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He will not let me to have sex with him anymore! Need advise badly

famarkfamark PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
We had our last safe sex last year that was thrice after I knew his condition that he is positive with HIV. After that, he don't want to do it with me anymore, even mutual jo or making out or even on cam jo. He always tell me he wants to protect me and he don't want me to get infected.

We even fight over this issue and he even asked me if I can be with him without having sex - I said yes which is true. But there are instances I missed it coz I've read a lot of articles with couples with the same condition as ours yet they are still doing it.

What do you think of this? is he being overprotective? Or he don't want to have sex at all coz he don't want me anymore? Any thoughts guys?

Comments

  • pwedeng gumagawa lang yan ng palusot :turncat:
  • AteoAteo PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    He could be feeling "damaged" and insecure. Try to understand him.
  • famarkfamark PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    feeling ko nga din eh.. kung gusto my paraan kung ayaw mdaming dahilan.. sinbhan pa nya ko na pede ako makipagsex *** knino wag ko *** ssbhn s knya.. anu gulo d ko alam ggwin ko.
  • Sero-discordant? Sorry to hear that. But appreciate it, your guy might be just protecting you. Agree din ako sa isang post dito na he might feel damaged. Just try to understand.
  • If ayaw wag ng pilitin, magca-clash lang kayo hanggang magbreak na lang in the end.

    Add more understanding and patience, then try to have sex with others kung init lang ng katawan ang habol mo hehehe
  • Have you had any testing for HIV three months after your last encounter with him?
  • boxerbrief2010boxerbrief2010 PEx Rookie ⭐
    yung pagiging HIV+ nya is mabigat ng dalhin, what more pa kung maiinfect ka ng dahil sa kanya.. hindi na kakayanin ng konsensya nya yun.. Try to understand him.. mahirap yung pinagdadaanan nya...
  • sabi nga nya ^ mahirap yung pinagdadaanan ng partner mo... ako gets ko kung bakit ayaw nya. nakuha nya yung ganyang sakit dhil hindi sya nag ingat, at maaring pinangako nya sa sarili nya na hindi nya hahayaan na ikaw bilang mahal nya ay magkasakit din ng dahil sa kanya. walang safe, mas safe...

    matakot ka kung wala nmn syang sakit tapos ayaw nyang makipag sex sayu...
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