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I sometimes dream of my first bf and having a thought of sending him a message thru fb. He was my first love. I am married and has a son..... Brainsick right?:bop::bop::bop:
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  • tripl3tripl3 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Huwag na. Paguguluhin mo lang buhay mo eh. Pero depende sa sitwasyon mo, kung medyo nagkakagulo na ang married life mo at sa palagay mo'y wala nang patutunguhan at may balak kang makipaghiwalay, then I think, pu...... we........ de....... :hmm:

    Well, I mean, depende naman sa message na isi-send mo, kung harmless naman, okay lang yan. Like happy birthday and stuff, pero bahala ka, baka mamis-interpret lang nya.
  • hoho nga... kita kayo ng ex mo.. then dyugs!
    then after.. goodbye ulit..


    bogli lang yan ate...
  • para maibsan ang iyong pag iisip na yan, isipin mo nalang si first love habang nagme make love kayo ng asawa mo :naughty:

    huwag ka lang magkakamali na masabi ang pangalan ni first love habang humahalinghing ka :lol:
  • ^^ kundi palakol sa ulo ang dadanasin mo... hahahaaha...

    sisibakin ka ng asawa mo pataas... hahahaha...
  • First love.. first love never dies~

    Okay lang yan te. Pero sana wag mong kalimutan kung sino ang sinumpaan mo sa altar.. for better or for worse..
  • one thing is, minsan nga pag kasama ko si hubby like nasa labas kami bonding moment nagiimagine ako na kasama ko si ex and also when we make love I can't stand it, he's on my mind :naughty:. I must admit I was head-over-heels with my hubby when he was still my bf.I was so in love with him but when I got pregnant things have changed. I love him pero hindi na tulad ng dati and now naiisip ko lagi si ex :eek:. On the brighter side, naisip ko rin na hindi naging ok na bf si ex,feeling ko hindi naman nya ako minahal eh,nde sya ganun ka sweet noon and all...:mecry:


    I love to read all of your reactions guys, good or bad ones. Keep them coming... Thanks!:)
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    You tend to fantasize (and make them a lot better in your mind than they ever were or probably be) things that you don't have or don't have anymore. To you your husband is normal because you see him all the time. Your bf who you probably forgot the reason why you dumped him, now seems like an awesome alternative.
  • ~gIrLnXtDoOr~~gIrLnXtDoOr~ PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    there's nothing wrong wih sending him a message.. kahit simple hi hello how are you..just keep it short and simple
    dali now na..get it over with

    it doesn't mean naman na you'll leave your husband & son just because of that?! The more na patagalin mo yan mas maging curious ka pa at kung anu-ano pa maisip mo.. fantasy is different from reality
  • ok lang ba talaga if i'll send him a message kahit never na sya nagparamdam since then? iniisip ko kasi baka mamisinterpret lang nya...siguro nga, i'm living in a fantasy, iba na kasi ang feelings ko sa asawa ko, wala ng masyadong kilig factor pag kasama ko sya unlike the bf-gf days.
  • tripl3tripl3 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ^^ Isipin mo nga kung ikaw ang nasa kalagayan nya. So how many years na kayong walang contact then one day, nag- "hi" sya sa yo, anong iisipin mo? Maybe walang malisya pero pano ba kayo naghiwalay? Friends pa rin ba kayo after na maghiwalay kayo? Kung yes, siguro nga okay lang pero things are different na ngayon kasi. Ikaw ang bahala.
  • I broke up with him thru a text message. Wala na ksi time sa akin at he changed when we turned to be a couple, parang pinaglaruan lang nya ako kasi alam nya na I liked him.At feeling ko nhindi naman nya ako mahal, he was my crush then. Sa madaling sabi, bitter ako sa kanya at halos isumpa ko sya dahil sa ginawa nya sa akin. Sana nga hindi ko na lang sya naging bf kasi masaya kami nung friends pa lang. Nanghinayang ako sa friendship namin. Naunahan ko na sya baka kasi kung ano pa mangyari sa akin, buti na lang!:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
  • inviinvi PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Are you kidding? It was just a dream. Don't take it too seriously. Don't get in touch with your ex. What for?
  • invi wrote: »
    Are you kidding? It was just a dream. Don't take it too seriously. Don't get in touch with your ex. What for?


