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5 languages of love

Do you know these 5 love languages? What's yours?

What's your love language? 74 votes

Words of Affirmation
10% 8 votes
Receiving Gifts
0% 0 votes
Acts of Service
20% 15 votes
Physical Touch
8% 6 votes
Quality Time
60% 45 votes
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  • ka_denizka_deniz PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Si blue tracer kabisado yang mga language na yan.

    He's a cunning linguist.
  • NilsNils PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    5 languages of love?

    TS, mukhang nasosobrahan ang pagbabasa mo ng articles galing sa kung ano anong magazines, websites. Every courtship and every relationship is unique. Hindi naikakahon yan. Kung ipipilit mo yung 5 languages ek ek na yan na dapat yan din ang alam ng manliligaw sa iyo, mahihirapan kang makahanap ng partner. Use them as guides oo, pero yung mag stick ka sa kung anong nabasa mo na dapat yun din sinusunod ng magiging partner mo, good luck na lang sa iyo.
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    5 languages of love..

    andaming alam..


    :lol:
  • ako touch..

    my son, time and attention...

    my wife and daughter, unfortunately, gifts hehehe...
  • azumiiiazumiii PEx Rookie ⭐
    @Nils, clearly you are off topic.lols.

    #1. mali, hindi ko siya nabasa sa magazines or websites.
    #2. I did not or intend to stick this on my suitors' noses.
    #3. Assuming ka.
    #4. Gawa ka sarili mong thread with title "5 languages of love is non-sense"

    Hope that helps you and may you be blessed today. Cheers!

    @Sentry thanks!
    Hahah on the gifts.
    Which reminds me...
    Giving love, i use *gifts*. I fail at *words* big time kaya gifts na lang. But not just gifts that can be bought...i make them personalized to show that i took time making it kasi i love the receiver.yey.

    But receiving love, i feel it more pag *Acts of service*. Hindi na din effective sa akin ang words and gifts haha.

    Nanay ko ayaw ng gifts. Gusto cash.lols.

    Lola, Gifts at cash.
  • jcdyjcdy PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    azumiii wrote: »
    @Nils, clearly you are off topic.lols.

    #1. mali, hindi ko siya nabasa sa magazines or websites.
    #2. I did not or intend to stick this on my suitors' noses.
    #3. Assuming ka.
    #4. Gawa ka sarili mong thread with title "5 languages of love is non-sense"

    Hope that helps you and may you be blessed today. Cheers!

    @Sentry thanks!
    Hahah on the gifts.
    Which reminds me...
    Giving love, i use *gifts*. I fail at *words* big time kaya gifts na lang. But not just gifts that can be bought...i make them personalized to show that i took time making it kasi i love the receiver.yey.

    But receiving love, i feel it more pag *Acts of service*. Hindi na din effective sa akin ang words and gifts haha.

    Nanay ko ayaw ng gifts. Gusto cash.lols.

    Lola, Gifts at cash.

    :lol: at nanay and lola. Manhid kana sa words and gifts, pero understandable naman na mas prefer mo ang actions kesa sa dun sa 2. Siguro sawa kana sa kanila and sabi nga nila "actions speak louder than words." Ewan ko nga lang pagdating sa gifts, kasi for sure may mga iba na mas prefer pa din nila yun.
  • azumiiiazumiii PEx Rookie ⭐
    Yep there are those who would really appreciate gifts, be it as simple as a pen, a cupcake or what not. It is their love language obviously. That or they are just naturally appreciative.

    May kilala ako, nung nililigawan pa lang niya yung wife niya, he would give flowers daw but he just got brokenhearted kasi he saw na tinatapon lang ni girl, nakita niya sa trash can. He did not stop though and continued to know the girl better. Then he went to finally say he loves her and her response was 'thank you'. He was expecting to hear 'i love you too'.
    To cut the long story, nagkatuluyan nga sila but the guy finally knew that her wife's love language is not gifts nor words but time and service. Even if mag asawa na sila now, mister would still pull a chair for misis, open the car door, they go on a date once a week kahit simple dinner in a local restaurant. That is how she feels loved daw. Si husband naman, his love language are words, words of affirmation so wife generously praises every good or simple act of service mister does. Not that bolera daw si misis pero she noticed na the more she praises and cheer him up thru words of affirmation on his achievements and acts of service, the more mister does acts/serves.

    Magkaiba love language nila but thankfully they were able to know that early on and were able to adapt to each other.
  • in short..

    verbal and non-verbal communications..


    :glee:
  • valerie_hatesyouvalerie_hatesyou PEx Rookie ⭐
    TS, I'll post my thoughts on this because I'm bored.

