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After na meet mo isang person, how fast ba dapat timeframe before mo sabihin na gusto mo sya?

Puwede 3 weeks or dapat 3 months? Ano na experience mo dati?

And ano connection nito sa "friendzone".. here advice nila dapat first meeting pa lang mai sexual aggression na.. meaning wag patagalin ang getting to know each other. Pero diba if you do it too fast, madapa ka? Paano mo adjust or timing?
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  • Kung ligaw, masyadong mabilis ang 3 weeks. tama lang ang ang 1 - 3 months.


    kapag pickup/seduction, ang goal ay sex as quickly as possible. matagal na iyung paabutin mo ng 3 dates. kung ma-sex mo na, dun ka magpapasya kung gusto mo pa ng relationship.


    tungkol sa friendzone, danger iyan kahit ano pang method mo. kaya may advice na "sexual aggression" ay para malaman ng girl even if subconsciously na kung kayo lamang ang tao sa isang kwarto, magse-sex kayo. isa iyang tactics. of course, tough luck kung ang approach ay friendship first. napakalaki ng probability na friendzone ka, kung sa una pa lang ay walang gusto sa'yo ang babae
  • juciprut wrote: »
    After na meet mo isang person, how fast ba dapat timeframe before mo sabihin na gusto mo sya?

    YOU don't really say you like her outright. you meet someone you're attracted to, you get her number. that's right. get her number. a lot of guys these days ask for facebook or twitter account first, which i think is a waste of time. ultimately, you're going to have to ask for her number anyway to ask her out because asking a chick out on facebook is so damn impersonal so why not bypass the facebook step in order move things quicker? and because a lot of guys ask for "fb" instead of "number," mas maraming chicks ang humihirit ngayon ng "fb na lang" kesa ibigay digits nila (NOTE: do not ask for her "digits." ask for her "number." it's okay to use "digits" in a conversation, but never use it when asking. you're going to sound like a player, or worse, a wannabe or trying hard player :lol: ). so when a chick tells you "fb na lang muna" when you ask for her number, walk away and find someone who will give you her number like it's supposed to.
    Puwede 3 weeks or dapat 3 months? Ano na experience mo dati?

    3 WEEKS is enough to dump you in the dreaded friend zone. :lol: you need to move fast. when you meet someone you like, ask for her number, wait two days, then call her, and then ask her out on a date. 3 weeks of her finding out things about you she may or may not like BEFORE even a sip of margarita with you can kill your chances.
    And ano connection nito sa "friendzone".. here advice nila dapat first meeting pa lang mai sexual aggression na.. meaning wag patagalin ang getting to know each other. Pero diba if you do it too fast, madapa ka? Paano mo adjust or timing?

    CHICKS don't necessarily entertain thoughts of sex on the first meeting so it's not sexual aggression you need to establish. a guy meets a chick we like and we're already guessing what shade of brown/pink her nipples are. a chick meets a guy and she's guessing how much we make or are capable of making. we picture chicks naked, they picture the condo, and what schools the kids are going to go to. :lol: in either case, and i reiterate, you need to move quick. if nothing else, it's because there are guys out there who have better game than you.
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    and because a lot of guys ask for "fb" instead of "number," mas maraming chicks ang humihirit ngayon ng "fb na lang" kesa ibigay digits nila

    naku, kasama na ako dito.. i usually just ask for the fb.. :D
  • ka_denizka_deniz PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Sabihin mo na agad na gusto mo siya para wala ka nang problema.

    Siya na may problema ngayon kung gugustuhin ka niya.
  • naku, kasama na ako dito.. i usually just ask for the fb.. :D
    kasama na yung kinilala ko sa eastwood na inuwi ko sa bahay.. :naughty:

    LOL iba naman yan. ts, pag naitake-home mo na, fb na lang hingin mo parang si narutz para hindi ka na obligadong tumawag or magtext after. :lol:
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    LOL iba naman yan. ts, pag naitake-home mo na, fb na lang hingin mo parang si narutz para hindi ka na obligadong tumawag after. :lol:

    in-edit ko pa.. naquote mo na pala.. :lol:

    nauna yung fb eh bago yung take home.. dahil matagal akong wala sa manila, months muna bago ko hiningi yung number.. kaya matagal bago ako nakipagkita.. recently lang.. :naughty: :glee:


    pero kung mabilisan ang gusto, yeah, mas ok nga kung number agad.. :D
  • pag ganitong topic present lahat ng members ng team :lol:

    si Nils na lang kulang, complete na ang mga players :lol:
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    chit chat muna for a few days. pag naipapasok mo na ang sex sa mga conversations nyo tsaka ka mag aya ng date :naughty:
  • AER_JA wrote: »
    pag ganitong topic present lahat ng members ng team :lol:

    si Nils na lang kulang, complete na ang mga players :lol:

    basketball?
  • Ang isa kung tinatanong ay how many dates bago mo sabihin feelings sa kanya? that is.. umpisa na dates nyo, dapat 3 months bago mo sabihin feelings... or 3 weeks after start of dates (para maging closer kayo on way to become bf/gf)?
  • basketball?
    yes po. magaling po sila sa bola. :glee:
  • During your first few dates (1-2), ask her "if she sleeps in the buff." How, when and in what context you ask that question will test your skill set. Her reply will be immaterial.

