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What to do? :((

there is someone who is trying to court me..
I don't have any problem about him but what I'm thinking is that he hasn't moved on yet with his past love one..
It's just been 2weeks after that girl refused him. I know he is still in hurt. Is it ironic if I will allow him to court me? I actually like him. But I don't want to expect that he would be the same..
I have thoughts here in my mind that maybe he is just playing around me. Any advise please :(

Comments

  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    take your time.

    huwag ka papadala sa pagmamadali niya. baka maging rebound ka lang.

    ikaw ang mag dictate ng time. huwag siya. siya ang tensionado hindi ikaw, dahil sa bad experience niya recently, pero huwag ka magpapahatak.

    in case, he loses his patience and courts another girl instead.. so what? :rotfl:
  • jtansancojtansanco PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Just see how far he's willing to chase you.
  • now now dear, observe him first, his real motives, etc...

    don't be a shock absorber of his past courting failure.
  • Pakipot ka muna ineng. Kahit ilang buwan na. At siguraduhin mo na ikaw lang ang nililigawan nya.
  • Simple Logic.

    Pag naging kayo, una masaya, pag tapos ng date, masaya, pagtapos ng kiss, masarap, masaya, pagtapos ng foreplay, masarap masaya, nakakaexcite, pagtapos ng sex.... Sino ka? Mahal ko pa Ex ko.

    I'm just assuming na magiging kayo afyer nya manligaw, kasi you said you like him.

    Ang payo ko: Maghintay.
  • jazzmine22jazzmine22 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Ikaw lang ang tanging makakaramdam kung nasa sayo na ba talaga ang mata, o ginagamit ka lang.

    Madaling magpanggap, yes, but in the long run, mahirap na, kaya malalaman at malalaman mo yan, at sana nga TS, hindi ka lang ginagawang panakip butas.

    Goodluck!
  • Bigot3AtBalbasBigot3AtBalbas PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Go lang ng go, tumatakbo ang metro hehe
  • i mean not now.
  • darmonxdarmonx PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kieelapot wrote: »
    there is someone who is trying to court me..
    I don't have any problem about him but what I'm thinking is that he hasn't moved on yet with his past love one..
    It's just been 2weeks after that girl refused him. ...

    refused him meaning basted lang? wala namang problema diyan.

    what do you mean by "if you allow him to court you???" You actually like him eh bakit ka pa magpapaligaw? hayzzz...

    o sige... magpaligaw ka lang. Bigyan mo siya ng pagkakataong sirain sarili niya sa paningin mo.

    just remember... pag nanliligaw... wala kang obligasyon. baka makita mo na rin siguro yung dahilan kung baket siya binasted nung inuna niyang niligawan bago ka. tandaan lang na hindi katapusan ng mundo kung masaktan ka.
  • uzumaki_narutouzumaki_naruto PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kieelapot wrote: »
    I don't have any problem about him but what I'm thinking is that he hasn't moved on yet with his past love one..

    hell no!
    you deserve the entire 100%..
    he should start courting you only when he's ready and has moved on..
    not when he's still broken..
    kieelapot wrote: »
    I know he is still in hurt.

    if he really likes/loves you, he shouldn't feel the pain anymore..
    everyday should be like a celebration of whatever he feels for you..
    and your mere existence should have brought heaven on earth..
    anything less than that is a waste of time..
    and emotion..
  • chizmojochizmojo PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Ilang taon kana?

    Gusto ka nya, gusto mo sya.
    Pag sinagot mo sya, either magbi-break kayo or magla-last ang relationship nyo.
    If nag-break kayo, you may have lost time but gained happiness, all kinds of emotions whether good or bad and ultimately experience.
    If nag-last ang relationship nyo, masaya kayo pareho.

    Life is short and simple. You either spend your precious time on things that will make you happy and stronger if you get hurt or just don't do anything.

    What is there to lose? Your virginity? :rotfl:
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kung sex lang ang gusto mo, enjoy it whilst it lasts.

    pero pag puntirya mo relationship or maging kayo.. maghintay ka at huwag masyado magmadali sa pag accomodate sa kanya.

    relaks lang. kasi siya naman ang dapat magpatunay na nalampasan na niya yung pinagdadaanan niya. hindi ikaw. relaks 'teh. :rotfl:
  • Thanks guys for your concerns. :)
    You're all right. He used to demand things which is perfectly wrong. He is trying if he can capably under my rights! Bull ****! :grrr: Porket mayaman sya feeling nya maususnod sya!
    I deserve a better man not a dumb! Immature pa! Sarap murahin!

    But I'm alright now, Medyo nalungkot ako ako kase it seems like nabastos ako. This is the first time na may nag try i under ako. Di siya uubra! Hahaha.. I just put myself in excitement towards my incoming college life. There's a lot of things that will surely make me happy..
    pagtapos ng sex.... Sino ka? Mahal ko pa Ex ko.
    kung sex lang ang gusto mo, enjoy it whilst it lasts.

    -Grabe naman po kayo Hahaha.. 16 palang po ako. Im just enjoying the company of people around me same or opposite.
  • Anyway, I also refused him already. now I know why Hihi. :D
  • Just enjoy the sex but don't commit to anything yet ... eto'y COMMON SENSE ADVICE lang.... :glee:

    --
    my_2_cents
  • lemme court you instead! ahahaha

  • lemme court you instead! ahahaha

    yan ang gusto ko nag banat .da moobs.

    topic: suggestion ko lang kuning mo lahat ng ideas ng sumagot sa topic nato tska ka magdecide 'te . mahirap yan e. hndi mo alam kung nag balak ng lalake samantalahin lang kahinaan mo. sa huli ikaw din talo. take it slow lang muna.
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