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biglang hindi na masyado namamansin

let me share you my story...

i met this guy from school. he was extremely friendly at start. we hang out after classes. we text casually. we chat about personal stuff. i felt that we connected.

he never said that he likes me. pero he's giving the impression that he's interested. he's asking questions like am i seeing someone? do i like someone from class? he, too, is sharing personal stuff. he mentioned that he's having friendly dates with some girls. pero no commitment. basta i'm comfortable with him. and i presumed he is too.

but the prob is his inconsistency. there are days parang akala mo close na close kami. pero there are days din na he acts like ayaw niya ko kausap. ang labo lang. hindi ko masakyan.

we started good kasi. i feel it could lead to better friendship. pero parang siya na mismo bumibitaw. sa simula close na close kami. tapos it's slowly drifting apart. nakakainis lang konti. i admit i expected a little... pero it's more on the friendship din. sayang din eh. i enjoy his company.

what do you guys think?
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  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Masyado kang nag-a-assume. Hindi talaga siya interesado sa iyo.... :glee:

    -Just_JT
    Never.assume.so.you.don't.get.disappointed.
  • so ano gagawin ko? wala? kahit friendship wala na?
  • friendship lang ba talaga habol mo? :naughty:

    ikaw na rin naman nagsabi, he`s dating some girls, pero no comitment.
    could be a player, and he`s just playing with you. :lol:
  • razzer_risingrazzer_rising PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    OMG go with the flow lang. come what may. kung kausapin ka kausapin mo rin kung hindi ka pansinin wag mo ring pansinin. it seems mukhang interested ka sa guy kaya affected ka sa "inconsistencies" nya. mukha ring hindi lang friendship ang gusto mo from him. kasi kung iba yan at hindi mo feel, wala kang paki if biglang hindi na masyadong namamansin.
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    guest_1110 wrote: »
    so ano gagawin ko? wala? kahit friendship wala na?

    Kung kursunada mo siya, yayain mo magmerienda o magkape para makapag-usap kayo. Wala namang mawawala sa iyo.

    -Just_JT
    Question:do.you.have.the.guts.to.invite.a.gentleman? :bungi:
  • Baka may mood swings ;)
  • nsa "ignoring phase" **.. technique un. di ko alam kung consciously nya gngwa o hindi. it goes like this, you make a person feel your interested and when you feel like he's starting to like you, back off a bit. and epekto di mo 2loy alam kung gs2 k **** nya at ika'y na iintriga at mas nggiging attracted k p s kanya
  • i admit naman na gusto ko siya. kaya affected nga ako sa inconsistencies niya. i thought kasi we'll be closer... kasi ok talaga kami pag magkasama. pero napaka-inconsistent. minsan namamansin, minsan hindi.

    ganon ba talaga yung ibang lalaki? kasi sa totoo lang, sa kanya lang ako nakaranas ng ganyan. parang meron na hindi mo maintindihan!

    ako ba magyayaya? hindi ba nakakahiya yun?

    so hindi niya ko gusto noh? kasi kung gusto niya ko, siya mauuna mamansin eh. nag-expect kasi ko nung una. eh ayan biglang hindi na namamansin.
  • nsa "ignoring phase" **.. technique un. di ko alam kung consciously nya gngwa o hindi. it goes like this, you make a person feel your interested and when you feel like he's starting to like you, back off a bit. and epekto di mo 2loy alam kung gs2 k **** nya at ika'y na iintriga at mas nggiging attracted k p s kanya

    siya ang nasa ignoring phase? so ano ibig sabihin non? hindi niya ko gusto? pinaramdam niya sa'kn gusto niya ko nung simula... tapos nung nagugustuhan ko na siya, mang-iiwan siya sa ere? ganon ba yun? sapakin ko kaya siya ahahaha
  • player ang guy na gusto mo TS. trick ko din yan.
  • panong trick? ano yung trick diyan? yung man-deadma bigla?

    so... wala na? kahit friendship wala na 'to? ang labo lang nung simula close kami... tapos parang nang-iiwan sa ere na hindi maintindihan.
  • razzer_risingrazzer_rising PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ^may feelings ka na talaga sa kanya dear. i think its best you follow my advise. geez just dont get too affected. friends do come and go. its reality. just move on. if hes not for you then hes not. marami pang iba dyan. dont ever try to understand someone na malabo, youll end up frustrated.
  • If a guy likes you, he'll do anything/everything for you. Maybe he's just not that into you. Or he's collecting then selecting.
  • yeah, i figured he really doesn't like me. i've seen that movie "he's just not that into you." hindi na naman ako nag-eexpect. it just bothers me bakit nagka-ganon. have i said something that might have upset him? wala lang. sayang din kasi yung friendship... masaya naman kami pag magkasama kami.

    and yeah, i admit i like him. i'm not denying that.

    kawawa talaga minsan ang mga girls huhuhu. :p
  • YaneeBoiii wrote: »
    If a guy likes you, he'll do anything/everything for you. Maybe he's just not that into you. Or he's collecting then selecting.

    nahuli na niya lahat. ;)


    ingat ka sa ganyan. :D
  • rokrokrokrok PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Nadisappoint ka kasi player siya, mahirap talaga pag nagaassume. :bop:

    Save the friendship, yon lang. Wag ka ng magexpect na he'll like you, player yan, ikaw din kawawa pag nahulog ka sa game niya.
  • oo.. mahirap nga mag-assume. pero i think more on nag-expect ako. na we would get to know each other more. pero ayun nga, bigla naman huminto.

    how can i save the friendship? hindi na nga kami masyado nagpapansinan. if mag-uusap kami, parang may "wall" na. ewan ko ba kung ako lang yung paranoia. naiinis din talaga ako sa kanya pa... ang labo lang kasi.
  • Hey, that happened to me na rin, dahil iba yung treatment niya saken nun, medyo nag-assume ako na he's interested sakin, pero nadisappoint din ako nung umiwas na siya.. so, what I did is, naglakas loob akong tanungin ang guy if what's the problem, bakit umiiwas siya, if pinahiya ka niya, then say sorry na lang kahit wala kang nakikitang mali.. :)

    Di naman sa nag-papaasa pero kadalasan, kapag ganyan eh may "takot" ang guy na ma-fall sa girl kaya umiiwas na lang. Pero madalas din, talagang sobrang naiintimidate na lang siguro... Goodluck!
  • so.. ano naging sagot ni guy bakit daw siya umiwas bigla? :)

    hindi naman as in mega-iwas ah. pero biglang hindi na kami close. weird lang.

    na-intimidate siya sa'kn? i don't think so.
  • ^ hehe, hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring reply from him, ayoko na rin siyang lapitan dahil pagod nako kakasorry, hehe... patutsadahan naman kase yung inabot namin kaya ganon na lang ang iwasan namen ngayon hehe ;)

    well, that's good, may pag-asa pa namang mabalik yung dati... siguro, hintay ka na lang, di rin yan makakatiis, malay mo busy-busyhan lang minsan o baka may mood swings siya, na minsan trip kang kausapin, minsan hinde... basta, maaayos pa yan, balitaan mo kame everyday kung ano nang nangyayari ha... Good Luck! :)
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