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Love or Respect?

kung papapiliin ka ng isa -- alin ang mas gusto mong ibigay/ipakita sa'yo ng iyong minamahal -- LOVE or RESPECT? :bashful:
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  • badabada PExer
    respect :) natatamad nako mag explain :rotflmao:
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    respect... kasi nag-fafall out of love ang isang tao.
    kapag may respect di ka niya masasaktan(in any form)
    at mataas ang tingin niya sa iyo, hinahangaan ka niya sa lahat
    ng bagay. the person will give value to every word you say.
    if ever you made mistakes, the person will regard that you are
    not perfect and will not condemn you for it.

    well respect nga daw is earned not demanded, then so be it.
  • hmmm.... how can you love a person and not respect him/her at the same time? :confused:
  • ^hAVE A Point hir...
  • If you love someone ull respect that person.

    You can give respect but not love ;)
  • vincexvincex PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    anilov wrote: »
    hmmm.... how can you love a person and not respect him/her at the same time? :confused:

    Very easy. Love and respect are 2 different things. I was in love with my a very close friend back in school. But she was very normal. There is nothing special about her. Nothing that begets "respect".

    I don't love Al Gore. But I respect him for the man that he is, the vision that he represents and the guts to separate from long time wife hehehehe
  • love and respect are two different things but true love begets respect. Actually true love begets all things good and beautiful.
  • rafaelluis15rafaelluis15 PEx Rookie ⭐
    i'll choose love because if you love someone you'll respect him/her if not i dont think you really love the person.. *okay*
  • i'll choose love because if you love someone you'll respect him/her if not i dont think you really love the person.. *okay*

    not really.

    You can love your mom, for example, and not respect her by continually being rude and not doing as she says. However, you still love her.

    I'd go with RESPECT too. Respect does not need love. If you have respect to that person, you can tolerate her bad side.

    Love-- you can wake up one morning and find that you don't like your lover anymore. So, you start looking for something else to make you happy.

    With respect. Even if you lose love to that person, you will not CHEAT because you love her.
  • if in the context of marriage, it's love vis a vis respect then i'll choose respect.
    love without respect is nothing but selfish/empty love. how can you say you love a person you can not even respect? in my book, the only way to build love is through respect the same way i see that there is no other way to build trust than to be honest.
  • rafaelluis15rafaelluis15 PEx Rookie ⭐
    not really.

    You can love your mom, for example, and not respect her by continually being rude and not doing as she says. However, you still love her.

    I'd go with RESPECT too. Respect does not need love. If you have respect to that person, you can tolerate her bad side.

    Love-- you can wake up one morning and find that you don't like your lover anymore. So, you start looking for something else to make you happy.

    With respect. Even if you lose love to that person, you will not CHEAT because you love her.[/QUOTE

    i dont think so..

    for me love is more important than respect because if you love in a universal manner respect comes along with it .. i dont want to sound preachy but then ...why did christ said love your neighbor as you love yourself? if respect is more important?,it should have been respect your neighbor as you respect yourself, what do you think?

    love encompasses all ,kahit may kaaway kapa mamahalin mo at matuto ka magpatawad ..;)
  • yung bestfriend ko 6 yrs siyang nirespeto nung guy. Hanggang kiss lang sila and hug. Tapos nearing 7th year, saka lang sila nag make love, kasi lapit na naman kasal nila.



    days before the wedding, umamin ang guy na bading pala talaga siya at napatunayan niya when they made love.



    kaya love/passion na lang!
  • pushpoppushpop PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    kung papapiliin ka ng isa -- alin ang mas gusto mong ibigay/ipakita sa'yo ng iyong minamahal -- LOVE or RESPECT? :bashful:

    Love, kasi i dont think you can love someone and not respect him/her. :love:

    Pero you can definitely respect someone and not love them.
  • pushpop wrote: »
    Love, kasi i dont think you can love someone and not respect him/her. :love:

    Pero you can definitely respect someone and not love them.

