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::::: How do you develop a good sense of humor? :::::

Ask lang po sana ako ng tips about this.


This is one of the traits kasi na hinapanap ng mga girls sa isang guy. And i guess mahina talaga ako dito. Although di naman ako nanloloko ng girl and malambing naman ako pero i still find it difficult to get the ladies. Truth be told, walang nga akong girlfriend ngayon.


About the following:

1) Be yourself - walang plastikan. Be sincere;
2) Give compliments - pero dapat sincere at hindi iyong nambobola ka lang. Learn how to find the good in people and then tell them about it;
3) Be confident - huwag iyong kakaba-kaba o nagiging torpe - pero huwag naman iyong mayabang/mahangin. Part of being confident is always sporting a smile and always having eye contact;
4) Dress well - huwag mukhang squatter at huwag naman overdressed. Women like well dressed men;
5) Treat her like a princess - be chivalrous; e.g. opening doors, letting her seat first. Make her feel good in your company;
6) Develop a good sense of humour - Women love men who are funny. Pero dapat finesse ang humour at hindi iyong bastusin/degrading to women;
7) Don't be cheap - Women hate cheap men. Always offer to pickup the bill. Of course - you should only spend within your means.
8) Be a good conversationalist -You should be able to discuss any topic under the sun.
9) Flirt a lot - Women love flirting. Flirting turns them on and makes them horny.


halos pasado naman ako sa lahat except sa numbers: 1, 3, 6 & 8.
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  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Your list looks like an extract from my School of Babe Magnetism thread! :verycool:

    Regarding sense of humour: you need to have some level of intelligence. Stupid people have no sense of humour.

    You also have to be observant. If you can find the funniness happening in life then that's how you develop a sense of humour.

    -Just_JT
    Free.advice.from.an.ex-Babe.Magnet.
  • It comes naturally, either you have it or you don't.
  • freshbabefreshbabe PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Don't be DESPERATE!!!!

    SENSE OF HUMOR IS A TALENT.

    NOT EVERYONE HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR.
    (IRREGARDLESS OF GENDER).

    MAGKAKARON KA NG GF, KAPAG GANITO KA:

    1) SINCERE KA--- GOOD LISTENER, DI MAYABANG, TOTOO KA.
    WAG PLASTIK AT WAG PA-IMPRESS.
    DON'T BE A LIAR.
    2) SENSITIVE KA SA FEELINGS NG BABAE
    (MAGALING MAG-ADVICE)
    3) DEPENDABLE... SHOULDER TO CRY ON NG BABAE.
    4) HYGIENIC--LOOKING FRESH, MAGALING MANAMIT.
    5) MAY SENSE KAUSAP., KAHIT DI NA MADALDAL.

    PANG-HATAK LANG NAMAN ANG SENSE OF HUMOR,
    TURN OFF DIN NAMAN ANG BABAE SA MAY SENSE OF HUMOR NGA
    PERO GINAGAMIT NG LALAKI PARA MAKA-SCORE NG "MGA BABAE". OR YUNG PRESKO ANG AURA... TURN OFF YUN.

    I HAD AN EXBF NA SOBRANG NAKAKATAWA, PERO HE'S NOT THE
    TYPE THAT I CAN SHARE MY PROBLEMS WITH COZ HE'S NOT THE
    TYPE NA NAGSESERYOSO NG USAPAN, AT NA-IINSULTO AKO
    KAPAG PINAGTATAWANAN OR GINAWANG JOKE TIME ANG
    "SAMA NG LOOB KO". :rolleyes:

    DEPENDE DIN SA HUMOR, KASI MAY HUMOR NA OFFENSIVE
    NA, TAPOS DI MO AKALAIN KASI SA IYO-JOKE LANG!!!,
    OR MAY JOKES NA CORNY... AKALA MO BUMEBENTA
    PERO WAG KA...NAPILITAN LANG NA SAKYAN YUNG JOKE
    MO
    :rotflmao:

    DEPENDE SA WAVE LENGTH NG KAUSAP MO, IBABATO MONG JOKE.

