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5 languages of love

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  • littlegurllittlegurl PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    who doesn't want gifts? :shrug2: seriously? :glee:
  • Quality Time is the most important language for me in a relashionship! ;)

    11-Quality Time
    8-Words of Affirmation
    5-Physical Touch
    3-Acts of Service
    3-Receiving Gifts
  • lancealmekianlancealmekian PEx Rookie ⭐
    8 Acts of Service
    8 Words of Affirmation
    7 Receiving Gifts
    6 Quality Time
    1 Physical Touch

    @Nils
    agreed. saken tingin ko okay lang ito as a way (i.e. a benchmarking tool of sorts) to give one an idea what type of a person they are when they are already in a relationship. and i really can't care less about the tips.

    yang mga should na yan, mas marami ang isang tao nyan, mas matindi ang sense of entitlement nya. mas entitled sya, mas nilalangaw sya.
  • ka_denizka_deniz PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Kapag kaya mong dilaan ang kilay mo, walang silbi yang language of love na iyan. Yan ang unang Topic ni Nils noon sa seminar na ibinigay niya sa atin.
  • popskypopsky PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    10 Physical Touch
    10 Quality Time
    5 Acts of Service
    4 Words of Affirmation
    1 Receiving Gifts

    May mali eh. Sa actual 15 ang Physical Touch, 5 ang Quality Time at 1 lang ang Words of Affirmation. Acts of Service must be a little higher.
  • Appreciate, the one who walk through everything with you :) Hey i found out that this site consist of cool short quotes which i wanted to share with you guys. Check this out :)
  • this is very true. :)

    in a relationship there is work to be done. and a part of that work is knowing and speaking your spouse's love language. :)

    just read this thread and I'd say tagal na *** nito at hindi lahat pa alam about this.. :)
  • Wala poh. Kuntentoh na poh ako kapag words ng " I love you " at saka kapag sinasakripisyo ang sarili sa ibah tao at sa akin na pati life niya poh ibibigay.

    Mahal koh talaga siya. Naisip koh tuloy poh siya. Siya lang poh ang gumagawa nun. Ibah poh siya. Kakaibah poh na pati poh akoh, wala poh akoh kapangyarihan poh para magbayad sa sakripisyo inialay niya poh.

    Kaya nga Dyosa ang tawag koh sa kanya.

    " Buhay " na lang poh siguro isasagot koh poh. Mas higit pa poh kase sa gifts at sa buo mundo, at higit pa sa kahit ano so ang language of love koh na lang poh is love, life and sacrifice.
  • languages of love..?

    all i know is, the real language of love is loyalty..
    kasi pagloyal ka, you dont need a percentage kung ilan *** yung acts of service, receiving gifts, etc..
    you give your best a 100% in every situation.. ☺
  • Misa-Misa wrote: »
    Wala poh. Kuntentoh na poh ako kapag words ng " I love you " at saka kapag sinasakripisyo ang sarili sa ibah tao at sa akin na pati life niya poh ibibigay.

    Mahal koh talaga siya. Naisip koh tuloy poh siya. Siya lang poh ang gumagawa nun. Ibah poh siya. Kakaibah poh na pati poh akoh, wala poh akoh kapangyarihan poh para magbayad sa sakripisyo inialay niya poh.

    Kaya nga Dyosa ang tawag koh sa kanya.

    " Buhay " na lang poh siguro isasagot koh poh. Mas higit pa poh kase sa gifts at sa buo mundo, at higit pa sa kahit ano so ang language of love koh na lang poh is love, life and sacrifice.

    5 Love Languages is a book by Chapman. Ang snasabi po sa book is may limang love language tayong tinatanggap at binibigay sa mga taong mahal natin. We feel loved and special kapag narereceive natin yung specific love language.

    Kadalasan kasi, we just loved. we speak our own love language. for example, may mga taong clingy, may mga mahilig mag-regalo, may mga masalita.

    pero kasing importante nung binibigay nating language is yung tumatanggap. for example, ma-regalo ka, pinapakita mo yung love mo sa isang tao through giving gifts, pero mas gusto nya quality time with you. at kahit palagi kang nagbibigay ng gift kung hindi naman yun yung love language na gustong mareceive ng taong mahal mo, he or she will feel de-appreciated or less loved. ganon din kapag kabaligtaran, example, lagi kayong magkasama ng taong mahal mo dahil importante *** ang quality time, lagi kayong nagtatravel, lahat ng bagay sabay nyong ginagawa, minsan kahit wala kayong ginagawa basta magkasama kayo, solved kana. and he or she feel loved with your actions, pero mas mafefeel nyang special o extra ordinary yung relationship nyo kung ibibigay or i-speak mo yung love language nya. pwedeng words of affirmation, receiving gifts, or isa o higit pa sa limang love language. hindi enclosed or limited sa isa ang love language, pero palaging may mag-dominate kahit konti. kaya importante na one at a time, speak one of those language.
  • kiugawa wrote: »
    languages of love..?

    all i know is, the real language of love is loyalty..
    kasi pagloyal ka, you dont need a percentage kung ilan *** yung acts of service, receiving gifts, etc..
    you give your best a 100% in every situation.. ☺

    pero diba po minsan kahit binibigay mo na yung 100 percent mo, wala ka ng tinira sa sarili mo, sasabihin pa nila, kulang, may kulang pa lagi, hindi pa rin sapat, ang ending yung relationship hindi angiging successful.

    5 love languages is a very good book po. i suggest you read it po. you already have the loyalty traits (hindi lahat ng tao loyal), it'll be good na ma familiar ka po sa love language :)
  • popsky wrote: »
    10 Physical Touch
    10 Quality Time
    5 Acts of Service
    4 Words of Affirmation
    1 Receiving Gifts

    May mali eh. Sa actual 15 ang Physical Touch, 5 ang Quality Time at 1 lang ang Words of Affirmation. Acts of Service must be a little higher.

    pwede pong magkaiba yung gusto nating mareceive kesa don sa binibigay/ini-speak natin.
  • NalaGidaNalaGida PEx Rookie ⭐
    My friends and I would take this test yearly hahaha just for fun... and also out of curiosity. we would always exchange results and discuss every bit of its significance and relevance in our present lives. btw, mine is quality time (#1). 
  • 5 languages of loves really interesting
  • good poll. Loyalty is the thing i want in a relationship.
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