    I just Googled the ish but it wasn't that interesting, anyway, here's my "score" (thanks to http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/singles) :lol:

    5 - Words of Affirmation
    12 - Quality Time
    0 - Receiving Gifts
    6 - Acts of Service
    7 - Physical Touch

    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.

    Ayoko pala makatanggap ng regalo? Saka wala akong hilig sa tsansing? :bah:

    Anong point neto? :bop:
  • TS, I'll post my thoughts on this because I'm bored.

    I just Googled the ish but it wasn't that interesting, anyway, here's my "score" (thanks to http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/singles) :lol:

    5 - Words of Affirmation
    12 - Quality Time
    0 - Receiving Gifts
    6 - Acts of Service
    7 - Physical Touch

    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.

    Ayoko pala makatanggap ng regalo? Saka wala akong hilig sa tsansing? :bah:

    Anong point neto? :bop:

    really bored. :lol:
  • valerie_hatesyouvalerie_hatesyou PEx Rookie ⭐
    firstWeMeet, hey! Why did you quote it? Nahiya tuloy ako :rolleyes::lol:
  • RaffeiRaffei PEx Rookie ⭐
    ngayon ko lang nakuha sense nito...ako ayoko din ng gifts..and not so much sa physical touches.lalo na yung parang linta kung makadikit o akbay someone did this to me at hindi ako komportable kahit yun pa way niya para maipakita affection niya mas naiinis lang ako..words of affirmation and acts of service. yun gusto ko..

    So I learned that it wasn't knowing your own language of love that matters but knowing which of these languages of love best suits your partner,family and friends.It will help you know how to adjust and be able to show your affection more appropriately..
    Kaya next time aalamin ko na baka sayang effort ko ibang paraan pala ang gusto.
  • JameauxJameaux PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    This is a good topic huh. Hehe

    I agree na dapat you don't expect the other person to do the same exact things as you do pag nagpapakita ng pagmamahal para lang masabi mo na mahal ka rin nya.

    May masabi lang. :lol:
  • TTJ__TTJ__ PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^may pinaparinggan ka ata eh. Maging mas sweet ka daw, jamo. :lol:
  • JameauxJameaux PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^

    Bossing! :stolenkiss:

    Na-realize ko lang na tama si TS. Usually lalake ang mahilig magsalita ng kung anu-anong siyet para maparamdam ang love nila. Ang babae naman ay time at "serbis. :lol:
  • mcsteamy17mcsteamy17 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    5 Languages of Love namely...


    -Words of Affirmation
    -Quality Time
    -Receiving Gifts
    -Acts of Service
    -Physical Touch


    So ganun pala, we can consider our partner's Top 2 love languages. High on Words of Affirmation, and Quality Time means she would want to hear my "I love you's" more often and she would make every effort to find time to be with me (and she would also expect me to be available) if possible, everyday. :)

    Kaya pala, kahit anong bigay ko ng mga gifts eh, minsan deadma lang... it's her lowest kasi. :lol:

    Di pala kailangan parati gumastos... :glee:





    Pag sa SEX naman, iisa lang ang lenguahe... ...aaahhhh... :dizzy:
  • NilsNils PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    tha_laurd wrote: »
    in short..

    verbal and non-verbal communications..


    :glee:

    2 lang yan.. kulang ka pa nang 3... :naughty:
  • NilsNils PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    TS, I'll post my thoughts on this because I'm bored.

    I just Googled the ish but it wasn't that interesting, anyway, here's my "score" (thanks to http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/singles) :lol:

    5 - Words of Affirmation
    12 - Quality Time
    0 - Receiving Gifts
    6 - Acts of Service
    7 - Physical Touch

    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.

    Ayoko pala makatanggap ng regalo? Saka wala akong hilig sa tsansing? :bah:

    Anong point neto? :bop:

    Hindi pala website... mali nga ako... :lol:
  • NilsNils PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    @TS

    There is a reason why you are still single and I'm happily married to a gorgeous woman for over two decades despite the fact I'm not an ideal man/husband... I don't need no stinking website or online test to tell me things I can find out for myself...

    These BS about what you should expect from your future partner are the main reasons why very few people are building lasting relationships today... Other people's ideas of what a relationship should be, should have, should whatever are ruining the chances of what a couple's relationship should be... Something special that they build from what they need from each other... Continue reading and believing these things and sooner or later, you'd find yourself old and still single because none of your suitors or partners made the cut as per what all these articles said what a partner should be/do/whatever.
  • yestoyesto Administrator PEx Admin
    This is interesting.. I'll add a poll sa thread na to :)
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