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Was there a time in your life, you'd rather be a straight man living a normal life loving the opposite sex?

I always do...

Yung walang tinatago sa pamilya, friends, strangers, etc about your sex preference. Yung sa babae lang nagkakagusto at tinitigasan.

Mawala lang yan ay ayos na eh...

Kesa yung nasa closet nagtatago, iisipin muna ang mga bibitawang salita sa tao, pagiisipan kung paano makisalamuha, etc dagdag problema lang ito sa work, bahay at pamilya sa kakaisip...

Hirap no?
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  • Ako baliktad. I'd rather be a beautiful woman who loves men. :lol:
  • PB2011 wrote: »
    Was there a time in your life, you'd rather be a straight man living a normal life loving the opposite sex?

    I always do...

    Yung walang tinatago sa pamilya, friends, strangers, etc about your sex preference. Yung sa babae lang nagkakagusto at tinitigasan.

    Mawala lang yan ay ayos na eh...

    Kesa yung nasa closet nagtatago, iisipin muna ang mga bibitawang salita sa tao, pagiisipan kung paano makisalamuha, etc dagdag problema lang ito sa work, bahay at pamilya sa kakaisip...

    Hirap no?

    I know the feeling and it sucks because on my case, no one knows about it except for the guys I met.

    I'm still getting a hard-on with women though which is a good thing.
  • KlutzMDKlutzMD PEx Rookie ⭐
    may time pa naman kayo kung gusto nyong maging straight eh.. :)
  • It's always a choice :)
  • Its a choice, but hopefully a partner whos loving and understanding can help and be with you fighting for what you feel,
  • PB2011 wrote: »
    Was there a time in your life, you'd rather be a straight man living a normal life loving the opposite sex?

    I always do...

    Yung walang tinatago sa pamilya, friends, strangers, etc about your sex preference. Yung sa babae lang nagkakagusto at tinitigasan.

    Mawala lang yan ay ayos na eh...

    Kesa yung nasa closet nagtatago, iisipin muna ang mga bibitawang salita sa tao, pagiisipan kung paano makisalamuha, etc dagdag problema lang ito sa work, bahay at pamilya sa kakaisip...

    Hirap no?

    alam ko yung feeling na 2... T_T
  • ParkourParkour PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    I can't help but cringe on this topic.

    What does it take to be a "real man"?

    Homosexuality is never a choice. Did the straight people choose to be straight? I don't think so.

    How are you going to live your life is your choice.

    If you choose to regret every single day of your life being gay is up to you.

    Being straight is not normal... it is just common. :rolleyes:

    It's sad that there are people like us who still think being gay is a curse.

    SMH
  • gen_evagen_eva PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Minsan, gusto kong maging tunay na lalaki para wala ng drama haha. Pag straight relationship kasi, tanggap ng tao. Pwedeng holding hands or konting cuddling sa public. Pag same gender kasi, ang hirap lalo na pag gusto mo nang kuritin sa pisngi *** kasama mo haha. Tsaka pag straight relationship, possible na magkaroon ng anak unless my abnormality sa katawan hehe. Pero masarap ang maging "ganito" kasi ika nga, we have the best of both worlds. Imagine the possibilities kung pagsasamahin ang logic at creativity. Ang daming magagawa. haha. yun nga lang, mahirap ang may tinatago. kaya nga very helpful ang pex kasi kahit papano, nagiging totoong tao ako. haha.
  • ... alam mo yung feeling na may gusto ka sa babae... pero mas tinitigsan ka sa kapwa... nakakalito .. kaya nararamdaman ko yung feeling na sana ... naging mas normal ang reaction ng katawan ko sa gusto ng isipan ko ...
  • PB2011 wrote: »
    Was there a time in your life, you'd rather be a straight man living a normal life loving the opposite sex?

    I always do...

    Yung walang tinatago sa pamilya, friends, strangers, etc about your sex preference. Yung sa babae lang nagkakagusto at tinitigasan.

    I can relate to this. Sobrang madalas mangyari sakin 'to. I guess you just have to accept who and what you are kasi more than anyone else, you have to choose to love and accept yourself.
  • 12th~angel wrote: »
    Ako baliktad. I'd rather be a beautiful woman who loves men. :lol:

    Haha yun lang maging babae pala gusto mo pero mahirap yun kasi may male organ ka at may adams apple kaso boses lalake ka pa.
  • KlutzMD wrote: »
    may time pa naman kayo kung gusto nyong maging straight eh.. :)

    Huh! Ano yan para ka lang nagpalit ng damit na anytime na gusto mo pede hahaha. Nakakatawa ka
  • Bumpin wrote: »
    It's always a choice :)

    No its not a choice. Hinde ko pinili na magkagusto sa kapwa lalake. Mararamdaman mo na lang sa lalake ka na-attract at hinde sa babae.

