindi naman ganun kahirap at kakumplikado)...

    Kasama ko foreigner na fianc? ko...
    Nahihirapan ako in a way na ngayon lang ako malalayo sa mga magulang at kapatid ko nang ganito katagal.
    Pangalawang beses ko na dito sa bansa nila pero sa ngayon kasi for good na.
  • Dunedain wrote: »
    Malungkot kapag solo pero work keeps u busy. Plus I made new friends who's culture are far different from Pinoys. For instance: Birthdays. They buy you dinner. Sa Pinas, ikaw ang magpapakain.

    Natawa **** ako dun... Madming puhunan... :lol:
    Halos pareho tayo ng sitwasyon may laya pa nung mag-abroad... hehehe...

    Thanks sa tugon! :)
  • mcgirl04 wrote: »
    Bisita ka na lang sa kanila once a year. Better to go during off peak season. Mommy ko umuwi ngayong February 3 weeks $620 lang. San Francisco yun.

    Haaaay... Hindi pa kasi pwede e. Kelngan 5 years akong mag-stay dito sa bansa nila para makakuha ako ng residency permit. Kaya ito, Skype skype lang muna. (Salamat na rin sa teknolohiya kaya medyo OK na rin.. )
  • Kent_210Kent_210 Member PEx Guru 🎖️🎖️
    Liann27 wrote: »
    Haaaay... Hindi pa kasi pwede e. Kelngan 5 years akong mag-stay dito sa bansa nila para makakuha ako ng residency permit. Kaya ito, Skype skype lang muna. (Salamat na rin sa teknolohiya kaya medyo OK na rin.. )

    Video calling in the Philippines most of the time sucks!

    So mukhang parents and friends mo lang naman namimiss mo and now that you have your own family, you will have kids soon, so embrace your new environment. Sila na ang buhay mo ngayon :)
  • pusang_miyawpusang_miyaw PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Liann27 wrote: »
    Haaaay... Hindi pa kasi pwede e. Kelngan 5 years akong mag-stay dito sa bansa nila para makakuha ako ng residency permit. Kaya ito, Skype skype lang muna. (Salamat na rin sa teknolohiya kaya medyo OK na rin.. )

    Whoa! Are you in the Netherlands... prolly somewhere in Holland???
  • Kent_210Kent_210 Member PEx Guru 🎖️🎖️
    mcgirl04 wrote: »
    I see...kaibigan kong japanese umuuwi sa kanila twice a year tapos mommy nya binibisita sila dito sa US twice a year din. Madatung kasi mga yun. Parang pumupunta lang sa quiapo :lol:

    I took advantage of my travels to Asia to make a side trip to the Philippines. I will have a scheduled trip to HK next month and I'm looking forward to spend weekend in Pinas :) And oh, I have some products to be transferred from Manila to Boston, so I need to be in Pinas din most likely in June for the product shipment. Then Singapore trip on July. Seems like I'm not gonna miss Pinas :lol:
  • blue_acidblue_acid PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    I split my time between Europe and Pinas and you can see how different the life is. Hubby is in Europe and my family in Pinas and it's hard to split time between them but I'm slowly but surely weaning myself from my family para it won't be hard for them when I move. I still plan to spend most of my vacations in Manila.

    Technology works wonders talaga, video calls, viber, wechat. We use all of that to communicate.
  • la_reveusela_reveuse PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Maghanap ka ng Filipino store or Chinatown :lol:

    Being a part of the community helps a lot kapag namimiss ko family. Do some volunteer work and it'll help you pass the time while helping others din. When you're in a foreign land, it's really important to go out there and connect with people para di mo feel yung isolation. Most pinoys would want to trade places with you so why not enjoy every moment being a 'porenjer' :D

    Buti pa kayo nakakapagtake advantage sa technology, mom ko iniwanan ko ng laptop pero mag-1year na di pa din marunong gumamit sa Skype kaya di pa din kami makapagvidcalls. Ang kulit ayaw magpaturo. Sad. :bop:
  • gooseberrygooseberry 🐯 Tiger Squad🥈
    Why would you keep your focus back home when there's a bigger, better world out there?

