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hi mga sisses, i just want to share this experience and i want some adive too.. 3years n kming nagsasama ni hubby and we have a baby girl na.ill get to the point na to make it short. since malaki na si baby tinuloy ko ulit trabaho ko,so kming dalawa uli angaun ang nagtatrabaho .ang masama nito ang gnagawa ni hubby *** sweldo nia bnbgay nia lahat sa mother in law ko and ang inaasahan nlng niya na pang gastos namin ay yong sweldo ko. syempre naman bilang asawa sasama din ang loob ko.okay lang sakin na magbigay kase nga family parin niya yon.and since si mother in law naman pinangsusugal lang niya ang pera na sana pangkain nanamin ng pamilya ko. minsan kinonfront ko siya tapos nagalit tuloy siya sakin.what will i do?please help
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aww moma's boy hahah. ok lang sana kung ginagamit ng nanay niya ng tama pero pina pang sugal??
what else can you do... :depressed:are you sure binibigay niya lahat? baka naman may pinagiipunan yung mister mo like car ganun ayaw niya lang ipaalam?
hmmm try mo ganito.. mg ulam kayo ng tuyo at itlog na maalat ng paulit2 at pag tinanong ka niya kung bakit walang fried chicken sabihin mo ng bubudget ka para sa future and schooling ng baby girl niyo. para naman maguilty siya at magambag man lang.
by the way ts, hindi mo naman siguro pinagkakaitan si Hubby pag may gusto siya like sex ganun? or hindi ka naman siguro ngpapabaya sa itsura mo?
sabi ko nga ako pa tuloy ang masama.nagbibigay naman kasi ako kahit hindi pa sila mamnghingi before tapos nalaman ko nalang na imbes na pang grocery nila e nagoovernight si inlaw sa sugalan.parang nakakasakit naman kasi un diba?pinaghirapan at pinagpuyatan ko tapos ganun lang.
about sex sabihin na natin na nawalan na ako ng gana sakanya:(
sa totoo niyan iniisip ko munang humiwalay sakanya para may time siyang mag isip at marealize na kailangan niya kami :(
yup masakit talaga yun and walang yumayaman sa sugal, hindi ba alam ng hubby mo yun?
about sa pag hawak mo naman ng ATM niya talagang iinit ang ulo nun. kasi panu nga naman kung may gusto siyang bilhin diba? he's working his a.s.s too... you should talk to your hubby. wag naman hiwalay agad and don't compromise sex. things will get worse. believe me. kausapin mo. lets say if his earning 15K a month sabihin mo you keep the 6k, he keeps the 6k, and he can give 3k to his gambling momma! :fume:
if he don't agree that's the time you compromise sex :argue:
Sometimes evil (deprivation) will teach people to do things the right way (save money; appreciate family's kindness). When you're 'too kind' ie giving them way too many options they care little to blow all those bridge up, you allow them to be reckless and stupid. Gambling is an obsessive habit that's not only wasteful but also have psychological and social repercussions.
Sometimes Filipinos get convoluted with the idea of filial obligation. Just supporting her materially isn't the answer. Sometimes it require critical thinking to see what you're doing is 1. stupid 2. worse off in the end. It takes more than face value to be a good son, sometimes you have to traverse and sift through the gray areas to fulfill the right things.