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The Art Of Waiting; Believe It Or Not

THE ART OF WAITING

WHY WAIT?
THE ART OF WAITING
>>>
>>> Why Wait?
>>>
>>> Because although we want to be decisive, we do not want to be
>>> impulsive.
>>>
>>> Although we want to be swift, we do not want to be hasty.
>>> Although we want to hold on to the one we love,
>>> we do not want to lose ourselves in the process.
>>> If we want to run, we must first learn to walk.
>>> If we want to swim, we must first learn to float.
>>> If we want to make love, we must first learn to love.
>>>
>>> In the end, it is still best to wait for the one we want
>>> rather than settle for the one that is available.
>>> It is still best to wait for the one you love
>>> rather than settle for the one who is around.
>>> It is still best to wait for the right person.
>>> Because life is too short to waste on the wrong one.
>>>
>>> Because waiting serves a purpose. Noble and mysterious,
>>> you have to know that flowers do not bloom overnight.
>>> Rome was not built in a day. A life grows in the womb for nine months.
>>> Great love grows steadily over a lifetime.
>>> Most good things in life take a long time. And they are all worth
>>> waiting for.
>>> These, despite the fact, that although waiting requires a lot of
>>> things...
>>>
>>> faith, courage, and hope...
>>> Waiting guarantees nothing. One cannot imagine,
>>> after all, that God in all His wisdom, asks us to wait,
>>> for no essential reason.
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  • :heartpump::heartpump::heartpump:

    >>> If we want to make love, we must first learn to love.


    .....i agree to this...



    :heartful:
  • Originally posted by SHINJIN
    THE ART OF WAITING

    WHY WAIT?
    THE ART OF WAITING
    >>>
    >>> Why Wait?
    >>>
    >>> Because although we want to be decisive, we do not want to be
    >>> impulsive.
    >>>
    >>> Although we want to be swift, we do not want to be hasty.
    >>> Although we want to hold on to the one we love,
    >>> we do not want to lose ourselves in the process.
    >>> If we want to run, we must first learn to walk.
    >>> If we want to swim, we must first learn to float.
    >>> If we want to make love, we must first learn to love.
    >>>
    >>> In the end, it is still best to wait for the one we want
    >>> rather than settle for the one that is available.
    >>> It is still best to wait for the one you love
    >>> rather than settle for the one who is around.
    >>> It is still best to wait for the right person.
    >>> Because life is too short to waste on the wrong one.
    >>>
    >>> Because waiting serves a purpose. Noble and mysterious,
    >>> you have to know that flowers do not bloom overnight.
    >>> Rome was not built in a day. A life grows in the womb for nine months.
    >>> Great love grows steadily over a lifetime.
    >>> Most good things in life take a long time. And they are all worth
    >>> waiting for.
    >>> These, despite the fact, that although waiting requires a lot of
    >>> things...
    >>>
    >>> faith, courage, and hope...
    >>> Waiting guarantees nothing. One cannot imagine,
    >>> after all, that God in all His wisdom, asks us to wait,
    >>> for no essential reason.


    :) touch naman ko!!!!!
  • They say it's best to wait...

    Just wait...

    Wait...

    But it can be real tiring, too...

    Exhausting...

    Draining...


    :(
  • if you have already waited this long, why not wait a little longer.:)
  • SHINJINSHINJIN PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Originally posted by eenie
    if you have already waited this long, why not wait a little longer.:)

    Yup thats true, why dont wait a little more.

    I have a question: Assurance in waiting need it or not?:mad:
  • Originally posted by SHINJIN


    Yup thats true, why dont wait a little more.

    I have a question: Assurance in waiting need it or not?:mad:

    conditional waiting??? i'll wait if.....

    why wait at all then???

    :bubble:
  • SHINJINSHINJIN PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Originally posted by __lil_lulu__


    conditional waiting??? i'll wait if.....

    why wait at all then???

    :bubble:

    What do you mean
  • sorry....i was merely thinking out loud to your question: Assurance in waiting need it or not?

    do we need assurance to decide whether to wait or not? wouldn't that be conditional? why must we always set conditions?

    yun lang....:grinroll:
  • ur not waiting at all bro, your expecting something
  • SHINJINSHINJIN PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Originally posted by __lil_lulu__
    sorry....i was merely thinking out loud to your question: Assurance in waiting need it or not?

    do we need assurance to decide whether to wait or not? wouldn't that be conditional? why must we always set conditions?

    yun lang....:grinroll:

    Im just kinda thingking what if were waiting then wala na pala tayong dapat antayin. Know that problems.
  • SHINJINSHINJIN PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Question: What is the difference of waiting and expecting; IS there any. JUST CONFUSED
  • i don't believe in waiting anymore.... she asked to wait for her..... i did...... for a year and a half i did...... only to find out that she's with someone else. damn it! :grrr:
  • Waiting is a good thing only if something is worth waiting for.

    How will you know if it's worth it? Gut feel.

    What if you don't trust your gut? Pray. You will be enlightened. Trust me.

    Is it wrong to expect while waiting? It's not wrong, but it will increase your chances of heartbreak and disappointment if things don't work out in the end.

