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How to tell if a guy really likes you

How do you tell if a guy likes you or dislikes you or you're placed in "pwede na" pile?

I'm still clueless. For example.

1. What does a "no" reply mean?
a. I'm not interested in you. Please F off.
b. Pakipot, nagpapamiss.
c. Torpe, hindi alam sasabihin.

2. If he objects all your opinions, what does that mean?
a. He wants to throw you over a boat.
b. He is trying to get your attention.

I don't know how I will ever get this.
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  • WadoinksWadoinks PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Naging effective ito sa akin before..



    Sabihin mo sa kaniya ng harapan na gusto mo siya. Or kapag sa mga chat sites mo lang kakilala, sabihin mo parin sa kaniya na you like him. Wag ka mag assume na he'll return the favor of saying that he likes you too. No! Sa umpisa, awkward siyempre. Pero kasi kapag nasabi mo na, believe me, kahit ayaw sa iyo ng taong gusto mo, magiging curious sayo ang taong gusto mo. Then dun mo ipakilala ng dahan dahan ang sarili mo kung sino ka talaga. Hindi mo na pala alam, may gusto narin pala siya sa iyo kasi may nakita siyang something sa iyo na di niya alam na ganun ka pala. Yun! Hehehe.



    Sa akin kasi, epektib yan! Nadadaan sa biglaan pero kelangan mo pagtrabahuan. ;)

    Parang nangliligaw ka rin ng babae.


    Kung talagang tingin mo ayaw talaga sayo, malalaman mo agad yan kapag iritado siyang makita't makausap ka. Hehehe.
  • ^pano yung mga hindi nagpapakita. let's say you ask him out pero no reply? (come to think of it, hindi rin naman ako madalas magyaya. magastos din kasi ang dates. hehehe)

    for you, how do you interpret a "no" reply? according to my cousin, dapat i-enjoy ko lang daw yung mga mind games na ganito, yung tipong you don't know what the other person is really thinking. wag masyado seryosohin yung mga love-love na yan kasi nakakatanda. and i guess he has a point.
  • WadoinksWadoinks PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    You asked him out but no reply? Ewan ko, marami kasi ibig sabihin niyan eh. Pwedeng wag muna takot pa. Pwede rin, nahihiya pa. Pero mas posible ang I don't like you. Well, tama rin naman ang pinsan, i-enjoy mo lang kung ano meron kayo. Wag ka mag expect..



    Pero kapag naguguluhan ka na, wala namang mawawala if sabihin mo sa kaniya na you like him. Dapat maging handa ka sa mga consequences. Minsan kasi may mga gay guys na pa-hard to get kahit na kinikilig na ang tinggil.
  • rouellerouelle PEx Rookie ⭐
    Wanna know if the guy really likes you?...

    You just have to go through him.
    Mind games will only kill you, so go directly to the point!
    Easier said than done but it's the best way to do it. ;)
  • arowenarowen PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Pag like ka ng Guy... papansin lagi sayo yan. Biglang magSPLIT yan sa harap mo hehe :lol::bop:
  • dylandarkkdylandarkk PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    pag like ka ng guy.. iiwas sya sayu kahit walang dahilan and lagi nagtatama yung paningin niyo kasi u always catch him staring at you.
  • dylandarkk wrote: »
    pag like ka ng guy.. iiwas sya sayu kahit walang dahilan and lagi nagtatama yung paningin niyo kasi u always catch him staring at you.

    Ganyan na ganyan yung ginawa ng kumpare ko sa akin...pero at war sya with himself kaya in the end it was never meant to be...
  • gens_19gens_19 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    powerbeef wrote: »
    How do you tell if a guy likes you or dislikes you or you're placed in "pwede na" pile?

    I'm still clueless. For example.

    1. What does a "no" reply mean?
    a. I'm not interested in you. Please F off.
    b. Pakipot, nagpapamiss.
    c. Torpe, hindi alam sasabihin.

    2. If he objects all your opinions, what does that mean?
    a. He wants to throw you over a boat.
    b. He is trying to get your attention.

    I don't know how I will ever get this.

    My answer on this will be based from my experience:

    1. the answer is A : if you texted him and no reply that means that he is not interested in you at ALL.

    2. the answer is C and D:
    C for he is trying to show that he is better than you or
    D all of the above.
    Question number 2 depends on the guy's attitude :)
  • I think a guy likes me if he always reply lalo kung agad agad.

    Ako naman, If I like the guy, I don't reply lagi and minsan may delay bago ako magreply.

    I usually reply agad agad sa mga guys na 'puwede na' or sa guys na I consider as 'friends' lang.
  • boxerbrief2010boxerbrief2010 PEx Rookie ⭐
    Put yourself into his shoes... Kunyari ikaw nasa kalagayan nya, ano magiging reaction mo? Then that's your answer...
  • Soulforgex wrote: »
    Ganyan na ganyan yung ginawa ng kumpare ko sa akin...pero at war sya with himself kaya in the end it was never meant to be...

