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I feel very uncomfortable with my boyfriend.

fabchqfabchq ★~FASHION-CHICK~★ PExer
Lately, my boyfriend is being too... horny?

He watches a lot of porn movies. I know. When I used his laptop, I noticed that he downloaded 8 porn movies in one night.

Seriously, every time I hear people say the word "sex" I would say "ewww." I know, it's too maarte. But here I am, talking about my boyfriend's desire for sex. Oh well...

So, one time... he actually asked me if I am ready to lose my virginity. Wow. Shocked. Of course, I said NO. too young, too early. He didn't give up. Asked me the same question after a week. Same answer, NO.

When I came over at his house (he didn't know), went up to his room. I found something very "kadiri", a white liquid stain on his bed. You guys know what it is, right?

Now, every time his around, I feel very uncomfy. Gosh. This ain't right. Any advice? Thanks! :)

By the way, in case you guys ask... my boyfriend is turning 21, and I just turned 20. :) We've been together for 2 years.
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  • GanttGantt FiddlingYourHeartMind&Body PExer
    nowadays its normal. very normal.
    its up to you though if you'd give in eventually to his request or not.
    makeyour decision, if no, talk to him and really explain why.
    though i doubt that he'll absorb every bit of your explanation because of disappointment:lol:
    if your decision is yes, then i guess there's no need for talkin, right? ;)

    i wonder what you'd think and feel if you get to read your post after a few years or after mo makatikim:lol:
    :rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
  • MARVIN_101MARVIN_101 Member PExer
    fabchq wrote: »
    Lately, my boyfriend is being too... horny?

    He watches a lot of porn movies. I know. When I used his laptop, I noticed that he downloaded 8 porn movies in one night.

    Seriously, every time I hear people say the word "sex" I would say "ewww." I know, it's too maarte. But here I am, talking about my boyfriend's desire for sex. Oh well...

    So, one time... he actually asked me if I am ready to lose my virginity. Wow. Shocked. Of course, I said NO. too young, too early. He didn't give up. Asked me the same question after a week. Same answer, NO.

    When I came over at his house (he didn't know), went up to his room. I found something very "kadiri", a white liquid stain on his bed. You guys know what it is, right?

    Now, every time his around, I feel very uncomfy. Gosh. This ain't right. Any advice? Thanks! :)

    By the way, in case you guys ask... my boyfriend is turning 21, and I just turned 20. :) We've been together for 2 years.

    Normal lang sa lalaki talaga manood ng porn. Nasa dugo na naman yun. Pero yung alukin ka makipagsex di na normal yun. Patingin mo na sa doktor yung bf mo o hiwalayan mo na.

    Baka di mo pa masabi mangyari ang di inaasahan. Tapos iwan ka pa pagkatapos makuha nya ang virginity mo.

    21? Kaya ka na ba buhayin yan. Batang bata pa yan. Puro libog pa nasa katawan yan. :lol:

    Kung mahal ka nya dapat sa una palang ng pagsagot mo ng no. Sana hindi na nya sinundan pa. Sabihin mo sa kanya makuntento mo na siya kay mariang palad o maghanap ng ibang babae. Yun nga lang wala na siyang babalikan sayo. :lol:
  • fabchqfabchq ★~FASHION-CHICK~★ PExer
    Gantt wrote: »
    nowadays its normal. very normal.
    its up to you though if you'd give in eventually to his request or not.
    makeyour decision, if no, talk to him and really explain why.
    though i doubt that he'll absorb every bit of your explanation because of disappointment:lol:
    if your decision is yes, then i guess there's no need for talkin, right? ;)

    i wonder what you'd think and feel if you get to read your post after a few years or after mo makatikim:lol:
    :rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:

    He knows why I refused to do it.

    Like what some girls say: "save it after marriage."
  • RefillRefill Member PExer
    fabchq wrote: »

    When I came over at his house (he didn't know), went up to his room. I found something very "kadiri", a white liquid stain on his bed. You guys know what it is, right?

    Seriously? Iniwanan nalang niya yun ng ganun? That's gross.

