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minahal niya kaya talga ako??

eto yun story ..

yung bf ko kase nakipag break saken ..Bago cia makipag break nagcamp sila 3 days .. kasama mga ka churchmate niya ..
reason niya ayaw daw muna niya NG LOVELIFE .
after he texted me that di na ko nagreact .
sabi ko na lang *sige ingat ka .*

ang kinaiinis ko lang ..before pa kase *** camp nila ang dami niyang sinabe saken .. sabe niya araw araw na daw kame magkita .
so , ako nmn feeling ko mamimiss niya talga ko .. kaya lang ayun n nga pagbalik niya nakipagbreak siya..
ang tanong ko .. tingin niyo ba sinadya niyang paasahin ako?


SO sad for me..:bawling:

Comments

  • kieelapot wrote: »
    what you should do is to accept ..
    tama na DRAMA mo! haha .
    nangyari na yan e .

    tell yourself ^ what you said from the other thread.

    dont overthink and overanalyze things. nangyari na eh.
  • SweetkaySweetkay PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    and you didn't fight for it ... you just let it go ... why bother analyzing it now? :shrug:

    besides, a guy that fickleminded should just be thrown out with rubbish where he belongs.

    BDW, please avoid text speak. Thanks.
  • haha . yo right ..
    :) . accept ko nmn e . kaya lang
    i want to know kung minahal niya talaga ko .
    para nmn akong ***** kung ita2nong
    ko sa kania . bka isipin pa nun hinahabol ko siya .. haha

    anyway THANK`S sis . :)
  • SweetkaySweetkay PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    There's no point to it na naman. If you find out that he did love you, then what? :shrug:
  • mihyuljangmihyuljang PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ang daming babaeng ganito. yung naghahanap pa ng rason. yung tipong tapos na ang palabas " the end " na pero naghahanap pa ng kasunod. di na lang tanggapin na tapos na. and what is the use of having the answers to your questions? di naman magbabago ang istorya e. napagod ka pa sa kakaintindi.
  • amor19amor19 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    hija, you're only 15. you must even be the youngest poster here. you dont need to be dealing with this kind of stuff, ang bata bata mo pa. obviously wala pa sa matinong pagiisip kayong dalawa. trust me, once you turn 21 and you look back to this part of your life, you'll realize that what you call as love now isnt really love afterall. im almost 21 and ive learned a few years back that the 'love' i felt when i was your age, wasnt love at all.

    you should spend more time studying than dwelling on this. trust me you dont want to waste all your time fixing your love problems rather than doing better in school.
    my brother is 16 and all he could think of is racking up girls he could make out with. he's not dealing with some heartaches, that's bullsh*t for guys your age. your ex might even flirting with another girl already and trying to court her while you're here wasting your time asking strangers if he really did love you. trust me, he's not asking himself that question right now. he's somewhere having fun with other girls possibly.

    and there is no way we can tell you if this kid really loved you or not. you didnt even tell us how he was as a boyfriend or how your relationship was with him.
    and a guy that breaks up with you thru text? is a worthless *****. it just shows na di ka niya pinahalagahan at lalong lalo na, di ka na importante sa kanya. so let it go. unless kung makipagbalikan sayo yang mokong na yan at magmakaawang balikan mo, then maybe, just maybe, importante ka parin sa kanya.
  • amor19
    hehe . ou nga po eh .
    actually marami narin nagsabi saken niyan. tatawanan ko na nga lang siguro to when that time comes..
    well, you're really really right . :) i'm just wasting my time with him..
    like what you said",your ex might even flirting with another girl already and trying to court her while you're here wasting your time"
    actually, that is the first thing comes in my mind . as what i am believing, madali lang naman magsinungaling..

    i almost neglected my studies because of him. di kase ako makapagconcentrate pag di niya ko tinetext. Di ko nga matanggap na sinabi ko sa kaniya na sobrang mahal ko siya after the break up eh . I really regret! kaya lang yun na nga, nangyare na e wala na ko magagawa dun..

    And now that he's gone, di ko alam kung dapat ba kong magalit o dapat pa ko mag thank you sa kaniya .. Coz after that ,i became more serious on my studies..:)) Mas okay pa pala pag wala siya atleast ako inaangat ko yung sarili ko e siya ayun , nagtatapon ng buhay nagpapaka adik sa dota . ahaha :lol:

    But THANKS a LOT ate amor. While im reading your text, im feel so glad :) .. You made me realize what person i am.. :) and because of that you give me an idea how will i change :)) THANKS A LOT :))

    godbless . take care always :))
  • mihyuljangmihyuljang PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    @TS. God made you realize that with him, you will not be able to reach your dreams. think like this, the future is so bright and so exciting for you to just waste you present by thinking of him.
    just think of how many guys will drool at your beauty now that he is gone. hehehhe.
  • amor19amor19 PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    you're very welcome kiee :)

    just be glad the he left you. and that's good that youre focusing on yourself more. it's not good to slack around in school just cuz of some dude who left you. he wont be the one facing the consequences once you fail, but just you.
    good luck with your studies and everything else! i read your life story and all i can tell you is be strong and dont give yourself an excuse that it's okay to rebel just cuz you are dealing with harder stuff than most teenagers like you. you have more reasons to be better and keep your life on the right track.
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Does it matter now? :mconfused:
  • this topic caught my attention and i got interest in posting my experience here..

