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[MERGED] Erectile Dysfunction
How true is it that if a guy can no longer get a good erection, he will get a pleasant surprise by making out with a sweet young thing?
If so, then it's really just psychological. And fantasizing that one's wife is a pretty young thing might actually help?
If so, then it's really just psychological. And fantasizing that one's wife is a pretty young thing might actually help?
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Is this normal doc?, after i have my first release, my patutoy looses it full erection though i still want another round but i cant kasi nga lembot na sia? psychological lang ba to or what? or i needed to take Viagra na. im just 20 years old doc.
But as Doc Ira said, it's normal.
Try to read up on this subject in the internet so you can 'perform' better.
This is probably humorous but its gravity had caused me a lot of sleepless nights, hence I seek your help. I am no therapist nor am I inclined in the medical/psychological sciences, and I am very much at a lost. Please help.
I've been dating a lot of girls, and most of the time one thing leads to another and we end up in bed. Some of them have a personality so enchanting and addictive that they have become constant dates, and constant bedmates as well.
Performance had never, ever been an issue. Isang kalabit lang, raring to go na ako. However, since 5 months ago, I started dating this 20 year old girl. She's very pretty, very nice, but not so responsive when it comes to passion. She was a virgin then, but we ended up in bed together. That is when this problem of mine became manifest. The fact that it was her first time turned me on so much, but I can't fathom why I never had an erection hard enough to "break" into her. When I tried to ram myself in, I noticed how "relatively" soft my pecker was. With every attempted thrust, the pressure was building up, and the softer my pecker went. It was embarassing, but I concentrated really hard, and after hours (literally) of trying, I managed to "break" in. I felt so much relief when I did, and before I knew it, the celebratory mood I was in subconciously replaced the heat of the moment and I again softened up when I was inside her. I wanted to bury my head in shame, but managed to sweet talk myself out of that particularly humiliating predicament. The night ended with a numb tongue and the taste of fresh blood in my mouth.
I started questioning myself after that. At 27, am I showing signs of old age na? Have this phase of exciting albeit responsible promiscuity passed me by? Am I tired of the usual fare of foreplay, intercourse, foreplay, intercourse, that perhaps, extreme preferences are in order ( S&M, bondage, anal, etc.)?
Such thoughts hounded me in my succeeding affairs. I prepared myself to fight the pressure which I thought would surely come. Surprisingly, such pressures were non-existent in my subsequent adventures in bed. I was elated! I was happy! And I thought everything was back to normal, that maybe I was just plain tired and out of it during the sesson with Ms. Former Virgin.
For the five months that followed, I still dated Ms. Former Virgin. There were times when she felt hot and horny, and was giving signs that I take her somewhere private. I always gave an excuse for such, as deep inside, I was still afraid of the possible humiliation. It took me five months to conquer what I still think is a selective fear.
We had sex yesterday. Well, that's not entirely true. We "tried" to have sex yesterday. Again, my pecker acted up! I don't know why! Fortunately for me, she was kind enough to let me off the hook with my petty excuses, and perhaps, was unexperienced enough not to notice the gravity of the situation. My world built around chauvinistically masculine (admittedly) ideas crumbled before my eyes. What is wrong with me?
Last night, right after I brought her home, I visited my ex. She always had her way of making me feel good whenever something's bothering me, without the need of telling her what the problem was. And by God, I can't talk to her about this current self-doubt I am having! Well, words of comfort and a few drinks provided some intimacy that is more than what we both expected and we ended up in bed. I was afraid at first, coming from what transpired earlier, but again, such fear proved baseless!
Now I am wondering why I am experiencing this with Ms. Former Virgin alone. I have heard about "relative impotency" in the Family Code, but shouldn't that apply to someone whom you have copulated with with regularity to the point of boredom, and not someone whom you're certain turns you on so much and whom you have had but a few adventures with?
Curse me. Ridicule me. Laugh at me. Do as you please. But I really need your help, and I would appreciate the words, however placed, that you are willing to give.
Have a nice day and thank you for your time.
nah just kiddin
ask a doctor dude
So Keep on practicing lang dude!
And try consulting doctors
as in doctors
Lick her up first.
Tell her to lick your nipples or give you a good suck.
Then when you're hard hard hard. Ram it in.
Siguro you were tounging her too long after which your **** turned soft then you tried still to put it in soft.