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Your GF/BF sharing their stories/views about their ex.

What's your take on this?

With my gf, at times, our topic is about her ex, she will tell
some stories about the positive and negative sides of her ex.
Well, being her current bf, of course I will just listen but I rarely
comment about the topic because a part of me says that
she's not respecting me as her lover. And deep inside me,
I feel a bit jealous because she still remembers her ex.

I'm not that bothered, just a bit tired of hearing about her past.
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  • ground_breakground_break Pexer PExer
    sabihan mo....

    a few stories about the ex is okay... As long as its confession time or asa topic siya pero if she brings it up more often than necessary... may problem na si GF
  • heartbroken21heartbroken21 iska/isko PExer
    :hmm:teka, teka..:hmm:

    nakakarelate ako dito hehe.

    pero ts, minsan kase wala lang naman yun, hehe nakwento lang naman siguro. and kung siya talaga ang nagoopen up, ibang usapan na nga siguro. pangit nga po. ako kase nag oopen up lang ako pag tinatanung lang kung bakit invi ako sa IM add ko or kung makulit parin ex ko. hehe

    pero nextime, hindi na lang ako magkwento kahit tatanungin ako hehe.:bashful::D

    nakikishare lang ako. parang akin tong thread na toh ah hehe:bop:
  • acquired_feveracquired_fever Member PExer
    Minsan lang naman siya magkwento ng ganun,
    kaya din napupunta sa ex nya ang topic eh kasi
    ang previous topics namin is about relationships
    ng mga friends namin.

    Ayaw ko lang kasi na sabihin sa kanya na itigil na
    niya ang pagkwento kuminsan about ex niya.
    Kaya nakikinig na lang ako at di na nagsasalita
    para tumigil din.
  • heartbroken21heartbroken21 iska/isko PExer
    ah kaya naman pala ts. wag kana magtaka. haha at para maiwasan yan ts, wag na lang pagusapan ang mga ganung bagay hehe.
  • enchanteenchante hanging on PExer
    past is past.. why still talk about it? comparison just makes things worse.
  • acquired_feveracquired_fever Member PExer
    At first, it was just okay with me, and besides we were still
    new at that time and I am still knowing her and her preferences.

    And one time, when she was in a bad mood. I was surprised that
    she told me this, "para kang si (ex name)", when I declined her
    request. Pero isang beses lang yun.
  • heartbroken21heartbroken21 iska/isko PExer
    At first, it was just okay with me, and besides we were still
    new at that time and I am still knowing her and her preferences.

    And one time, when she was in a bad mood. I was surprised that
    she told me this, "para kang si (ex name)", when I declined her
    request. Pero isang beses lang yun.

    :eek:huh? ano ba yung request niya? :hmm: dali sabihin mo na, nacurious ako hehe. parang may naalala ako hahaha
  • acquired_feveracquired_fever Member PExer
    Mababaw haha!

    And i think at that time she was testing me if she can control me,
    pasalamat siya at gutom rin ako.

    Did you get the point? Hehe
  • tripkoyantripkoyan Member ✭✭✭
    It's ok lang siguro kung magkwento para sa akin ha unless yung mga hindi naman dapat ikwento. Naaasar lang naman ako kapag yung pinagkukumpara na.
  • heartbroken21heartbroken21 iska/isko PExer
    ahahaha yeah got it! ang babaw nga, waaahhh
    kala ko naman ano na, hahaha
  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier Your Personal Jesus PExer
    Idk depends. That's why it's nice to go out with someone who's been out of the relationship for a while. If you go out with one that's just broken up you know they'll be talking about the recent dude all the time. I mean I could understand it to a point, sometimes our exes are part of us. But dude if she talks about him all the time, then there's a problem.
  • R2D2_R3R2D2_R3 Bring it... yeah! PExer
    ^^ Why not just talk about how you want your realtionships toe be? If she talks about negatives about her ex, why not talk discuss around on how she learned from it and how both of you can avoid it? For positive comments about the ex, you will have idea what works for your girl and try to think on how to improve it more.

    Share ko lang coz it works for me, makes me more mature about sa handling relationships..
  • bondgirlbondgirl my internet persona PExer
    I only talk about ex-files when husband is asking for it. If not, ibaon na lang sa limot. But a piece of advise, wag na lang i open up. that's the last thing our partners would like to hear. and besides, i respect na lang natin ang mga exes natin. nanahimik na ang mga buhay nila and what the two of you have shared should remain only in the memory na lang :)
  • jpmalpassjpmalpass Chivas Regal PExer
    Kami ng GF ko ngayon, napapagusapan pa din namin yung mga ex namin, ex ko at ex nya. Ok lang naman sakin kasi para mas maintindihan ko yung side nya, yung dapat kong gawin kasi may matutunan ka din dun sa past relationship nya and same goes to her. Kung anu ang nangyari para hindi mo gawin sa kanya ulit. :)
  • Mickey2000Mickey2000 TheFoodBlogger ✭✭✭
    ok lang yun kung casual kwento lang, pero kung mga sexcapades na nya sa ex nya ang mga kinukwento, iba na yun :glee:
  • bondgirlbondgirl my internet persona PExer
    ^^^ yep! and yun yung ayaw marinig ng mga current bfs/gfs (or husbands and wives na rin hehehe)

    my husband was like that. i don't want to hear how his exes bodies look like because i don't want to one day see them and imagine them in their orgasmic state, you know... that will make me go out from my personal hell and by night time i'll be throwing things to my husband.
  • acquired_feveracquired_fever Member PExer
    My gf just talks about why she broke up with her ex because of
    his negative side (over-protective and jealous). She says that
    he is "mabait naman" and "maasikaso". And because of it
    nacocompare ko tuloy sarili ko sa ex nya, which is nakakainis.

    Bihira lang naman yung ganung topic, kaya medyo natotolerate ko pa
    and no di namin pinaguusapan ang sex life namin with our ex,
    noon pa yun when we were still new in our relationship.

    Kayo ba girls pag matagal na kayo with your bf, napaguusapan nyo
    pa rin ba ang mga past niyo? And does your bf just listen or
    naiinis din paminsan.
  • acquired_feveracquired_fever Member PExer
    And by the way, i'm the complete opposite of her ex...
    based on her stories. So sometimes it makes me wonder if she
    misses some of her ex personality: (silent, serious, protective, and
    easy to get jealous), at ako naman medyo kalog, happy go lucky,
    at hindi seloso.

    Well hindi ko rin babaguhin ugali ko para lang sa ganun hehe.
  • jorinn03jorinn03 ok lang tamad ndi nmn pagod PExer
    wala kasi ako X eh, pero ngkabreak kame for a week so siya pa din X ko. heheh!

    ako naman hubby ko ang may mga X....minsan lang siya mag kwento...at usually ako ngtatanong s kanya....eh masyado ako matanong at nakukulitan siya. heheh! curious lang naman ako...partial partial kasi siya kun mag kwento. heheh! kaya lalo ako ngtatanong.....
  • acquired_feveracquired_fever Member PExer
    Siguro hindi pa nga, pero sinabi na rin nya noon na nagsisisi siya at
    naging bf nya yun.
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