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Is it possible to court someone at work without being gossiped about?

I noticed kasi na parating may mga tao na nagrereport sa lahat na si ganito ganyan nililigawan siya, or Binusted si ganito. Or ang panget panget niya, hindi naman bagay Feeling lang niya.



Do you think what I said in the topic title is possible here in the Philippines?
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  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    amf na tanong yan..
    OO naman!
    nasa senyo na yan ng nililigawan mo..
    me iba nga nagsesex na wala pa rin nakakaalam eh..
  • elhyelhy PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    fvck that BS!

    Seduce the HO! Inggit lang nila.

    Even better, kapag mabalitaan nalang nila after the fact. Parang kay Wally at Yosh.
  • Definitely yes. At tama rin si uzumaki even further than ligawan.
  • balbolskibalbolski PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    possible yan mag resign ka or sya :lol::lol:
  • NilsNils PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    pag itsinismis ka, sapakin mo, yung sakto sa bunganga at bali yung front teeth right at the gum line... magtitino yan kapag nakatikim ng ganung sapak...
  • Yes, it is possible. Nasa paraan na yan ng panliligaw.
  • Basta hindi madaldal yung nililigawan mo :lol:
  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    parang malabo sa Pilipinas setting, kakalat yan sa buong department, sa buong building, hanggang sa mga boss ninyo, LOL.
  • impossible hahaha. again its either you or she/he or both of you eh umalis sa kumpanya kung gusto nyo talaga mag further ang relasyon nyo. mahirap yan. bawal yan. :)) bakit kaya may mga taong ang hilig sa excitement at gustong gusto mga kumplikado. lols
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    pilipinas pa hah. may text, internet (tweeter + instagram + facebook). ang tsimis kasing halaga ng oxygen. hindi makahinga pag walang tsismis. hahaha
  • zgmf_x20Azgmf_x20A PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kahit nga sa ibang company pa yang nililigawan mo itsismis at itsismis yan e :rotflmao:
  • yung may something pa nga lang kayo, kalat na agad ang tsismis eh. lalo pa kaya yung official mong liligawan :lol:
  • darmonxdarmonx PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    well...

    - pareho kayong may asawa
    - boss mo siya

    only two scenarios i know of that can have a chance of secrecy kasi pareho kayong ma sisisante pag nabuko... pero kung ligawang mga single... wala.. lalabas yun dahil sa yabangan o inggitan.
  • Alpha_GreenAlpha_Green PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Does it even matter if it would be gossiped about or not? It's a wrong thing to do in the first place. You don't do that to a coworker, especially if she's in the same division, department or project team as you. You won't be able to practice impartiality in the workplace if she becomes your gf. There's also a saying "don't sh|t where you eat".

    Tanong mo kung may bond siya at intayin mo nalang mag resign.
  • Not impossible but it would be very difficult. Haha. Yung tipong madalas mo nga lang kasama yung isang tao, iniissue na agad eh. What more kung ligawan pa. :D
  • Siguro hindi lang naman dito sa culture ng pinoy yang tsismis.

    Since the time of our ancestors where communities and neighbors where created, gossips were already incorporated with it.

    Sarap din kasi makialam sa buhay ng may buhay. But if you know and you abide the golden rule, you wouldn't much dwell into such pathetic act.

    Ako inaamin ko once i a while nakikitsismis ako. Madalas nga nyan hindi ko tinatanong, sinishare lang sakin. Dun mo mapupuna yung mga hardcore tsismoso/tsismosa. Yung mga mahilig magshare ng kwento at masaya pa sila lalo na't may naniniwala sa kanila.

    Para din silang bullies na kung ano wala sa kanila yun ang pinalalabas nilang nakakatawa sa ibang tao just to make them feel good about themselves.

    E.g. A physically fit bully but with little to no brain. They bully geeks to make themselves look cool. They sometimes beat smart people to make other people see that they are superior and they don't need brains to be great.

    So as with cerebral bullies who use wits to get into the head of people they hate. Mostly, these are the opposite of the above mentioned.

    Bottom line is, a lot of people spread gossips against other people despite that person not having anything against them.
    Most of these tattle tales are just insecure with the person they're trying to destroy because they lack what the person have.

    Oftentimes, a lot of dumb people will buy their stories that they made despite having only their opinions to back up their claims. To these low life dim witted people, their opinions are fact.

    Di naman siguro nasisira dangal mo sa tsismis nila. Just stay on your course and make them look silly by making their stories made up of fiction
  • Meanie!!Meanie!! PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    mahirap but not impossible...depende rin talaga sa culture nang workplace. Kuya ko lahat halos nang naging gf niya these past few years katrabaho niya.

    Mas madali pag pareho kayong madalas sa field wok, i.e. sales rep or account executive
  • it's happening to me now. me and another co-worker are super duper close. we are being gossiped about having a relationship. actually, we are not 'us'. we only have mutual understanding. all of the people in our company are asking if we are 'us'. we just shrugged our shoulders. we are both teachers. even our students are suspecting. we are both guys. discreet and good looking too. sabe nila kase bagay kame.
  • raymundusiraymundusi PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Ambilis kumalat! isang katrabaho ko ka room mate nya yung babaeng pinopormahan ko date, tahimik lang sha. Nung nagkita kame ule nung naliligawan kong girl shempre sweet talk at biruan kame tapos napadaan yung katrabaho kong yun at magkakilala pala sila yun nga dun ko nalaman na mag ka room mate nga sila (nababangit lang nya saken na me room mate sha pero di sinasabe ang pangalan) . Matapos ng ilang araw e nagkalat na sa mga katrabaho at bisor ko ang ugnayan namen gang sa puntong binubuyo at tinutukso ako kapag napadaan sya sa dept/team office namen. Wala lang nakakasira lang ng diskarte at nakakajahe, nagtext nga saken yung nililigawan ko kung "baket ako tinutukso ako sayo ng mga ka team mo?.."
  • Zep_TepiZep_Tepi PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    To answer the question, it is very difficult. If you're going to court her, it must be very discreet and you must not show any emotion towards each other in the workplace. Very hard, if not impossible.
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