    You'll fill yourself up with those nonsense tv shows that adds up nothing to your life. You can read books, travel the world. save up money so you can bring your loved ones to see how you've been living.

    I don't like socializing with a lot of the Filipino community. Why? cause they are like Pex, ang daming madrama. Such a waste of time.

    Do I miss Philippines? NO. I miss my friends and the area I grew up. That's it. Nothing more.
  • NeoDynNeoDyn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Sa Pinas kapag nag-asawa ka pati pamilya ng asawa mo pinakasalan mo na rin..

    Kapag peranjer ang napangasawa mo pati kultura nya kinakasama mo sa everyday life mo..no choice ka lang kailangan mong pag aralan yun at tanggapib kundi buong buhay mo ay hindi ka magiging masaya...kung may matitino namang kabayan na nasa lugar mo befriend with them...
  • NeoDynNeoDyn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ...pero kwidaw sa bagong kakilala don't tell them your family history kapag hindi ka nila nagustuhan tampok ka ng kanilang kwentuhan at tawanan...at kung ibang language ang gamit sa bansa mo DONT EVER EVER befriend with kababayan dahil hindi ka matututo ng language na gamit dyan dahil kapag nagkatagpo mga yan gamit nila ang salita natin..mabobobo ka sa pag aaral.
  • la_reveusela_reveuse PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ grabe naman yan :lol: I don't think befriending fellow pinoys will be a hindrance to learning, IMHO. It'll be up to you to step up your game regardless of your social circle.

    --
    I agree with the Fil community though I wouldn't exactly call it a complete waste of time, you'll pick up the bad vibes kasi from their kwentos and that's the last thing you want when you're trying to have some fun :lol:
  • gooseberrygooseberry 🐯 Tiger Squad🥈
    I fyou have a solid structure in life, you don't need those kind of people as your entertainment. ;) Nagpapaloko at nanloloko,why waste your time? Of course, not everyone is like "have you seen the last ASAP show?".. But chances are, they are not going to be in that function either. ;)

    And yes. We are there to have a good time. Drama little dumb mamas ain't no fun. :lol:
  • dipende yan kasi sa lugar o bansa ang pupuntahan mo kahit malayo ka man sa pamilya mo pero ok naman ang nakuha mong trabaho at ayos naman ang mga nakaka trabaho mo laking bagay na rin iyon para mabawasan ang lungkot mo, ako balang araw mangingibang bansa na rin ako by early 2016 or 2017 magsisimula na ang buhay ko sa States kasama ng ate, sa ngayon ang inaalala ko yung mga hindi lang yung kung anong career ang naghihintay sa akin kundi kung anong klaseng tao ang mga makakasama ko sa trabaho lalo na ang kapwa mo Pinoy, base ito sa kuwento ng tita ko na nasa New York, maraming pinoy ang gipit doon dahil ginigipit sila ng kapwa nating Pilipino!
  • la_reveusela_reveuse PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ Geez, walang magigipit kung walang magpapagipit! :lol: I feel you, I used to worry about working with ibang lahi but when you're there na, you won't notice it na cos you'll be too busy doing your job anyways. :lol:

    Newcomers don't have much of a choice sa work. More often than not you'll need experience to get the good ones. I'd say, learn to love your job so that you won't end up getting depressed.


    Goose, what kind of community ba jan sayo? I'm thinking of...the Christian community :lol: definitely not on my 'entertainment' list.
  • etnabAxeRTetnabAxeRT PEx Rookie ⭐
    la_reveuse wrote: »
    ^ Geez, walang magigipit kung walang magpapagipit! :lol: I feel you, I used to worry about working with ibang lahi but when you're there na, you won't notice it na cos you'll be too busy doing your job anyways. :lol:


    Goose, what kind of community ba jan sayo? I'm thinking of...the Christian community :lol: definitely not on my 'entertainment' list.


    San ka na la_reveuse? US?

    [#]thedreamer[/#]

    game.set.match

    :smokin:
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