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Is religion an issue?

Hi Pexers! Just wondering kung issue ba talaga ang religion when it comes to relationships? May relationship ba na nagwo-work kahit magkaiba ng religion ang both parties? May alam ba kayong stories re that (stories nyo, o relatives or friends nyo, or kahit kakilala nyo lang)? Share na! :) Eh sa ibang bansa kaya, issue din ang religion? :|:)
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  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Sa akin, importante yun, nagkaroon ako ng ex-manliligaw na gusto ko din naman sana, kaso INC, so hindi ko sinagot dahil lang INC siya.

    So, depende yun, nasa prinsipyo mo, kung okay lang ba sayo na sumunod sa relihiyon ng mapapangasawa mo, o ikaw ang magpapasunod sa kanya.

    For me lang, walang sense of family kung magkaiba ng religion. May ganyan kasi akong friend, catholic siya, tapos mister niya INC, yung mga anak nila, pinaghatian, yung panganay sa catholic bininyagan, yung sumunod, sa INC.

    Tapos kapag nagsisimba sila, hindi sila sama sama.

    So, nasa mag asawa talaga, kung kaya nilang i work out kahit magkaiba sila ng paniniwala.
  • rickymrickym PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    it is also for me. i don't want my kid to be born into a religion when he is not yet competent to decide for himself. like baptism etc.
  • awesomepamawesomepam PEx Rookie ⭐
    jazzmine22, so kahit sa celebrations hati yung family ng friend mo? Kase, Catholics do celebrate Christmas, INC don't. Wala bang nasasabi sa'yo ang friend mo kung hindi sya nahihirapan sa ganung set-up?

    rickym, so what you are saying is, you'll wait for your child to be mature enough so he/she can decide kung saang religion sya magpapa-baptise? Eh paano kung ang pipiliin nyang religion ay hindi yung sa'yo/inyo. Hindi din kayo ma-uunite into one religion? :|
  • vincexvincex PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    The significance of religion being an issue is about as significant as the religion is to the person involved. The less important the religion is to the practitioner, the less it should be an issue to the other partner.
  • rickymrickym PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    awesomepam wrote: »
    rickym, so what you are saying is, you'll wait for your child to be mature enough so he/she can decide kung saang religion sya magpapa-baptise? Eh paano kung ang pipiliin nyang religion ay hindi yung sa'yo/inyo. Hindi din kayo ma-uunite into one religion? :|

    ok lang yun. at least i have a clear conscience that i didn't brainwash him and he decided on his own. that is of course if he even decides that getting a religion is worth his time and effort.

    i have religious friends and i have atheist friends. i don't have any problem with that. for me leaving big decisions like that to people is like treating them with respect. oh, i forgot i even met a satanist. i hope to get to see her in person when she comes back to the philippines.
  • popskypopsky PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Ilang oras lang yang simba, eh ano kung hindi magkasama. Daming oras na magkasama kayo.

    Hindi isyu sa akin yan. Walang drama.
  • awesomepam wrote: »
    Hi Pexers! Just wondering kung issue ba talaga ang religion when it comes to relationships? May relationship ba na nagwo-work kahit magkaiba ng religion ang both parties? May alam ba kayong stories re that (stories nyo, o relatives or friends nyo, or kahit kakilala nyo lang)? Share na! :) Eh sa ibang bansa kaya, issue din ang religion? :|:)

    Personally, hindi naman issue sa'kin 'yan. Kanya-kanyang belief yan eh. Yung ex ko atheist, habang kami pa, active naman ako sa ministry. Pero never naman kami nagka-issue. Respeto lang sa paniniwala ng isa't-isa. Walang pilitan.

    Dahil dito, naalala ko kanta ng the script:

    you won't find faith or hope down the telescope
    you won't find heart and soul in the skies
    you can break everything down to chemicals
    but you can't explain a love like ours


    Wala lang. Hehehe.
  • Di raw issue... pano kung muslim?

