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How not to be boring in dates

Paano para hindi boring in dinner dates. How do you put shock and awe into the evening?

Mga babaeng nakameet or date ng boring na guys. Paano mo masabing boring sya?


Mga babaeng nakameet or date ng hindi boring na guys. Paano mo masabing hindi boring or exciting sya?
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  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier Your Personal Jesus PExer
    Shock and awe? :glee: Start slow homie. Sound like you haven't even taken a girl out to breakfast or lunch yet, now you want to light up her life during dinner. :glee:

    Keep it simple, stupid (KISS).

    Be on time, dress the part (simple but snazzy), be polite, be nice to waiters (waiters who know you specially, and know you tip well and are nice to them, will give you a. all the time in the world to talk eg he'll know when to space appetizers and or sometimes even hook you up with free and special deserts or wine on the house---sometimes he'll even change the lighting to candles :naughty:), compliment must always be short and simple (otherwise you sound fake and elaborating), let her talk 75% of the time, add your bit 25%.

    And always let her have the window view. If you're gonna pay for that patio reservation overlooking sunset and the mountains, let her see it.

    If you're not a good talker, find a place with live music/pianist. Then you can sometimes let the music carry the mood.

    Also research the menu: order something light and see if what is a good wine to compliment your choice. You'd sound like you know what the fvck you're talking about. :glee:

    Smile a lot too and always talk natural,

    Don't Force the Sentence
  • spriteespritee Member PExer
    Shock and awe? :glee: Start slow homie. Sound like you haven't even taken a girl out to breakfast or lunch yet, now you want to light up her life during dinner. :glee:

    bakit dapat mag coffee muna before invite mag dinner? pero friends male and female also have dinner together diba. paano mo ma differentiate if mag dinner siya with you as friendly dinner or date?
  • WAHEEHEEWAHEEHEE www.waheehee.blogspot.com PExer
    Ang pakikipag-date ay parang hosting din. Dapat alam mo ang gusto ng audience.
  • 1delaX1delaX Member ✭✭
    If the date is getting boring it's usually your date is boring as well. Dont look at it as giving a presentation of yourself but rather a voluntary exchange and sharing of anything about you with your date and vice versa.

    If there's spark between 2 people to begin with, dates will never be boring.
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier Your Personal Jesus PExer
    spritee wrote: »
    bakit dapat mag coffee muna before invite mag dinner? pero friends male and female also have dinner together diba. paano mo ma differentiate if mag dinner siya with you as friendly dinner or date?

    When you have an anniversary or it's Valentines...do you have Valentines lunch or dinner? Anniversary lunch or dinner?

    Dinner is kinda like: I'm going home for the night with this guy. Obviously even if you aren't having sex, there's subtle implication in that. That's why highly intimate people usually celebrate their relationship on a date, usually and traditional with dinner.

    Breakfast and lunch, could be friendly.

    Dinner in a fancy restaurant is definitely a statement.

    It's like ligaw. Flirting with her at work could be anything. Eating with her during breaks, could be friendly.

    But when you visit her place with flowers in your hands, no one can say you're just being friendly/playful. You mean business.

    Same thing.

    Also understand that a girl will more likely say yes to your invitation to lunch than she is for dinner (menus are cheaper, you're not out late), unless she likes you outright.

    Also it's better you establish yourself beforehand. Lunch and brunch, coffee could be quick affair, in the back of her mind she'll say "why not, it's just an hour and its fairly safe". But what you did is what salesmen call the 'foot in the door' technique. She's more likely to say yes to future invitations. Because she knows you now better and in her mind she knows you at least didn't rape or kill her yet (:glee:).

    Think like the prey,

    The Beaver Trap
  • spriteespritee Member PExer
    When you have an anniversary or it's Valentines...do you have Valentines lunch or dinner? Anniversary lunch or dinner?

    Dinner is kinda like: I'm going home for the night with this guy. Obviously even if you aren't having sex, there's subtle implication in that. That's why highly intimate people usually celebrate their relationship on a date, usually and traditional with dinner.

    Breakfast and lunch, could be friendly.

    Dinner in a fancy restaurant is definitely a statement.

    It's like ligaw. Flirting with her at work could be anything. Eating with her during breaks, could be friendly.

    But when you visit her place with flowers in your hands, no one can say you're just being friendly/playful. You mean business.

    Same thing.

    Also understand that a girl will more likely say yes to your invitation to lunch than she is for dinner (menus are cheaper, you're not out late), unless she likes you outright.

