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*** friend ko ngkabf siya na tga BPO na si tiger woods dati ang model... Grabe I met the guy Medyo bulky ang body may dating, knowing my friend un siguro ang naka stay sa kanya. Pumunta kami ng festival mall and didn't know na may mossimo kids fashion show.. To her dismay nakita niya na si bf kasama *** model nilang anak kasama si misis niya.. Sabi kasi daw ni bf niya Hindi na sila ni wifey niya.. And everyday pag tine text ko si friend ko magkasama sila. Bigla ko n *** nakita lumuha *** friend ko.. Syempre masakit un.. Pero Hindi ko alam kilala niya *** girl tga ateneo din pala... minsan dapat dinodouble check natin ang mga sinasabi satin wag *** tiwala ng tiwala... Bilang kaibigan wala akong ginawa Kundi maging driver niya at pqkinggan ang mga pag iyak niya. Medyo chubby na si misis physically lamang si friend ko.. Naisip ko kung un ang nagging dahilan. Pero napakawalang kwenta ng lalaki na un ang bait pa nmn.. Di siya pinoy pero mukhang pinoy. Hay Kung gawin sakin ni hubby un.. Sabin ko sa friend ko.. Hindi ko kakayanin... Kaya Sabi ko sa kana isipin mo mommy mo para mas madali ka makamove on... Single at maganda siya dadating din para sa kanya.
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  • darmonxdarmonx PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ... minsan dapat dinodouble check natin ang mga sinasabi satin wag *** tiwala ng tiwala... ...

    pag may sumira ng tiwala mo... kailangang gumanti.

    sabihin mo sa kaibigan mo na huwag umarteng parang pinay na inaapi at tinatapakan lang na parang basahan ng isang dayuhan. tablahin niya!
  • mother&wifeymother&wifey PEx Rookie ⭐
    kapag alam mong may asawa or claimed na hiwalay na,expect always na may chances yan bumalik sa misis or they atleast stay or see each other for the sake of the kids.plus kapag ganyan double double check,kasi pwedeng nalulungkot lang un guy..
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    nakaapak ng landmine itong friend mo. ganun lang ang buhay.

    move on lang siya.
  • Today I asked her kung kamusta na siya.... She is still hurting.. Pero guano man kasakit ang biro NATO sa kanya dapat bumangon kahit mahirap. Move on... Un *** ang option n meron siya... Thank you guys.
  • move on na lang...
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Dale naman kaseng bolahen ng pinay eh. Even my one of my aunties ganyan, sweet words lang papungay ng mata, dala na si Paraluman in love na daw. :glee: Watched too many dramas.
  • Kung natalisod, bumangon at lumakad muli.

    The good thing maaga pa lang nalaman na niya ang pagkatao ni BF. Sabi mo nga Single at maganda ang friend mo. Darating din ang Mr. right sa tamang panahon.

    Kailangan nga lang parating mag double check... :)
  • kleenexlambotkleenexlambot PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    *** ** ***** !
  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Hindi naman kasi komot sinabi ng lalaki na "single ako" eh maniwala agad, lalo na yung hindi ka pinapakilala sa pamilya niya, red sign yan, dapat naisip niya yun.

    Ayan, may misis pala kasi.


    Eh ano pa nga ba, move on na lang, alangan naman agawin niya sa asawa?
  • darmonxdarmonx PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Today I asked her kung kamusta na siya.... She is still hurting.. Pero guano man kasakit ang biro NATO sa kanya dapat bumangon kahit mahirap. Move on... Un *** ang option n meron siya... Thank you guys.

    telling her to move on is like telling her to accecpt that she is stupid. hindi siya naloko dahil nagtiwala siya... naloko siya dahil may nanloko sa kanya. the pain needs to be shared back. ano... puro sarap lang yung kabila tapos lahat ng sakit sa kanya?

    maraming manloloko sa mundo at hindi pwedeng mabuhay ka na dudadera at ibackground check lahat ng magustuhan mo. lagyan mo ng halaga ang tiwala mo at ihambalos ang bigat mo pag sinira ito. this approach in life will not make you alot of friends but no one will want to make you an enemy.
  • Baka naman hiwalay na talaga sila. Nakita ninyo na magkasama sa fashion show ng anak, malay mo ininvite lang ng wife yung asawa para supportahan yung anak nila. Nag-uusap naman siguro ang mga dating mag-asawa kapag may anak sila.