    Paano mo nasabi na choice yan?
  • al28 wrote: »
    Its a choice, but hopefully a partner whos loving and understanding can help and be with you fighting for what you feel,

    Its not a choice to be attracted to the same sex, instinct yun nararamdaman na lang so asan ang choice dun na sinasabi mo?
  • Parkour wrote: »
    I can't help but cringe on this topic.

    What does it take to be a "real man"?

    Homosexuality is never a choice. Did the straight people choose to be straight? I don't think so.

    How are you going to live your life is your choice.

    If you choose to regret every single day of your life being gay is up to you.

    Being straight is not normal... it is just common. :rolleyes:

    It's sad that there are people like us who still think being gay is a curse.

    SMH


    Its like your only option is, you have no choice but to accept it. You will live a bitter life if you dont accept it and will always be unhappy.

    If you accept it, you stay closeted and meet other PLUs have sex with them, enter into a relationship, committed to each other since you love each other. You are happy in a way kasi nafulfill ang puso mo kaso when reality strucks, at the end of the day, you cannot go out with him in the public w/o questioning eyes all over you, society who doesnt accept this type of relationship, your hiding a secret to your family, relatives and friends. In the long run, kahit anong gawin mo mapapagod ka din at sasabihin mo sana normal na lang lahat para madali ang buhay...
  • gen_eva wrote: »
    Minsan, gusto kong maging tunay na lalaki para wala ng drama haha. Pag straight relationship kasi, tanggap ng tao. Pwedeng holding hands or konting cuddling sa public. Pag same gender kasi, ang hirap lalo na pag gusto mo nang kuritin sa pisngi *** kasama mo haha. Tsaka pag straight relationship, possible na magkaroon ng anak unless my abnormality sa katawan hehe. Pero masarap ang maging "ganito" kasi ika nga, we have the best of both worlds. Imagine the possibilities kung pagsasamahin ang logic at creativity. Ang daming magagawa. haha. yun nga lang, mahirap ang may tinatago. kaya nga very helpful ang pex kasi kahit papano, nagiging totoong tao ako. haha.

    With your statement, mas kuntento ka na maging gay kasi mas advantageous sa iyo yung pagiging creative ng mga bakla. Mababaw! Fyi May mga straight men who are as artistic as the gay men.

    Mahirap magtago pero kung out in the open ka naman, you are the center of scrutiny and katatawanan. Dagdag pa sa Kahihiyan sa family at surname. Yung mga out naman ay yung mga effem at halata kaya kailangan pa bang magtago mga ganyan hahaha. Pag straight acting ka with no tendencies tapos nasa fb mo committed sa lalake din, ang laking issue pa marami pa magshare at center of ridicule din. Sa totoo lang hinde mo alam kung saan ka lulugar kaya mahirap.
  • Mark1027 wrote: »
    I can relate to this. Sobrang madalas mangyari sakin 'to. I guess you just have to accept who and what you are kasi more than anyone else, you have to choose to love and accept yourself.

    Kaso it doesnt stop sa merely accepting it, marami ka pa rin dadaanan na hirap
  • Eto na naman pootahyo. :glee:

    Kapag naging straight ba ko, hindi na ba ako magkakaproblema? :glee:

    *pexadik*
  • PB2011 wrote: »
    No its not a choice. Hinde ko pinili na magkagusto sa kapwa lalake. Mararamdaman mo na lang sa lalake ka na-attract at hinde sa babae.

    Paano mo nasabi na choice yan?

    Kahit baluktutin at balibaliktarin mo, at sagutin man ng lahat ng taga AP and kapwa PLU, at the end of the day, It's you who can answer your own question. I won't linger with your perception but you cannot deny that you will need to answer "yes or no" and still falls as a choice. Just my 2 cents. Enough said, this is getting old.

    I will not answer anymore and I respect whatever you believe in. :)
  • ricksinz wrote: »
    Eto na naman pootahyo. :glee:

    Kapag naging straight ba ko, hindi na ba ako magkakaproblema? :glee:

    *pexadik*


    Nye, hinde naman problema ang issue
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