    BASTA IMPORTANTE "BE YOURSELF", IF NOT KASI ...
    HOW CAN A GIRL LOVE YOU, FOR BEING JUST WHO YOU REALLY
    ARE??? A GIRL WHOSE NOT INTO YOU, FOR BEING YOU...
    IS NOT THE PERSON WORTH YOUR TIME.
  • ^^ Write this down, she just taught you something valuable.
  • jdashjdash PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    check your friends. imitate them how they do it


    creativity lang yan


    take note if its offensive or not, your to analyze if you use it or not.

    :D
  • it comes from within...

    i have this friend, super corny ng jokes nya but still he's doing so much effort.. just to make us laugh.. kelangn lagi ka may baon n jokes.. and *** mga may sense of humor, walang hiya s katawan
  • you know what? i have the same problem dati. napaka-corny ko, nag-jojoke ako pero napaka-corny, kahit ako nakokornihan ako sa mga jokes ko. :bop: so then i gave up cracking jokes. but guess what? instead maging worse, people see me now as a very funny man. it's because kapag may isang situation, i just say what's ever in my mind without the hindrance of thinking jokes and say it, then people around me will react and a conversation takes place. and because i can totally relate sa topic(because i'm the one who started it) i crack jokes more confidently with perfect timing.*okay*
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Be yourself, do not try too hard. The harder you try, the more 'ruh-tard'-ed you get.
  • mykxczamykxcza PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    Be yourself, do not try too hard. The harder you try, the more 'ruh-tard'-ed you get.

    isang malaking check.*okay*:D:lol:
  • Be yourself, do not try too hard. The harder you try, the more 'ruh-tard'-ed you get.

    tama... :socool:
  • greenandpinkgreenandpink PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    read books. watch TV shows that will make you think better. Laugh a lot.

    you don't need learn jokes to be funny. just be natural. and be a good listener. minsan that's all it takes to be a good conversationalist.
  • identify whats funny or not
  • koleenutchkoleenutch PEx Rookie ⭐
    naku. yan ay ability. hmm. tingin ko dapat lagi kang manuod ng comedy shows, wag lang yung mga nakaka offend. dapat pati kung babanat ka ng joke, taas noo. haha. i mean, baka naman kasi mag jojoke ka tapos parang ikinakahiya mo yung banat mo, ay wala talagang tatawa sa iyo. tamo ako, ang galing ko. haha
  • anilovanilov PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    If people think I have a sense of humor maybe I learned it by looking at myself in the mirror. :glee: try it. lol.
  • koleenutchkoleenutch PEx Rookie ⭐
    ^^ haha. napatawa ako dun. bongga ka. haha
  • One thing most people tend to ignore is our ability to listen.

    Listen and pay attention to your immediate environment. Observe what people are saying, take note of their ever changing mood.

    Wait for the right time and never hesitate when throwing in your punchline. :)
  • it comes from within...

    i have this friend, super corny ng jokes nya but still he's doing so much effort.. just to make us laugh.. kelangn lagi ka may baon n jokes.. and *** mga may sense of humor, walang hiya s katawan

    i agree .. walang hiya ka dapat (i hope u dont take this literally)

    plus .. you should be able to handle it when the joke's on you. one good test of humor is when u learn to laugh at yourself .. ;)
  • Huwag ka kasing masyadong seryoso. Relax lang! Huwag mo masyadong seryosohin lahat ng bahay. Thing happy thoughts and funny stories to relate to others.

    Goodluck sa'yo! :D
  • on topic: you don't. it's whether you're gifted with it or not. the way you deliver a joke, the timing and the punchline is not something you can't study. its something natural to some people. the way you make a girl smile and how often you make her laugh is a gift. and on your list TS it should be on the top 3 along with be yourself and be confident. girls will like you or at least you'd get their attention just by being yourself and having a good sense of humor.
  • anilov wrote: »
    If people think I have a sense of humor maybe I learned it by looking at myself in the mirror. :glee: try it. lol.
    koleenutch wrote: »
    ^^ haha. napatawa ako dun. bongga ka. haha

    hopefully you'd learn something here.

    one of the best punchlines/jokes is something about yourself *okay*
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