    Yung pinsan ko, iniinvite yung dating asawa sa mga events ng mga anak nila. Pumupunta naman yung ama ng mga bata. Kahit hiwalay na sila, andun sila for their kids.

    Ba't di ninyo nilapitan? Siguro kung nilapitan ninyo malalaman ninyo kung manloloko or nagsasabi ng totoo yung lalaki. Baka pa pinakilala yung friend mo sa dating asawa. Kawawa naman yung friend mo kung all this time masakit yung kalooban porke nakita lang niyang magkasama sa fashion show ng bata yung guy at nag-assume na.
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    darmonx wrote: »
    telling her to move on is like telling her to accecpt that she is stupid. hindi siya naloko dahil nagtiwala siya... naloko siya dahil may nanloko sa kanya. the pain needs to be shared back. ano... puro sarap lang yung kabila tapos lahat ng sakit sa kanya?

    maraming manloloko sa mundo at hindi pwedeng mabuhay ka na dudadera at ibackground check lahat ng magustuhan mo. lagyan mo ng halaga ang tiwala mo at ihambalos ang bigat mo pag sinira ito. this approach in life will not make you alot of friends but no one will want to make you an enemy.

    So what is she suppose to do dwell on him? :glee: What is she to do, ruin his life? She go to jail and he goes to hell? :glee: No she should not move on because it was her fault nor her 'stupidity', she should move on because it's the right thing to do.

    Look, it's true we should have value in our trust. And the value of it comes from giving it rarely. Anything that is common has little/smaller value. Like in any investment it's ought to researched, because if you decide to invest say on a soup vs. ice cream shop in the middle of a desert, it has to have decent research study that shows, people in the desert in very hot dry weather would, despite popular/common belief, would pay for a bowl of hot soup. If there's no research to back it up, you ought to go with what your common sense dictates.

    No there's no need to hire Sherlock Holmes. Because even a thorough background check isn't gonna deter a cheater or a liar. However there are far less chance of people duping you if you know what you are getting into.

    If your trust is precious, you don't give it just right away and to anyone. Otherwise every stranger would have your social security number.

    As for TS's friend, move on it's over. We all get tricked once or twice in our lives. Take it as a learning experience.
  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    darmonx wrote: »
    telling her to move on is like telling her to accecpt that she is stupid. hindi siya naloko dahil nagtiwala siya... naloko siya dahil may nanloko sa kanya. the pain needs to be shared back. ano... puro sarap lang yung kabila tapos lahat ng sakit sa kanya?

    maraming manloloko sa mundo at hindi pwedeng mabuhay ka na dudadera at ibackground check lahat ng magustuhan mo. lagyan mo ng halaga ang tiwala mo at ihambalos ang bigat mo pag sinira ito. this approach in life will not make you alot of friends but no one will want to make you an enemy.

    Napaka dali naman mag check ng marital status ng isang tao, isang tawag lang sa NSO, kuha ka ng Cenomar, idedeliver pa sa bahay mo.

    So sinira siya, so sisirain din dapat niya pabalik?

    Anong kabutihan naman madudulot niyan sa tao? Kahit makapag higanti ka, wala ka pa ring peace of mind, nawala pa ang dignidad mo bilang tao.

    kaya siguro may mga nakakapatay out of passion, kasi may ganyan mag isip.
  • darmonxdarmonx PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    jazz and fa.. if this was your daughter who got played by a married man. down and depressed and you raised her not to fall for that crap but some guy still managed to pull it off.. yall cool with that? tell your little baby girl to just move on.. if taht is you then thats you.

    not cool with me so please dont correct me.
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    First of all if that was my daughter she'd never in that position.