    Could it be we're on the same boat a bit of twist nga lang ? haha
  • dylandarkk wrote: »
    pag like ka ng guy.. iiwas sya sayu kahit walang dahilan and lagi nagtatama yung paningin niyo kasi u always catch him staring at you.

    My could it be this goes as well with my bestfriend ? I caught him staring at me while I am sleeping and then the next day he's giving me cold shoulders . Let 2 days pass . I went to their house . He ignored for almost the entire day then by night time started cracking jokes and when I'm implying I want to sleep over . He walked out . Lol . Masahol pa siya sa babae . Di ko tuloy alam tumatakbo sa utak niya . Di ko din sya ma confront haisst
  • Wadoinks wrote: »
    You asked him out but no reply? Ewan ko, marami kasi ibig sabihin niyan eh. Pwedeng wag muna takot pa. Pwede rin, nahihiya pa. Pero mas posible ang I don't like you. Well, tama rin naman ang pinsan, i-enjoy mo lang kung ano meron kayo. Wag ka mag expect..



    Pero kapag naguguluhan ka na, wala namang mawawala if sabihin mo sa kaniya na you like him. Dapat maging handa ka sa mga consequences. Minsan kasi may mga gay guys na pa-hard to get kahit na kinikilig na ang tinggil.

    :lol: best answer so far. :)

    may gustong gusto akong tao pero i told him i don't like him that much, he's just on the middle. I told him he looks good pero hanggang dun lang yun. Tapos pag naghahang out kami and may katext sya tinatanung nya kung nagseselos ba ko and kung type ko ba sya, i always say no. :lol:

    Ako rin naman kasi una nagpaparamdam sa txt so i think wala namang mutual attraction.
  • Papa_PPapa_P PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Wadoinks wrote: »
    You asked him out but no reply? Ewan ko, marami kasi ibig sabihin niyan eh. Pwedeng wag muna takot pa. Pwede rin, nahihiya pa. Pero mas posible ang I don't like you. Well, tama rin naman ang pinsan, i-enjoy mo lang kung ano meron kayo. Wag ka mag expect..



    Pero kapag naguguluhan ka na, wala namang mawawala if sabihin mo sa kaniya na you like him. Dapat maging handa ka sa mga consequences. Minsan kasi may mga gay guys na pa-hard to get kahit na kinikilig na ang tinggil.

    Ay taray! May tinggil, babae?!
  • Papa_PPapa_P PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    powerbeef wrote: »
    How do you tell if a guy likes you or dislikes you or you're placed in "pwede na" pile?

    I'm still clueless. For example.

    1. What does a "no" reply mean?
    a. I'm not interested in you. Please F off.
    b. Pakipot, nagpapamiss.
    c. Torpe, hindi alam sasabihin.

    2. If he objects all your opinions, what does that mean?
    a. He wants to throw you over a boat.
    b. He is trying to get your attention.

    I don't know how I will ever get this.

    Ay taray! Multiple choice, Board exam?! Char!
  • averiaveri PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    if somebody really, REALLY likes you:

    1. he'll say it
    2. he'll suplements his words with action
    3. he'll be consistent
    4. time will reveal if 'like' turns to 'love'... as liking someone can be temporary, or can transition into liking you as just a friend.

    he won't

    - play mind games

    coz if he does, it means he has low-self esteem and would resort to that just to gain 'leverage'. the question becomes

    'would you like someone who has low-self esteem?'
  • dylandarkkdylandarkk PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    mangekyo26 wrote: »
    My could it be this goes as well with my bestfriend ? I caught him staring at me while I am sleeping and then the next day he's giving me cold shoulders . Let 2 days pass . I went to their house . He ignored for almost the entire day then by night time started cracking jokes and when I'm implying I want to sleep over . He walked out . Lol . Masahol pa siya sa babae . Di ko tuloy alam tumatakbo sa utak niya . Di ko din sya ma confront haisst


    more like 80% chance na your bestfriend likes you, in a romantic way. confront him and let us know ok? :glee:
  • kung may common friend kayo na nakikita kayo together, siya ang tanungin mo. madaling mahalata yung may feelings sa isat-isa mula sa mata ng outsider. pag involved ka, ang hirap mag-analyze.

    minsan pag sinabing NO, NO na talaga wala nang overanalysis na kailangan. pero ang love story kasi sa pinoy movie o teleserye, kahit marami nang "NO" ang totoo YES ang gustong sabihin.

    Yung "like" na nararamdaman ng karamihan sa atin ay may ibat-ibang degree. kung super like ka, di ka na magtatanong ng ganito. pero madalas nasa gitna lang ang level ng maraming likes - mawawala agad kung di kung di mo maalagaan o mapabilis ka ng takbo. kapa-kapain mo lang kung ano ang tamang bilis at timpla. kapag naramdaman mo na ang takbo, dun ka gumawa ng diskarte.
  • nice to hear responses from people.

    but i think im good
    :)
  • dylandarkkdylandarkk PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    mangekyo puno ata inbox mo lol. I can't reply to your message. provide me the link of bestfriends guto ko mabasa ulit yun . Thanks ;)
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