bawal ba talaga ang mag pinsan?

ei guys! just wanna know your opinion on this.kasi yung bf ko, 3rd cuz kami. hindi pa ba pwede yun? :badlove:
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  • kartoonistakartoonista Member PExer
    I think pwede na yata yung 3rd degree cuz. :)
  • shadowboxershadowboxer manic-depressive bunny PExer
    yep. legally & health-wise, kahit 2nd-degree OK na eh. pero parang ilag pa rin ako laluna on that level.

    :elk:
  • ChiQuiChiQui Member PExer
    Third degree cousins are okay na... but it depends also on how close your families are. If you're close, expect apprehensions from both sides...
  • kayedykayedy orally fixated PExer
    thanks guys. :) my friends always tell me to stop the relationship kc wala daw mangyayari samin & masasaktan lang kami sa huli. sobrang close pa ng mga relatives namin. we've been hidding this for almost half a year and sometimes, i feel guilty se parang niloloko namin yung parents nya. ang lungkot noh? minsan nga pag magkasama kami, i don't want to go home na. lam nyo yung feeling na sobrang hirap kc you've fallen for the wrong person? :bawling:
  • mic_gandamic_ganda ganda ko! PExer
    DIBA SABI PAG MAGKAMAGANAK
    MAGIGING ABNORMAL YUNG BABY?
    ALAM KO YUNG MAMI AND DADI KO MAGKAMAGANAK EH!
    PERO MALAYO NA.....
    SO SA TINGIN KO NORMAL PA NAMAN AKO!!!!!!
    :p
  • kayedykayedy orally fixated PExer
    hi! mic_ganda,sabi nga ng mga friends ko, baka daw maging mutant yung baby namin if ever. :( sad naman yun diba?se, ang alam ko yung 3rd degree, pwede sa law pero hindi sa church.d ko lang sure. against morality daw. kaya yun. ask ko kayo kung hindi ba magandang tignan. :)
  • specsspecs Member PExer
    nope, it's not against the law and morality. ang hindi lang pinapayagan eh 'yung sinasabing second degree of consanguinity which means first degree cousins. second degree, papayagan na kayo magpakasal, much more pa nga 3rd degree kayo, so ok lang yun. Ito na lang ang problema niyo, pano niyo mapapaintindi sa pamilya ninyo ang sitwasyon...hmmm, i've been in a similar situation, only my situation was worse. basta, i won't elaborate na lang. eniwei, we didn't keep it kasi kahit pagbali-baliktarin namin ang mundo, walang mangyayari. that's why i know what you're going through, it's so frustrating. but at least, your situation has hope. Basta, tanstahin mo yung family niyo. If they are the type who'd go balistic with a small detail or humiliation (some families see something like this a big embarrassment to the family) or crazy talk (tsismis), I suggest you start identifying your priorities. Ask yourself if you can handle the relationship even with the knowledge that your family can disown you asap if they learned. If you can and your partner can also, go on with it by all means. But if you both can't, I suggest you end it now before the relationship deepens making it harder to let go.
    goodluck! :)
  • specsspecs Member PExer
    nope, it's not against the law and morality. ang hindi lang pinapayagan eh 'yung sinasabing second degree of consanguinity which means first degree cousins. second degree, papayagan na kayo magpakasal, much more pa nga 3rd degree kayo, so ok lang yun. Ito na lang ang problema niyo, pano niyo mapapaintindi sa pamilya ninyo ang sitwasyon...hmmm, i've been in a similar situation, only my situation was worse. basta, i won't elaborate na lang. eniwei, we didn't keep it kasi kahit pagbali-baliktarin namin ang mundo, walang mangyayari. that's why i know what you're going through, it's so frustrating. but at least, your situation has hope. Basta, tanstahin mo yung family niyo. If they are the type who'd go balistic with a small detail or humiliation (some families see something like this a big embarrassment to the family) or crazy talk (tsismis), I suggest you start identifying your priorities. Ask yourself if you can handle the relationship even with the knowledge that your family can disown you asap if they learned. If you can and your partner can also, go on with it by all means. But if you both can't, I suggest you end it now before the relationship deepens and becomes harder to let go.

    goodluck! :)
  • EugeneEugene Ang Nasa Kanto PExer
    Bawal na bawal yan. Lalo na pag naglalaro kyo ng bahay-bahayan. Tapos masekreto pla at behind close door pa yan!!!

