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should i confront my boyfriend about his lying

ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years..a year ago i found out that hes been having nights out behind my back we have since move on from that episode because he said he will be honest from then on and i could tell he was trying to make up for it ...recently though i found out that he's been meeting up with his coworkers after dropping me off from out night out..while snooping on facebook, i saw 2 different pictures of their gimik..the pictures happened more than a year ago..should i confront him about what i saw, how do i ask him without making it appear that i was looking at his friends' photos?
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  • larkryan wrote: »
    ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years..a year ago i found out that hes been having nights out behind my back we have since move on from that episode because he said he will be honest from then on and i could tell he was trying to make up for it ...recently though i found out that he's been meeting up with his coworkers after dropping me off from out night out..while snooping on facebook, i saw 2 different pictures of their gimik..the pictures happened more than a year ago..should i confront him about what i saw, how do i ask him without making it appear that i was looking at his friends' photos?

    since hindi lang ito ang unang beses, so No, wait for some evidence, a solid evidence, kapag confirm mo na, break up.
  • why can't your bf have night outs?
  • he can very well go out i dont have any problem with that..that's why i felt bad that he didnt tell me about it
  • NilsNils PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    bakit kailangang magsabi ang bf kung may night out sila sa office?
  • lying is the issue here not the nights out..as ive said i have no problem with that, i dont forbid him to go anywhere he wants to go ..the problem is those on occassions, im positive that he tlod me he was heading home he actually informed me that he was already at home..so why does he heave to lie about it when its perfectly fine with me naman if he goes out?
  • kleenexlambotkleenexlambot PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    TS, kung hindi ka matatahimik na hindi mo i di discuss sa kanya, eh go and raise the matter in a nice way. mabuti na yung magkaliwanagan kaysa naman lagi kang magdududa.
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    larkryan wrote: »
    im positive that he tlod me he was heading home he actually informed me that he was already at home..so why does he heave to lie about it when its perfectly fine with me naman if he goes out?

    eh baka kasi sumunod ka sa gimik.. eh andun yung kalandian niya na mas hot sa 'yo.. :D
  • larkryan wrote: »
    he can very well go out i dont have any problem with that..that's why i felt bad that he didnt tell me about it

    well maybe that's the problem. probably your bf is one of those guys who doesn't want to report every little thing he does to the gf. just a guess. it's over a year ago. what do you expect if you bring it up? if it's a harmless night out, there's no point bringing it up. if you're concerned with his lying, then tell him you saw this picture on his friends' photos and you are wondering why he lied to you. if you expect him to tell the truth, then admit that you saw the pictures from his friend.
  • JobyBryant24JobyBryant24 PEx Rookie ⭐
    Bawal na pala gumimik ng patakas. Gimik Bastos or GB siguro bawal. Pero mga casual na lakad na ganiti tapos pag-awayan pa eh magiging ugat to. Who knows baka next month hiwalay na kayo dahil sa ka-OA-han mo.
  • revhardrevhard PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    E baket hindi na lang sha magpaalam?

    Pero sige, anjan na yan e. If you feel bad about it, then tell him in a very calm manner. Tell him you don't wanna fight about it, but it just makes you feel bad. That he can go out and have fun, but a simple text to let you know won't hurt anyone. You are his gf after all.

    Now, pag nagtext sha at nagalit ka, ibang usapan na yan.
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    bring up mo na lang sa kanya.. baka naman may explanation siya tungkol diyan.
  • larkryan wrote: »
    ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years..a year ago i found out that hes been having nights out behind my back we have since move on from that episode because he said he will be honest from then on and i could tell he was trying to make up for it ...recently though i found out that he's been meeting up with his coworkers after dropping me off from out night out..while snooping on facebook, i saw 2 different pictures of their gimik..the pictures happened more than a year ago..should i confront him about what i saw, how do i ask him without making it appear that i was looking at his friends' photos?

    Kausapin mo agad, tanong mo kung bakit ayaw niya magpa alam ng ma ayos? kung hindi mo naman pala siya pinipigilan. unless may ibang reason. tanong mo na agad. Good Luck! :)
  • inviinvi PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^ Oo nga naman. Kasama din naman sa relationship yung sasabihin mo sa bf/gf mo kung nasaan ka. Pwedeng out of concern lang sa whereabouts mo. Hindi naman sa magbabawalan kayo, just, 'Fyi. Went out with my friends.'

    Siyempre nagaalala din si gf. Baka ma-kidnap si bf eh, ang cute kasi. :bashful::glee:
  • revhard wrote: »
    E baket hindi na lang sha magpaalam?

    Pero sige, anjan na yan e. If you feel bad about it, then tell him in a very calm manner. Tell him you don't wanna fight about it, but it just makes you feel bad. That he can go out and have fun, but a simple text to let you know won't hurt anyone. You are his gf after all.

    Now, pag nagtext sha at nagalit ka, ibang usapan na yan.


    *okay* tama!
  • gumimik ka rin ng di nya alam para patas! :D

    kausapin mo, "babe, okay lang sakin gumimik ka, paalam ka lang ha"
    pag ayaw eh di wag, do the same.

    kung di mo kaya sikmurain, edi hiwalayan.
  • If may usapan kayo na dapat mag FYI pag gigimik tapos hindi niya ginagawa, may tinatago BF mo or sadyang hindi lang siya marunong sumunod sa agreement ninyo.

    ... pero kung wala naman kayong usapan, huwag ka mag inarte....

    ...kung wala kayong usapan at gusto mo ng na FYI ka pag gimik, kausapin ang BF at i demand ito.
  • pwede ring sumama na lang si TS sa Inp EB. :lol:
  • djaynitordjaynitor PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    I-confront mo sa pagsisinungaling ... anong isasagot ... magsisinungaling lang muli.

    Bottomline: ang mga taong DISHONEST, LIAR, CHEAT dapat TSINUTSUGI na agad! Lalasunin lang nila ang buhay mo.

    --sent from my HTC Cha Cha
  • djaynitor wrote: »
    I-confront mo sa pagsisinungaling ... anong isasagot ... magsisinungaling lang muli.

    Bottomline: ang mga taong DISHONEST, LIAR, CHEAT dapat TSINUTSUGI na agad! Lalasunin lang nila ang buhay mo.

    --sent from my HTC Cha Cha

    Agree! :bop:
  • adiposethoughtsadiposethoughts PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    larkryan wrote: »
    lying is the issue here not the nights out..as ive said i have no problem with that, i dont forbid him to go anywhere he wants to go ..the problem is those on occassions, im positive that he tlod me he was heading home he actually informed me that he was already at home..so why does he heave to lie about it when its perfectly fine with me naman if he goes out?

    Wehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... Hinde nga???


    YOU don't forbid him? Wehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    Hindi mo nga siguro finoforbid, ang kaso maya't maya mo naman i-check kala mo pre-school.

    Ganun din yon.

    In short, you're not a cool girl for him to make paalam to cos you're a night out pooper.
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