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My boyfriend is a mommy's boy

2 years and 9 months na kami ng bf ko, we're both 20years old.
Hindi ko alam kung saan pa
ko lulugar, kung until when ko sya iintindihin. Pag nag sasama kami
walang araw na hindi niya babanggitin ang mom nya in any of our
conversation, na hahantong sa point na nakaka-irita na. Sasabihin nya
my mom likes it, likes that likes those. He even can't say no to his mom
kahit alam nya na may pasok sya sa school. Na aabot sa time na 1 week na syang wala sa klase. Kasi nasa Tacloban bahay nila tapos we're both studying in cebu.

Parati ko naman syang pinagsasabihan pero wala pa rin, mom pa rin nya ang sinusunod nya. Kaya ngayon hindi alam ng mom nya na marami syang failed na subjects kaka absent.

One day pinakilala nya ako sa mom nya, pumunta kami sa Tacloban. Ok naman ang mom nya, pero nung lumabas kami kasama ang mga friends ng mom nya, nag usap2x about his mom being fat then my boyfriend said, " Give some of your fats to Jean mom." He meant it as a joke pero yung mom nya walang tigil sa kakasalita with me and her friends na," ay nako gusto talaga ng anak ko ng ma chubby." Nagalit ako sa bf ko kasi he didn't say a thing to his mom kahit sabihin lang nya na it was just a joke. Kaya ayun, yung mga friends na ng mom nya ang nag defend sakin.

Maraming beses na ako pinapapunta ng bf ko sa bahay nila. na ang masakit pag naliligo ako sasabihin nya," after mo maligo, wipe the floor huh, coz mom might get angry if nakikita nyang basa yung floor." Tapos pag kakain na kami, sasabihin nya hurry up coz mom might get angry if hindi kaagad pupunta sa dining table. he even said hurry up away ni mom ng mababagal.

nalilimutan na nya na gf nya ako if we're in their house. i already talked to him about it, he said he didnt know na nasasaktan na pala ako sa nga sinabi nya, kasi ang alam lang daw nya na he wants to make her mom happy always as much as possible. pero panu naman ako? he even said na family first daw. Lagi ba talagang family first sa lahat ng bagay?

Comments

  • sorry ha.... chaka nmn ng bf mu. panu kayo tumagal? thumbsup sayo...kc ako, di ko yan kaya. ihihi!

    About sa pg-aabsent ng bf mu bcz of his mom, alam nmn ng mom nya na ng-aaral sya dba? eh bakit pinapunta nyang tacloban? normally, di yan gagawin ng magulang....maliban nlg kn super emergency talaga...
  • JameauxJameaux PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Mama's boy - can be used to justify reasons for a breakup. Para maiba naman. :lol:
  • Nung nag usap kami .. about dito umiyak nga sya kasi di nya expect na hahantong sa ganito .. ayaw daw nyang saktan ako .. hindi say nagsalita for how many minutes sabi ko ba't d ka nagsasalita, sabi nya, " i'm just thinking how bad of a boyfriend i am to you .. " sabi pa nga nya hindi na raw nya uulitin yun..
  • Oh my. You are in for a treat. Once a mama's boy, always will be. There is turning back so run away from all of this now, before it's too late for you.

    We all want our guys to love their mom, right? But it's a different thing to do the bidding of mommy dearest EACH and EVERY TIME.
  • tingin ko ayos lang naman

    di pa naman sya pumipili between you and his mom

    problem mo lang naman yata eh yung mga pinapagawa sayo coz his mom might get angry. which i think is very normal. nasa bahay ka nila kaya normal lang na ikaw yung makibagay. hindi yung sila makibagay sayo. and i think mahal ka ng bf mo kasi kaya nya pinapagawa sayo yung mga bagay na yun kasi gusto nyang magustuhan ka ng nanay nya.

    if you cant understand that then your bf deserves someone a lot better than you. sabagay bata pa naman kayo. di mo pa maiintindihan yan.
  • You're a GIRLFRIEND, not a WIFE. Don't complain if he still adores his mom more than you do. You have not contributed much to both of your well-being.
    And stop your whining and leave your BABY boy, coz he will not change. Once a mama's boy will always be a mama's boy.
  • edi sila na lang ng nanay niya para mas ok.. tutal laging c mom naman e :)
  • you should be happy your bf is a mommys boy :)


    i believe what my mom told me... ang mommas boy will be a very good husband in the neaR FUTURE :)
  • jtansancojtansanco PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    You guys are just 20 years old so that's just fine.

    At least your bf knows how to respect his mom and loves her so much. Look on the bright side, not the negativity.
  • jtansanco wrote: »
    You guys are just 20 years old so that's just fine.

    At least your bf knows how to respect his mom and loves her so much. Look on the bright side, not the negativity.

    Seriously? Do you know what you're talking about? At 20 years old, you should start learning to be independent. Especially since you're studying away from your city.

    Do not confuse being a momma's boy with loving your mother. TS, you can't let your bf shape his decisions and actions based on his mother's preferences. If he's with you, he should be considering your likes and preferences, not his mother's. There are a lot of ways of showing love for his mother, but definitely not at your expense.

    Anyway, u should probably give him time to adjust. Baka naman sobrang obsessive and upbringing sa kanya he finds it hard to adjust on his own. As long as he doesn't get mad when you voice out your concern about his being a momma's boy, that's still a good sign.:)
  • i read in an article before, psychologists agree, a son who is good to his mom, respects his mom will be a good husband/father, men who has a good relationship with his family, chances are, would be a good family man

    i don't see any problem sa mga sinabi mo, nasa bahay ka nila, gusto niya lang na walang masabi sayu nanay nya.. which is good..

    and bf-gf pa lang naman kayu.. he could be a mama's boy hanggang gusto niya... pero wag naman o.a ah..
  • revhardrevhard PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    They say that your husband will treat you in the same way that he treats his mom. If that's true, then you've got a keeper.
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