    Anong pag-address mo sa kanyang mga magulang kung sakali?
    Tiyo? Tiya? Uncle? Auntie? O tatay at nanay? Use them all!

    Ang katotohanan nyan ay pwede na. Pro you have to deal
    with the people involved like her folks, your parents, cousins
    and the like.

    Minsan hwak ng pinsan ang tansan sa kanto... Eugene:):D:):D
  • kayedykayedy orally fixated PExer
    specs, thanx ha. well, 3 sa cuz namin ang nakakaalam nung situation namin, o.k lang sa kanila.i asked him nga before, what if malaman ng parents nya,kaya nya ba akong idefend.sabi nya hindi daw, hindi pa ngayon kasi di pa sya ready.high school pa lang sya kasi.pero diba,hindi pa din reason yun. alam nga ng mom ko yung tungkol samin,o.k lang sa kanya. sobrang hurt ako that time na sabihin nya yun. pero syampre, iba kasi yung feelings ko for him, hindi naman me confused or something, its just that, ewan ko ba. yung sa ibang relatives namin, sure ako/kami na di talaga sila papayag. ang hirap.isa pa, i can't plan my future w/ him.ang sad noh? pero, thanx talaga sayo. ;)
  • kayedykayedy orally fixated PExer
    yah!sobrang nakakailang.hindi kami makakilos ng ayos sa harap ng family nya pati sa mga cuz namin. ang hirap kasi baka malaman nila. we don't have the same surnames & i call his parents, tito & tita. i'm thinking of ways nga on how to deal with it pag nalaman na ng parents nya. sigurado, sermon kami and worse, baka paglayuin kami. :(
  • allieallie out of love..... PExer
    yup i think pag 3rd degree pwede na yun.
  • kayedykayedy orally fixated PExer
    Originally posted by kayedy
    hi! mic_ganda,sabi nga ng mga friends ko, baka daw maging mutant yung baby namin if ever. :( sad naman yun diba?se, ang alam ko yung 3rd degree, pwede sa law pero hindi sa church.d ko lang sure. against morality daw. kaya yun. ask ko kayo kung hindi ba magandang tignan. :)
    wala lang
  • rains_delightrains_delight Banned by Admin PExer
    Pwede na yata ang third degree. Medyo malayo na iyon. Ako nga eh, nagka crush ako sa pinsang buo ko. :D ..pero hindi kami nagkatuluyan kasi magkaiba kami ng relihiyon....:lol:
  • aggressoraggressor the one & only PExer
    sinong may sabing bawal? :wondering:
    pwedeng-pwede! :munch:
  • NakeDNakeD bleeding edge PExer
    huh? pwede? sabi ng anthropology prof ko pwede raw kaya lang according to scientific studies, maaaring magkaroon ng abnormalities ang baby kaya sabi daw ng mga scientists, dapat at least fourth cousin mo yon.
  • stitchesndburnsstitchesndburns dumbfounder PExer
    pwede un... si arroyo nga anak ni GMA 2nd cuzins pa nga sila ng girlfriend nia.. at bulgar nationwide... well... pwede yan... pray ka na lang na tanggapin ng family nio...
  • kayedykayedy orally fixated PExer
    Originally posted by rains_delight
    Pwede na yata ang third degree. Medyo malayo na iyon. Ako nga eh, nagka crush ako sa pinsang buo ko. :D ..pero hindi kami nagkatuluyan kasi magkaiba kami ng relihiyon....:lol:
    ewan ko ha.pero for me kc, religion doesn't matter. thanx anyway. ;)
  • kayedykayedy orally fixated PExer
    Originally posted by NakeD
    huh? pwede? sabi ng anthropology prof ko pwede raw kaya lang according to scientific studies, maaaring magkaroon ng abnormalities ang baby kaya sabi daw ng mga scientists, dapat at least fourth cousin mo yon.
    alam ko nga rin yun. kaya nga parang nakakatakot. pero feeling ko naman na hindi rin kami magkakatuluyan.
  • richyuppierichyuppie Chelsea 2012 UEFA Champions PExer
    From what I know and remember, first and second cousins are not allowed. First cousins share the same 50% blood and Second cousins share the same 25% blood. It is very dangerous for first cousins to have a kid, because of the reaction of the blood. As for second cousins, the risk is smaller but it the chqances is still a big for the sibling to be, you know.

    Indeed!

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