    my story started last january 2010. i met an officemate whom i never thought would ruin my whole life and all. thinking that he's a christian, i thought he's too good because the first time we met, he's very nice to me..(well, sino ba naman ang maglalabas ng totoong kulay at the start of the game?)

    few days after we met, his fiance broke up with him. they were supposed to get married on october 10, 2010. nagkaroon pa kami palitan ng comments sa FB. neutral comments. and parang wala lang sa kin kase that time, i have someone na rin na gustong gusto ko talaga. although di sya dito sa pinas naka base pero we have time to see each other twice a year.

    as days goes by, madalas na kami mag usap. sa IM, sa text or even personally. i never expected na mauuwi lahat sa relasyon. matamis ang dila nya. maraming sinasabi na talagang kaya i melt ang heart ng isang tao. ako naman, naniwala... without even thinking na - OMG, galing sa broken relationship, in short, rebound ako..

    after a month, he's breaking up with me. na di ko alam ang reason. madalas na daw ang away? eh sya tong laging naghahanap ng rason para may mapag awayan kami. at that point, di ko naman naisip na naghahanap sya ng lusot.. (siyempre, inlove na ko at nalimutan ko na si love interest ko na wala dito dahil ipinilit ni officemate ang sarili nya). the most weired thing - wala na daw kami pero he's still asking me to make out with him.. (pumapayag ako kase i'm still hoping na masesave ang relationship kase minahal ko na sya with all my life)

    may 21, 2010. i found out i am pregnant. sinabi ko sa kanya na i need to talk to him pero hindi sa text. nahulaan nya na buntis ako. and worst, ang reply nya is: "it would be better if that child will be unborn na lang kesa lumaki ng walang buong pamilya.." (that's his choice kase he left me na nga). until one day, naisip kong mag text sa isang girl na related sa kanya. he keeps on telling na best friend nya. minsan kaming nagpalit ng phone and naiwan don yung mga nag register na calls sa kanya. di ko alam kung bakit ko nasave yung number ng girl. so nag text kami ng girl. at don ko nalaman na they have an affair too during the time that i have a relationship with him. it really hurts and di ko alam ang gagawin ko nung nalaman ko yon. pero i kept myself calm and relaxed kase di ako puwede mastress nung time na yon kase nasa first tri mester ako ng pagbubuntis ako.

    right now, i am already on my 9th month. and wala ako nakuhang support from him. financially, morally and emotionally. he left me all alone and may bago na syang girlfriend who is kinausap ko na rin through email pero wala lang. second child to ng ex ko pero di pa rin nya pinanagutan. and yung girl nya, alam ang sitwasyon ko pero patuloy pa rin ang relasyon nila.

    after those months of sufferings, depression and emotional pain, lahat nagbounced sa utak ko ang mga ginawa sa kin ang ama ng coming baby ko. mas masasabi kong di nya ko minahal dahil mas tamang sabihin na ginamit lang nya ako.. gaya nga ng sabi ko - rebound na di ako agad nadiscover..

    i will be having my child in few days time and ang puwede ko na lang gawin ngayon is to move on.. kung ano man ang ginawa sa kin ng ama ng anak ko, I will leave it to God.. Sana masaya sila sa nangyari sa ming mag ina...
  • wondermom wrote: »
    this topic caught my attention and i got interest in posting my experience here..

    my story started last january 2010. i met an officemate whom i never thought would ruin my whole life and all. thinking that he's a christian, i thought he's too good because the first time we met, he's very nice to me..(well, sino ba naman ang maglalabas ng totoong kulay at the start of the game?)

    few days after we met, his fiance broke up with him. they were supposed to get married on october 10, 2010. nagkaroon pa kami palitan ng comments sa FB. neutral comments. and parang wala lang sa kin kase that time, i have someone na rin na gustong gusto ko talaga. although di sya dito sa pinas naka base pero we have time to see each other twice a year.

    as days goes by, madalas na kami mag usap. sa IM, sa text or even personally. i never expected na mauuwi lahat sa relasyon. matamis ang dila nya. maraming sinasabi na talagang kaya i melt ang heart ng isang tao. ako naman, naniwala... without even thinking na - OMG, galing sa broken relationship, in short, rebound ako..