    Is it good to expect while waiting? It is better to HOPE.

    What's the difference bet. hoping and expecting? HOPING means you're open to either side of the coin landing though you're more inclined to believe that things will turn out well. EXPECTING means you're thinking single-track...which won't do you much good at all.

    What's the difference bet. waiting and expecting? EXPECTING is waiting for something TO DEFINITELY HAPPEN. WAITING is staying where you are, but not necessarily expecting something to happen definitely.

    Do you need assurance from someone you're waiting for while you're waiting? Ideally, yes. But realistically, do you really want assurance from this person? It's so easy to just point at something and make that the reason why you're waiting ("Because she said..." "Because he told me that...").

    With WAITING, all you really can rely on are 3 things: your gut feel, your heart and mind. Just YOURSELF, not anyone else.

    So should you wait? :) What does your gut say? How does your heart feel? What does your mind think? If they're saying different things, keep asking yourself these 3 questions (and pray!) until you get a solid answer.

    THEN you'll know if he or she is worth waiting for.
  • Originally posted by solace
    What's the difference bet. waiting and expecting? EXPECTING is waiting for something TO DEFINITELY HAPPEN. WAITING is staying where you are, but not necessarily expecting something to happen definitely.

    Do you need assurance from someone you're waiting for while you're waiting? Ideally, yes. But realistically, do you really want assurance from this person? It's so easy to just point at something and make that the reason why you're waiting ("Because she said..." "Because he told me that...").

    With WAITING, all you really can rely on are 3 things: your gut feel, your heart and mind. Just YOURSELF, not anyone else.

    So should you wait? :) What does your gut say? How does your heart feel? What does your mind think? If they're saying different things, keep asking yourself these 3 questions (and pray!) until you get a solid answer.

    THEN you'll know if he or she is worth waiting for.

    you got it right!
  • Originally posted by patrick_dR


    you got it right!

    Whew! :)
  • Originally posted by solace
    Waiting is a good thing only if something is worth waiting for.

    How will you know if it's worth it? Gut feel.

    What if you don't trust your gut? Pray. You will be enlightened. Trust me.

    Is it wrong to expect while waiting? It's not wrong, but it will increase your chances of heartbreak and disappointment if things don't work out in the end.

    Is it good to expect while waiting? It is better to HOPE.

    What's the difference bet. hoping and expecting? HOPING means you're open to either side of the coin landing though you're more inclined to believe that things will turn out well. EXPECTING means you're thinking single-track...which won't do you much good at all.

    What's the difference bet. waiting and expecting? EXPECTING is waiting for something TO DEFINITELY HAPPEN. WAITING is staying where you are, but not necessarily expecting something to happen definitely.

    Do you need assurance from someone you're waiting for while you're waiting? Ideally, yes. But realistically, do you really want assurance from this person? It's so easy to just point at something and make that the reason why you're waiting ("Because she said..." "Because he told me that...").

    With WAITING, all you really can rely on are 3 things: your gut feel, your heart and mind. Just YOURSELF, not anyone else.

    So should you wait? :) What does your gut say? How does your heart feel? What does your mind think? If they're saying different things, keep asking yourself these 3 questions (and pray!) until you get a solid answer.

    THEN you'll know if he or she is worth waiting for.


    i agree!!!! Waiting is a good thing only if something is worth waiting for.
  • SHINJINSHINJIN PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Thats what im trying to say; Waiting is good if and only if we have the assurace that there is something WORTH waiting for.

    That word "WORTH" will mean a lot. If you think that there is worth waiting for then go for it. As pexers inlabs are saying, your guts will tell.
  • Waiting is a good thing only if something is worth waiting for.

    How will you know if it's worth it? Gut feel.

    What if you don't trust your gut? Pray. You will be enlightened. Trust me.

    Is it wrong to expect while waiting? It's not wrong, but it will increase your chances of heartbreak and disappointment if things don't work out in the end.

    Is it good to expect while waiting? It is better to HOPE.

    What's the difference bet. hoping and expecting? HOPING means you're open to either side of the coin landing though you're more inclined to believe that things will turn out well. EXPECTING means you're thinking single-track...which won't do you much good at all.

    What's the difference bet. waiting and expecting? EXPECTING is waiting for something TO DEFINITELY HAPPEN. WAITING is staying where you are, but not necessarily expecting something to happen definitely.

    Do you need assurance from someone you're waiting for while you're waiting? Ideally, yes. But realistically, do you really want assurance from this person? It's so easy to just point at something and make that the reason why you're waiting ("Because she said..." "Because he told me that...").

    With WAITING, all you really can rely on are 3 things: your gut feel, your heart and mind. Just YOURSELF, not anyone else.

    So should you wait? What does your gut say? How does your heart feel? What does your mind think? If they're saying different things, keep asking yourself these 3 questions (and pray!) until you get a solid answer.

    THEN you'll know if he or she is worth waiting for.

    2 thumbs up for this...totally agree with you!
    i`m willin to wait if it`s rily worth it.

    :cheers:
  • SHINJINSHINJIN PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Totally agree to that reply.
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