    wala namang problema kung mapanaginipan ko sya e at hindi pa naman ako nawawala sa sarili to take that dream seriously :rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:.I know na may kilig factor pa rin pag napapanaginipan ko sya :D. Hangang dun na lang yun and I will never do a thing to reach out to him, ang gawapo naman nya!:p:p:p
  • ~gIrLnXtDoOr~~gIrLnXtDoOr~ PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ay sayang...hehehe :D

    eh ano naman kung mag-message ka. hindi mo pa nga sure kung sasagot.
    and if he does, it doesn't mean makikipagbalikan sya sayo or makikipagbalikan ka sa kanya :rolleyes:

    the most that could happen is you'll just exchange messages, be updated w/ each other's lives, yun lang.
    makikipag-meet ka ba sa kanya? if umabot sa ganun, edi ibang usapan na yun... :bop:
  • ay sayang...hehehe :D

    eh ano naman kung mag-message ka. hindi mo pa nga sure kung sasagot.
    and if he does, it doesn't mean makikipagbalikan sya sayo or makikipagbalikan ka sa kanya :rolleyes:

    the most that could happen is you'll just exchange messages, be updated w/ each other's lives, yun lang.
    makikipag-meet ka ba sa kanya? if umabot sa ganun, edi ibang usapan na yun... :bop:


    oo naman po, wala na talaga kong balak sa pakikipagbalikan, that never crosses my mind! masaya na kami *****, I heard may gf na sya, well hindi naman sya nawawalan ng gf e, hahahaha, hindi kc nabubuhay ng walang babae, wala lang.... gusto ko kc face nya gwapo. :D LOL
  • it's ok with me that sometimes I caught myself having a dream of him, nakakatuwa lang, I'll will not make things complicated like sending him messages (yah, I made up my mind already) since wala na rin syang pakialaman sa akin. :P

    it's really fun and I like it when I get to vent out whatever I have in mind and still, you guys manage to give reactions and insights. Well-appreciated, thanks!!! ;)
  • RedhotOneRedhotOne PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Everything always seems perfect in Fantasyland. But the painful truth is what you described here (see quote).
    I broke up with him thru a text message. Wala na ksi time sa akin at he changed when we turned to be a couple, parang pinaglaruan lang nya ako kasi alam nya na I liked him.At feeling ko nhindi naman nya ako mahal, he was my crush then. Sa madaling sabi, bitter ako sa kanya at halos isumpa ko sya dahil sa ginawa nya sa akin. Sana nga hindi ko na lang sya naging bf kasi masaya kami nung friends pa lang. Nanghinayang ako sa friendship namin. Naunahan ko na sya baka kasi kung ano pa mangyari sa akin, buti na lang!:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
    IMO this scenario would probably be replayed should you decide to hook up with your ex again.... then what? Even seemingly innocent messages at this time could be misinterpreted by an ex bf. It will appear na para kang naghahabol pa.

    Don't forget that those memorable times with your ex was when you were still single. But now you are a wife and a mother with other more important responsibilities. Think about your kid first even if you don't find your hubby exciting anymore.
  • yup, i know... thanks for the head up. We do have sometimes odd fantasies and for me that's one of them.:bashful:
  • Ice BurnIce Burn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    I think that's normal. Sometimes one thinks of their previous relationships and kahit hinde na iniisp nasa subconscious kaya napapanaginipan.

    Pero ibang usapan ang sadyang gagawa ng problema.
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Siguro post partum depression lang yan.
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