    after a month, he's breaking up with me. na di ko alam ang reason. madalas na daw ang away? eh sya tong laging naghahanap ng rason para may mapag awayan kami. at that point, di ko naman naisip na naghahanap sya ng lusot.. (siyempre, inlove na ko at nalimutan ko na si love interest ko na wala dito dahil ipinilit ni officemate ang sarili nya). the most weired thing - wala na daw kami pero he's still asking me to make out with him.. (pumapayag ako kase i'm still hoping na masesave ang relationship kase minahal ko na sya with all my life)

    may 21, 2010. i found out i am pregnant. sinabi ko sa kanya na i need to talk to him pero hindi sa text. nahulaan nya na buntis ako. and worst, ang reply nya is: "it would be better if that child will be unborn na lang kesa lumaki ng walang buong pamilya.." (that's his choice kase he left me na nga). until one day, naisip kong mag text sa isang girl na related sa kanya. he keeps on telling na best friend nya. minsan kaming nagpalit ng phone and naiwan don yung mga nag register na calls sa kanya. di ko alam kung bakit ko nasave yung number ng girl. so nag text kami ng girl. at don ko nalaman na they have an affair too during the time that i have a relationship with him. it really hurts and di ko alam ang gagawin ko nung nalaman ko yon. pero i kept myself calm and relaxed kase di ako puwede mastress nung time na yon kase nasa first tri mester ako ng pagbubuntis ako.

    right now, i am already on my 9th month. and wala ako nakuhang support from him. financially, morally and emotionally. he left me all alone and may bago na syang girlfriend who is kinausap ko na rin through email pero wala lang. second child to ng ex ko pero di pa rin nya pinanagutan. and yung girl nya, alam ang sitwasyon ko pero patuloy pa rin ang relasyon nila.

    after those months of sufferings, depression and emotional pain, lahat nagbounced sa utak ko ang mga ginawa sa kin ang ama ng coming baby ko. mas masasabi kong di nya ko minahal dahil mas tamang sabihin na ginamit lang nya ako.. gaya nga ng sabi ko - rebound na di ako agad nadiscover..

    i will be having my child in few days time and ang puwede ko na lang gawin ngayon is to move on.. kung ano man ang ginawa sa kin ng ama ng anak ko, I will leave it to God.. Sana masaya sila sa nangyari sa ming mag ina...

    anu bayan parang animal yung lalaki palahi lang ang alam. :grrr:
    ang lakas pa ng loob mag suggest ng abortion. tsk tsk :grrr:

    well at least you have a baby now, blessing parin yan. alagaan mo nalang mag isa at wag mo ng habulin un sakit sa ulo lang. :spank:
  • BertBaltazarBertBaltazar PEx Rookie ⭐
    ay nako.... i feel so sorry for you, big mistake, as in general mistake. General mistake of i would give my body, you must love me notion.

    Malibog ang lalake, kaya nga puro kalalakihan ang magbabayad sa mga babae o kapwa lalake para sa kaunting panahon ng kamunduhan! Pero may mga malibog na makunat at kuripot, na kung maka ka dyug ng libre, mag score siya! Ayan, nag pa score ka, at ngayon panalo ka ng isang anak na walang ama! Love and sex are two different things particularly for men.
  • @wondermom
    make a new thread for your story, for sure many pexers will post for advices and can relate to your story.

    I hate your ex.
  • newbiebaby wrote: »
    @wondermom
    make a new thread for your story, for sure many pexers will post for advices and can relate to your story.

    I hate your ex.

    --

    i made a new thread na.. you hate him? yeah, most of the people hate him.. and until now, he's still an a*shol*.... :(
  • template wrote: »
    anu bayan parang animal yung lalaki palahi lang ang alam. :grrr:
    ang lakas pa ng loob mag suggest ng abortion. tsk tsk :grrr:

    well at least you have a baby now, blessing parin yan. alagaan mo nalang mag isa at wag mo ng habulin un sakit sa ulo lang. :spank:

    ****

    you're right.. sabi nga nila, ang mga tao daw na nag aabandon ng mga anak nila, di gumaganda ang buhay. God is good all the time especially to those who needs HIM the most. Yun ama ng baby ko, ipinaubaya na yata nya ang buhay nya kay Satan kaya ganon na sya. Anyway, i still believe that what goes around, comes around.. And lahat tayo, magbabayad sa mga kasalanan natin..
  • ay nako.... i feel so sorry for you, big mistake, as in general mistake. General mistake of i would give my body, you must love me notion.

    Malibog ang lalake, kaya nga puro kalalakihan ang magbabayad sa mga babae o kapwa lalake para sa kaunting panahon ng kamunduhan! Pero may mga malibog na makunat at kuripot, na kung maka ka dyug ng libre, mag score siya! Ayan, nag pa score ka, at ngayon panalo ka ng isang anak na walang ama! Love and sex are two different things particularly for men.

    ***

    Nabulag na ko nun time na yun kase gusto ko talaga isave ang relationship. Di ko inisip talaga na he'll just use me. Walang wala sa character nya.

    Eto, ang prize ko.. Ang ANAK ko na bubuhayin ko mag isa.. Mahirap pero I learned a lot from this..
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