    If your not ready, then you're not ready. A No is a No. He should understand that. He shouldn't pressure you in doing it.

    Pag-usapan ninyo. When and how would be the right time for you. If you believe in s3x after marriage then he should understand that. Walang pilitan. It's more enjoyable and sincere if both of you are willing.

    He doesn't want to "make love" to you. He just wants to experience yung ginagawa sa porn niya.

    "Wag mo i-susuko ang Bataan". Walang pilitan. *okay*

    Ngayon lang ba nag-puberty bf mo? :D
  • MARVIN_101MARVIN_101 Member PExer
    fabchq wrote: »
    He knows why I refused to do it.

    Like what some girls say: "save it after marriage."

    Bakit sinundan nya pa ng pangalawang tanong kung gusto mo daw? :lol:

    Ingat ingat ka lang sa paginom baka may nilagay si bf na pangpahilo dyan. :lol:
  • normal lang na ask ka ng sex ng bf mo

    proud ako sayo kasi you stand firm, tama ginagawa mo kasi yan ang gusto mo

    kung ano ano sasabihin sayo ng bf mo to get you into bed, kaya be prepared

    stick to your guns TS - kung mahal ka talaga niyan then he will respect your decision to wait until you get married. dumami nawa ang matitinong babae katulad mo TS
  • MARVIN_101MARVIN_101 Member PExer
    normal lang na ask ka ng sex ng bf mo

    proud ako sayo kasi you stand firm, tama ginagawa mo kasi yan ang gusto mo

    kung ano ano sasabihin sayo ng bf mo to get you into bed, kaya be prepared

    stick to your guns TS - kung mahal ka talaga niyan then he will respect your decision to wait until you get married. dumami nawa ang matitinong babae katulad mo TS

    Swerte mapapangasawa ni TS noh! Pag ganyan ang babae madaming lalake ang maghahabol sa kanya. *okay*
  • fabchqfabchq ★~FASHION-CHICK~★ PExer
    Refill wrote: »
    Seriously? Iniwanan nalang niya yun ng ganun? That's gross.

    I know, right?
    Refill wrote: »
    If your not ready, then you're not ready. A No is a No. He should understand that. He shouldn't pressure you in doing it.

    Pag-usapan ninyo. When and how would be the right time for you. If you believe in s3x after marriage then he should understand that. Walang pilitan. It's more enjoyable and sincere if both of you are willing.

    He doesn't want to "make love" to you. He just wants to experience yung ginagawa sa porn niya.

    "Wag mo i-susuko ang Bataan". Walang pilitan. *okay*

    Ngayon lang ba nag-puberty bf mo? :D

    Haha! Lately lang kasi sya naging horny masyado. Before naman ok sya eh, but now... uhhhh...
  • fabchqfabchq ★~FASHION-CHICK~★ PExer
    normal lang na ask ka ng sex ng bf mo

    proud ako sayo kasi you stand firm, tama ginagawa mo kasi yan ang gusto mo

    kung ano ano sasabihin sayo ng bf mo to get you into bed, kaya be prepared

    stick to your guns TS - kung mahal ka talaga niyan then he will respect your decision to wait until you get married. dumami nawa ang matitinong babae katulad mo TS

    I can't imagine doing it kasi. eww lang kapag naiisip ko yung gusto nya na yun. haha but thanks though. :)
    MARVIN_101 wrote: »
    Swerte mapapangasawa ni TS noh! Pag ganyan ang babae madaming lalake ang maghahabol sa kanya. *okay*

    thanks! :)
  • lunarpandalunarpanda Oath of Allegiance PExer
    perfect match .... a virgin and a horn dog.
  • MARVIN_101MARVIN_101 Member PExer
    lunarpanda wrote: »
    perfect match .... a virgin and a horn dog.