    :rotflmao:
  • Muslim ako and my dad won't approve someone outside the religion. He said "Muslim women are not allowed to marry non-muslim men" So yes, it's a big issue for us.

    But for Muslim men, they can marry a non-muslim woman as long as she believes in one God.
  • Di pa ba obvious na pabor ang islam sa lalake? Punta ka youtube at hanapin ang video ng mga muslim... "how to beat your wife"


    mga salot

    :rotflmao:
  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    awesomepam wrote: »
    jazzmine22, so kahit sa celebrations hati yung family ng friend mo? Kase, Catholics do celebrate Christmas, INC don't. Wala bang nasasabi sa'yo ang friend mo kung hindi sya nahihirapan sa ganung set-up?


    Yes, she's a close friend kaya naku kwento niya lahat sa akin. Actually hiwalay na sila ngayon, may asawang iba na yung guy. Hindi naman sila kinasal talaga nagsama lang, since ayaw nga ni friend mag convert sa INC, masalimuot eh, basta nabinyagan na siya sa INC, pero yung para ma kumpleto yung process, hindi na niya ginawa, I don't know what it's called, nakalimutan ko.

    Tapos yung mga biyenan pa niya ayaw sa kanya dahil nga ayaw niya mag convert, eh doon sila nakatira sa bahay nung biyenan, kaya talagang impiyerno :glee: Ilang beses na daw nagpatawag ng mga taga INC yung biyenan niya, para lang "basbasan" siya dahil naliligaw siya ng landas :lol:

    For me lang, mahirap talaga pag magkaiba ng religion ang mag asawa, I mean, kung sa religion nga at paniniwala sa Diyos hindi kayo magkasundo, paano na sa ibang bagay diba?
  • Meanie!!Meanie!! PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Yes issue yan, at hindi basta-basta kayang magcompromise nang mga tao patungkol dyan.

    Sa akin when I was given a choice between converting to INC and thus being able to marry my then long time gf, hindi ko kinaya. Siya din, ayaw niya naman magconvert nun siya naman tinanong ko :lol:

    Pero that said, she is still a good friend. We just agreed na hindi talaga pwede.
  • GASGAS na etong "different religion in relationship" topic na ito. Kulang ang daliri ko sa kamay at paa kung bibilangin lahat ng ganitong thread.... :zzz:

    --sent from my Samsung Galaxy S4
  • rickymrickym PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    popsky wrote: »
    Ilang oras lang yang simba, eh ano kung hindi magkasama. Daming oras na magkasama kayo.

    Hindi isyu sa akin yan. Walang drama.

    And what if she insists that you join her to set a good example for the children.
  • popskypopsky PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    rickym wrote: »
    And what if she insists that you join her to set a good example for the children.

    I can handle that brader. Hindi pa rin ako sasali.

    Kung marunong ka magdala, stalemate lang lagi ang pinaka-talo mo.
  • Parang yun isda umalis sa dagat para makasama yun cat sa land. and vice versa. :)
  • Di raw issue... pano kung muslim?

    :rotflmao:

    kung nanamnamin naman kasi ng muslim ang nakasulat sa kor-an (at di gagawing literal at excuse sa pambababae), di sila mag-aasawa ng marami. kasi ang nakalagay dun pwede kang mag-asawa ng more than one kung kaya mo sila tratuhin/mahalin equally, which, for me, is impossible. syempre may peyborit babe yun! yung mas young, fresh, latest, and so on.... :D

    re pagcoconvert, dun na siguro magkaka-prob. kung gusto magpakasal ng magkaiba religion, nandyan si mayor, handang tumulong. :D
  • Bakit babaeng muslim di pwedeng mag-asawa ng marami? Kupalups talaga yang muhamad na yan, ganid sa pek-pek.

    :lol:
  • rickymrickym PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    what if the person you want to marry is an atheist and doesn't want your kids to be baptized?
  • or pwede rin satanista yung nanliligaw sayo, siyempre issue na yun noh! regarding sa mga muslim, mahirap makipagtalo sa mga muslim, tirahin ka pag nakatalikod ka..
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