    If she goes out with you again, then you've truly advanced.
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    AER_JA wrote: »
    pag ganitong topic present lahat ng members ng team :lol:

    si Nils na lang kulang, complete na ang mga players :lol:

    oi! sino ang mga players na yan? papaturo din ako about sa Game.. :D
  • AER_JA wrote: »
    yes po. magaling po sila sa bola. :glee:

    at nagpapasahan pa. lol.
  • juciprut wrote: »
    Ang isa kung tinatanong ay how many dates bago mo sabihin feelings sa kanya? that is.. umpisa na dates nyo, dapat 3 months bago mo sabihin feelings... or 3 weeks after start of dates (para maging closer kayo on way to become bf/gf)?

    THAT depends on your game plan. pa-fall (or should i say, "methodical" :glee: ) ba ang approach mo? or yung mixed signal routine ba (urong-sulong :glee: ) or agresibo (high risk, high reward)? if it's the first or the second, you wait until she asks you or until you can tell na naguguluhan na sya and she's dying for a clarification. if it's the last, your actions and other words that come out of mouth should suffice. personally, i tell a chick right away, on the first date. but i don't really say "i like you," i say "you're amazing" or "i'm fascinated" or "i'm having fun with you." somewhere along the way, i drop subtle sexual innuendos. pag kumagat, i sea the deal. pag medyo naging uncomfortable, sabay kabig. try again later. rinse and repeat until desired results are achieved. :lol:
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    juciprut wrote: »
    dapat 3 months bago mo sabihin feelings... or 3 weeks after start of dates (para maging closer kayo on way to become bf/gf)?

    3 months or 3 weeks? if by that time she still doesn't know that you like her, and your dates are simply "friendly dates," you're already in the friendzone.. you'll just be masturbating before and after your dates, instead of actually getting some head..

    kahit sa unang date pa lang, dapat maramdaman na niya na gusto mo siya..
    but i don't really say "i like you," i say "you're amazing" or "i'm fascinated" or "i'm having fun with you." somewhere along the way, i drop subtle sexual innuendos.

    tipong:

    ..masarap ka talaga sa kama.. este.. kasama..

    .. ang kulit kulit mo talaga.. sige ka, ingungudngod ko na yang nguso mo...... sa nguso ko..

    :naughty::lol:
  • 3 months or 3 weeks? if by that time she still doesn't know that you like her, and your dates are simply "friendly dates," you're already in the friendzone.. you'll just be masturbating before and after your dates, instead of actually getting some head..

    kahit sa unang date pa lang, dapat maramdaman na niya na gusto mo siya..



    tipong:

    ..masarap ka talaga sa kama.. este.. kasama..

    .. ang kulit kulit mo talaga.. sige ka, ingungudngod ko na yang nguso mo...... sa nguso ko..

    :naughty::lol:

    ang tanong ko pala ay.. pag nagumpisa na kayo official dates na alam nya gusto mo sya.. 2-3 weeks or 2-3 months bago mo sabihin gusto mo sya maging gf? at paano mo sabihin?
  • Vit@min_C[email protected]_C PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    mas trip ang friendzone para mas komportable ang getting to know ishader. natural at walang extra effort magpa-impress.

    para kasing ang labo pag first time na meet, tapos few days e hihiritan na 'gusto kita'. siguro 'interesado' pwede.

    well, popoy strat 'to, hindi pang jay manalo. :lol:
    --
    ok din minsan pag my friend na beki ang target. ang daling i-schedule ng session. lalo na't drinking sez.
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    juciprut wrote: »
    ang tanong ko pala ay.. pag nagumpisa na kayo official dates na alam nya gusto mo sya.. 2-3 weeks or 2-3 months bago mo sabihin gusto mo sya maging gf? at paano mo sabihin?

    usually it just happens.. you become inseparable, exchange body fluids, and and later on formalize it and sign contracts that are renewable every three months..
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ok din minsan pag may friend na beki ang target. ang daling i-schedule ng session. lalo na't drinking sez.

    yung dati kong officemate ganito rin dati ang style.. hanggang sa ang ginawa ng target niya, sinet-up sila ng date with the beki.. tipong iinom or kakain sa labas silang tatlo, tapos iiwan sila ng target niya.. ending, yung beki ang kadeyt niya.. :lol:

    yung mali siguro sa ginawa niya ay yung sobrang kinaibigan niya yung beki at nafall yata.. ginawang bridge ang target.. :glee:
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