    Also it's better you establish yourself beforehand. Lunch and brunch, coffee could be quick affair, in the back of her mind she'll say "why not, it's just an hour and its fairly safe". But what you did is what salesmen call the 'foot in the door' technique. She's more likely to say yes to future invitations. Because she knows you now better and in her mind she knows you at least didn't rape or kill her yet (:glee:).

    Think like the prey,

    The Beaver Trap

    but if you have a not so close female friend na hindi niya alam gusto mo siya and you invite her for dinner, would she suspect gusto mo siya. or friendly dinner lang? Let's say that Teriyaki Boy kayo or Italiano mag dinner kayo lang dalawa?
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier Your Personal Jesus PExer
    I think she'll suspect anyway, lunch or dinner. :glee: I mean come on, just the two of you, and you're aren't close all of a sudden you're asking her to go out?

    Unless she's stupid/really innocent.

    Girls, as far as they are stupid when they become emotional and that happens A LOT, they're very keen and very smart when they are thinking straight. They're have sharp instincts. And they usually think three steps ahead of you. :glee:

    God gave them brains,

    Pallas Athena
  • spriteespritee Member PExer
    I think she'll suspect anyway, lunch or dinner. :glee: I mean come on, just the two of you, and you're aren't close all of a sudden you're asking her to go out?

    Unless she's stupid/really innocent.

    Girls, as far as they are stupid when they become emotional and that happens A LOT, they're very keen and very smart when they are thinking straight. They're have sharp instincts. And they usually think three steps ahead of you. :glee:

    God gave them brains,

    Pallas Athena

    what if you told her to go dinner with you (two of you lang) so you can talk about another girl you wanna court, then hindi siya suspect 'no... sasama yun
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier Your Personal Jesus PExer
    Why the ruse anyway? If you want to ask her out, ask her out. You'd look like a b!tch who can't be truthful because you're too afraid to be straightforward.

    Plus if she doesn't like you you don't have to waste your money on chow, because she'll tell you no right away.

    You think surprises are cute? :glee:

    So childish,

    Coyness
  • -gelay--gelay- simple kinda life ✭✭✭
    1delaX wrote: »
    If the date is getting boring it's usually your date is boring as well. Dont look at it as giving a presentation of yourself but rather a voluntary exchange and sharing of anything about you with your date and vice versa.

    If there's spark between 2 people to begin with, dates will never be boring.

    this.

    you don't have to carry the load (alone). :lol:
  • You know, if it ends up being boring it simply means that you guys don't have chemistry.

    Just act normal and chill. Just be yourself. Kahit na wala kang sense of humor, if you have chemistry it will work out.
  • WAHEEHEE wrote: »
    Ang pakikipag-date ay parang hosting din. Dapat alam mo ang gusto ng audience.

    korekek!!!!!!
    :p:p:rotflmao:lol::rotflmao::lol::rotflmao:
  • tha_laurdtha_laurd i'm a virgin PExer
    spritee wrote: »
    Paano para hindi boring in dinner dates. How do you put shock and awe into the evening?

    kainin mo ang pinggan para mashock..
    magvolunteer ka na rin na maghugas ng pinggan.. :glee:
  • JameauxJameaux Half-man half-magician ✭✭✭
    Namalikmata ako akala ko how to be boring in dates. Dami ko sanang ishi-share na secrets ko. :lol:
  • Rally29Rally29 Member PExer
    let her talk 75% of the time, add your bit 25%.

    heard this advice before. When i applied it, i sounded like i was giving her a job interview lol
  • balbolskibalbolski Count D ✭✭✭
    nood ka ng porn bago makipagdate :lol:
  • rockista16rockista16 Member PExer
    Magpa lobo ka ng condom pag wala ka nang masabi!
  • gotta lick itgotta lick it Member ✭✭✭
    start the date with an activity before dining.






    you will have something to talk about.
  • bugzillabugzilla Member PExer
    Kung gwaping ka at type na type ka ng babeng ka date mo...walang boring boring para sa babae, sure ball na yun! Tapos may magara ka pang oto, laglag na panty nun! Tapos matangkad at kalbo at maangas pa ang dating mo,,,, tutuwad na sa harap mo yun! :lol:
  • WAHEEHEEWAHEEHEE www.waheehee.blogspot.com PExer
    Jameaux wrote: »
    Namalikmata ako akala ko how to be boring in dates. Dami ko sanang ishi-share na secrets ko. :lol:

    Kakaiba ka talaga, waheehee.
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