    Hahahaha! natawa ako sa post mo. :lol:
  • mihyuljangmihyuljang same Q PExer
    @ TS. you tell him directly as civil as possible. tell him straight that you dont like it. and if he is still bugging you to have sex with him but you are not willing. it simply shows that he has no respect to you. if he truly loves you, he can wait. may mga kamay naman sya to suffice his urge. just dont give just becasus he says so, kahit ayaw mo. kasi hindi na yan maibabalik sa iyo.
  • GanttGantt FiddlingYourHeartMind&Body PExer
    fabchq wrote: »
    He knows why I refused to do it.

    Like what some girls say: "save it after marriage."
    if thats what your really want
    then better stand your ground
    baka after a while bumigay ka rin..

    MARVIN_101 wrote: »
    Swerte mapapangasawa ni TS noh! Pag ganyan ang babae madaming lalake ang maghahabol sa kanya. *okay*

    i know some guys who would not share the same view
  • MARVIN_101MARVIN_101 Member PExer
    Gantt wrote: »
    if thats what your really want
    then better stand your ground
    baka after a while bumigay ka rin..




    i know some guys who would not share the same view

    Yeah! pero majority naman siguro sa lalaki na yung tipong katulad ni ts ang hinahanap nila sa babae. Yung iba naman kasing guy di naman talaga nila trip i sex yung girl lalo na pag alam nilang virgin pa. Sinubukan lang nila kung bibigay.
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer soundscapes ✭✭✭
    your BF is normal:

    1. at least he wants to mate with a woman. :lol:

    alam mo naman ngayong mga panahon hija, ang dami nang guys ang nare-recruit sa federacion. buti na 'yan sigurado ka.

    2. it is you who's turning him on.

    at least, for now.

    the nearest possible scenario that most if not all can think of, either of the two:

    1. you will breakup with him if he continues to be persistent.

    2. eventually, bibigay ka rin.


    1.

    pag firm ka sa stand mo na no sex before marriage, bubuweltahan ka nito:

    pag hindi mo pinagbigyan --> susubok sa labas + iba. mang ha-hunting ng mga girls. puwede dito sa pex, why not?

    so kung di mo ma-take 'yan.. pag pilitan ang gusto niya at pati na rin gusto mo. breakup ang kalalabasan niyan.

    unless..

    payag kayong dalawa na walang penetration muna. puro oral sex lang muna. hasos ang hirap niyan. :lol:

    2.

    eventually, mako-corner ka sa ganitong tanong: can you afford to lose him, yes or no?

    so tutal.. kayo rin naman ang magkakatuluyan, bakit hindi na lang ninyo try? :lol: (just use some protection such as condom).

    tinuruan pa ang mga bata ano? :lol:

    since you'll be doing it anyway, why not do it the right way na lang? parang kagat lang daw 'yan ng langgam hija. sa una lang..

    after that lagi ka na lang naka like this oh --> :rolleyes:



    hija, hindi kita dine-demonyo, sinasabi ko lang ang reality. :hiya:
  • MARVIN_101MARVIN_101 Member PExer
    ^

    Lupit mo talaga. Talagang namaster mo na ang art of sex. :lol:
  • mihyuljangmihyuljang same Q PExer
    for sure lalabas ang mga dialogue na ganito

    "pag mahal mo ako, makikipagsex ka sa akin. di mo naman ata ako mahal."
    "pakakasalan naman kita pag nabuntis ka. pananagutan kita."
  • MARVIN_101MARVIN_101 Member PExer
    mihyuljang wrote: »
    for sure lalabas ang mga dialogue na ganito

    "pag mahal mo ako, makikipagsex ka sa akin. di mo naman ata ako mahal."
    "pakakasalan naman kita pag nabuntis ka. pananagutan kita."

    Tama ka! :lol:

    Tapos pagnangyari na. Biglang ...... huh! sinu ka? :lol:
  • mihyuljang wrote: »
    for sure lalabas ang mga dialogue na ganito

    "pag mahal mo ako, makikipagsex ka sa akin. di mo naman ata ako mahal."
    "pakakasalan naman kita pag nabuntis ka. pananagutan kita."

    KORAKNESS!
  • fabchqfabchq ★~FASHION-CHICK~★ PExer
    I'm pretty sure I can control myself. Not sure about my boyfriend though.

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