ZHAZHA-DOLPHY From the ladies' point of view paano nag work ito for so long ??

1delaX

Not to disrespect the couple..we just want the ladies to shed some light on the how and why their union lasted that long.. This question is directed to those who think age does not matter in a relationship. Bear in mind the age difference between zhazha and pidol is 35 years ?????

vincex

On the age issue,
when a girl is 13, 15 is very old.
when a girl is 20, 28 is somewhat old.
when a girl is 25, 35 is ok lang.

The more important parts of the relation is their synergy and the other prevailing circumstance. The party's ability to live with those circumstances. etc..

bluenica

respect
trust
love

they all have those for each other.

very simple.

kimrod16

vincex wrote: »

On the age issue,
when a girl is 13, 15 is very old.
when a girl is 20, 28 is somewhat old.
when a girl is 25, 35 is ok lang.

wow this is very true. when i was in college i didnt seem to be appealing to girls my age but now that im 23 and have a lil bit of disposable cash, i seem to prey easier on kolehiyalas in bars, or whenever id go back to my school etc..

im really happy im a guy and i look forward to the older years ahead.

blue_tracer

i think their rel. survived that long because their love was genuine.

if you love someone.. and if you want to keep that someone.. magbabayad ka ng 'presyo' diyan. hindi naman 'yan libre.

price: puwedeng sacrifice, time, effort, dedication, patience, understanding, faithfulness, consistency.. sometimes money and pain.

sa part ni zsa-zsa sobrang risky ang ginawa niya: abah eh playboy si dolphy may history ng pag papalit ng mga magagandang babae. plus, their age gap.

pero mukhang tinodo na ni zsa-zsa ang lahat na kaya niyang ibayad sa 'price' na 'yan.

baka sa laki ng investment nilang dalawa sa 'love bank' nila.. nag adapt lang ito sa changes ng panahon, lumutang-lutang lang sa iba't-ibang klase ng challenges + stress.. at siguro sa mga panahon na hinang-hina na sila ('di ba maraming beses na nagkasakit si dolphy?) nag survived love nila kahit pa naka 'auto-pilot' mode ito. 'laki yata ng puhunan nila sa love.

ang kapalit naman.. abah pagmamahal mula sa isang comedy king.

miss, isang banayad whiskey nga diyan oh

freshbabe

First - DOLPHY'S CHARM(humor) & Kind Demeanor works + "GALANTE eh". Humble, thoughtful, simple lang, kaya di nababastusan yung girl na parang binibili na siya kapag niligawan niya. Malakas radar niya sa kung ano yung wants/likes ng babaeng type niya eh. Huli niya rin kiliti.

-Nakumpara ko nga siya kay Papa Piolo. Perfect na katawan ni Papa P, Talentado, Rich... Pinagbibintangan na Gay PERO never nag GAY ROLE.

-Compared kay Dolphy na sumikat sa GAY Role pero matinik sa CHICKS.

-Milya milya ang scoreboard ni DOLPHY sa Chicks kaisa kay Piolo.
At tinalo rin siya ng bansot na si John Pratts. haha!

Dati medyo may illusion pa akong "straight" si Piolo-crush ko siya nung DREAMBOY Movie pa nila ni BEA. Pero ramdam ko na parang "paminta". Saka nung "The Hunks nila"- parang touchy feely siya sa kapwa niya hunks eh. Turn Off na.

Mabuhey

Sobra kase mabait, ma-alaga, thoughtful , mapagmahal , tsaka sobrang tamis ng dila (bolero) at sobrang gentleman pa. Sino naman ang hindi ma iinlove sa ganyang lalake
Tsaka yung age gap nila nakatulong din siguro baby nya si Zsa Zsa, tapos , si Sa Sa err si Zsa Zsa ay naghahanap ng father figure , since maalaga at mapagmahal si Dolphy, kaya yun na inlove sila ng sobra. Sa tingin ko naman , simple lang naman ang gusto ni Dolphy sa babae, yung aalagaan at mamahalin din sha katulad l na binibigay nya .

Kaya dapat , kung magmamahal , be consistent , give your best shot saka dapat don't badmouth your exes ... ( A reading from the book of ..basta nabasa ko lang din

kiningining

just shows that you do not need a piece of paper (marriage contract) to have a good and lasting relationship.

F-A Soldier

LOL The reason why they lasted is Dolphy was pretty old and probably didn't want to play around. He had a younger (not young, I think she was in her mid-late twenties when they go together). She was a single mom who was separated.

On top of what you all said: love etc. I'm pretty sure these are true as well.

invi

Dolphy changed his womanizing ways for Zsa Zsa. It would never have worked any other way.

TTJ

binantaan ata ni Carlos Padilla.

vincex

kimrod16 wrote: »

wow this is very true. when i was in college i didnt seem to be appealing to girls my age but now that im 23 and have a lil bit of disposable cash, i seem to prey easier on kolehiyalas in bars, or whenever id go back to my school etc..

im really happy im a guy and i look forward to the older years ahead.

Yup. The next question is how to work around those dynamics. Unfortunately, such perception makes them make crucial life errors. They should be evaluating more on more intrinsic things.

adiposethoughts

vincex wrote: »

Yup. The next question is how to work around those dynamics. Unfortunately, such perception makes them make crucial life errors. They should be evaluating more on more intrinsic things.

Are we talking about the girls here?

Too bad. Parents nowadays don't even teach their female children to value intrinsic qualities.

Or even the male ones.

vincex

^ very true. Yes i was referring to girls.

guys are more practical, but fail in other evaluation aspects as well.