    Secondly, I'm not correcting you. You could do whatever you want with your life, I'm merely discussing my opinion of your opinion.

    Thirdly, yes. If you want your daughter to spend more time on someone NOT worth her time, then go. If that means you and her going to jail, just so you can put "value in her trust" then so be it. :glee: My daughter would be ten times smarter than that. You don't waste more time on a person you find out isn't worth your time.

    Keepin in real? That's your call. :glee:

    http://www.comedycentral.com/video-clips/67hgjb/chappelle-s-show-when-keeping-it-real-goes-wrong---brenda-johnson
  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    darmonx wrote: »
    jazz and fa.. if this was your daughter who got played by a married man. down and depressed and you raised her not to fall for that crap but some guy still managed to pull it off.. yall cool with that? tell your little baby girl to just move on.. if taht is you then thats you.

    not cool with me so please dont correct me.


    Darmonx, nagpapalitan lang tayo ng opinion dito, kapag pareho naman tayo ng opinion, I agree with you, lots of times already, kung hindi mo napapansin yun.

    But there are times na kasalungat kita, hindi kita itinatama, malinaw ba?


    To answer your question, lahat ng namumublema dito, nilalagay ko ang sarili ko sa kanila sa pagpapayo, and yes, kung mangyari man sa daughter ko yan, na malabo since kikilatisin ko talaga mga manliligaw niya, pero kung mangyari pa din, yun pa din sasabihin ko, move on with your life, hindi kasi ako naniniwala sa paghihiganti, at hindi ko nakikita ang kagandahan na magiging dulot nito sa anak ko.

    I don't want her to feel bitter for the rest of her life just because someone is an asshole. I don't want her to suffer and be miserable just because of that stupid mistake of falling in love with an asshole, I want her to retain her dignity, and find happiness she truly deserves, life is short you know.
  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    "People think that hating is a weapon that attacks the person who harmed them, but hatred is curved blade, the harm you do, you do to yourself".
  • TS, tell your friend revenge is not the answer. The only product of taking revenge would be lots and lots of hatred, a presumably good-looking child growing up with a broken family, probably an aching scalp pagkatapos syang sugurin ni misis (kadalasan si mistress ang sinisisi ni misis at hindi si mister), and dagdag na bad memories.

    Tell your friend to just talk with the guy and ask him never to do it again for his child's sake. This might end up being a useless move but in the end, this might help support your friend's decision for ending it. It's for the kid... the presumably good-looking kid. :D
  • You cannot correct a mistake by doing another one.. Move on, just stick to guys na walang sabit. Girls today should be wiser, kasi nagkalat ang mga mangloloko at dumadami ang mga tangang nagpapaloko. Mabuti na nga nakita mo yung dapat mong makita, iniiwas ka na sa lalong mas malaking kasalanan na to have a serious affair to a married guy. Kahit pa nga sabihin natin na hiwalay na sila, panget pa rin yun, dahil bakit kamo, niloko ka pa rin by not being frank with you na he is married. Humanap ka na lang ng single, wala ka pang masisirang family.
    Teka,ilang taon ba silang mag bf TS??
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kahit mag lupasay pa itong friend mo dala ng shock + disbelief + pain sa nangyari.. wala na siyang magagawa pa. charge it to experience.

    sa early stage + dating period nila, natural na-detect nitong guy sa klase + kara ng friend mo, na hindi na uusad ang relasyon nila kung sasabihin niya antimano na active pa pala silang dalawa ng wifey niya..

    so it would take some time.. until malaman na ang truth via buking/buko/disgrasya.. the longer it takes, eh 'di tuloy lang muna ang relasyon, tuloy din ang kabayohan.

    a typical male/female player would just do the same (lie) for free sex. classic na 'to.

    mag move on si friend mo.. mahaba-habang process. hihilahin pa niya pagkabigat-bigat na anchor bago finally makaalis. simulan na niya.
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