    That may not always be true. My ex gf loves her dad but lost respect for him when he cheated on her mom.
  • Sakim ako. gusto ko both!:p
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    it's too hard if not impossible to separate one from the other.

    sa kagustuhan ng tao na lamang siya at maka-panggulang kahit na sa kabiyak o partner nito.. nag imbento siya ng pangalawang version ng love.

    yung 1st version ng love (universally known as 'genuine' love) suppose to be, complete package na ito. imperative na kasama na doon ang respect.

    kumbaga sa isang airplane, yun fuselage (body) + wing, yuon yung love. yung respect naman yung engine which provides propulsion. complete package.

    yung 2nd version ng love na inimbento natin for our own convenience.. sa ganang akin, yuon yung 'not-so complete' package. kumbaga, conditional. ito yung love na sinisigurado mong lamang ka lagi at nakakalusot ka.

    ito yung version na love kuno pero actually, walang respect: alam ng lahat na mahal mo ang iyong partner, pero halus alam na ng lahat (maliban sa partner mo) na wala kang respect sa kanya.

    kunyari pakitang tae na mahal mo partner mo, kaya bilang respect na lang sa kanya, sinisiguro mong discreet ang iyong cheating. :hiya:

    in other words, nasa taas ang love.. sakop nito ang respect.

    hindi ibig sabihin respect mo isang tao eh mahal mo na ito.

    maliwanag ang boundary sa gitna ng genuine love at tsaka yun ano.. love-love-ban lang. :hiya:
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    not really.

    You can love your mom, for example, and not respect her by continually being rude and not doing as she says. However, you still love her.

    I'd go with RESPECT too. Respect does not need love. If you have respect to that person, you can tolerate her bad side.

    Love-- you can wake up one morning and find that you don't like your lover anymore. So, you start looking for something else to make you happy.

    With respect. Even if you lose love to that person, you will not CHEAT because you love her.

    ^^^^ BRAVO... *okay* we have the same views.
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    it's too hard if not impossible to separate one from the other.

    sa kagustuhan ng tao na lamang siya at maka-panggulang kahit na sa kabiyak o partner nito.. nag imbento siya ng pangalawang version ng love.

    yung 1st version ng love (universally known as 'genuine' love) suppose to be, complete package na ito. imperative na kasama na doon ang respect.

    kumbaga sa isang airplane, yun fuselage (body) + wing, yuon yung love. yung respect naman yung engine which provides propulsion. complete package.

    yung 2nd version ng love na inimbento natin for our own convenience.. sa ganang akin, yuon yung 'not-so complete' package. kumbaga, conditional. ito yung love na sinisigurado mong lamang ka lagi at nakakalusot ka.

    ito yung version na love kuno pero actually, walang respect: alam ng lahat na mahal mo ang iyong partner, pero halus alam na ng lahat (maliban sa partner mo) na wala kang respect sa kanya.

    kunyari pakitang tae na mahal mo partner mo, kaya bilang respect na lang sa kanya, sinisiguro mong discreet ang iyong cheating. :hiya:

    in other words, nasa taas ang love.. sakop nito ang respect.

    hindi ibig sabihin respect mo isang tao eh mahal mo na ito.

    maliwanag ang boundary sa gitna ng genuine love at tsaka yun ano.. love-love-ban lang. :hiya:

    ^^^ laugh trip toh... pero bakit ka pa nag-cheat kung may respeto ka talaga sa relationship niyo??? kahit pa discreet yun... I DON'T THINK THAT IS PART OF SHOWING RESPECT for your partner or special someone. Isang pang-babastos din yun na ayaw mo lang na mahuli ka at isumbat sa iyo ang kataksilan mo. :eek:
  • i want respect
    more than anything else
    in the world
    its hard to gain it...

    self respect above all
    it starts there...
  • LOVE. agree with anilov.
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