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lovelife ng pangit na gaya ko

i have been NGSB up to my age now. lagi ako basted pag nanliligaw ako. minsan nga kahit crush ko palang yung girl tapos nalaman niya eh iwas agad siya.

marami na akong narinig na masasakit na salita sa mga naging crush ko - "Yuck", "Eeiiiww", "Nakakasuka". at isa sa mga pinakaworst is "kahit kelan di ako papatol sa kanya". masakit siyempre, pero ano magagawa ko.

i have to be honest . pangit kasi ako - as in.mukha nga daw akong 40sa age ko.

minsan naiiyak ako sa sarili ko.kung sana maayos yung itsura ko di kako masasabihan ng ganung mga words.ang isa pa sa masakit eh akala ko dati sa love pantay pantay, pero hindi pala. face matters pa din. yun nga naman yung unang nakikita.if hindi na approve yung physical, bale wala na rin kahit super bait pa.

may magmamahal pa kaya sa kin or tatanggapin ko na lang na sorry ako pagdating sa love?

payo naman please...
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  • pushpoppushpop PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    baka naman sobrang gaganda nung mga nililigawan mo kaya ganun. shempre matindi ang kumpetisyon dun, kaya ka nababasted...
  • rokrokrokrok PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    hindi lahat tumitingin sa panlabas. mabuti kang tao, dadating un.
  • post ka picture TS para mas matulungan ka.
  • Ilang taon ka na ba TS? Kung bata ka pa, (highschool pa lang), wag mo masyado dibdibin ang mga nangyayari, kasi ang mga girls pag bata pa puro itsura ang tinitingnan. Kung nasa tamang edad ka na (24-30 yrs old) kelangan may stable job ka na, try to improve yourself, go to the gym, dapat maging fit ang pangangatawan mo para madala yung "mukha" mo. Have self confidence and improve your personality.
  • aslowruleraslowruler PEx Rookie ⭐
    Don't push yourself. Me darating sa tamang panahon.
  • DO SOMETHING. I know there is somthing nice on your looks , you just need to find out, and enhance. =)
  • may kanya kanya naman tayong beauty . . . hindi ako maganda, hindi din ako pangit...."di kagandahan" siguro?! hehe! nway...

    i felt the same dati...ang mahirap lang kasi sa babae eh hindi pede manligaw....ayaw ko din mg effort kasi takot ako ma reject...kaya boyish ako...parang defense mechanism ko un....

    Ngka BF ako when I was 24...and we got married Dec 2008. He's my first & last. what i'm trying to say is wag mawalan ng pag asa..darating din ang para sayo....in Gods perfect time. :)
  • Looks will always be a factor, so be the best version of yourself that you can be. How?

    1. Workout. Have a good fit body but don't be 'bodybuilder' big. Most girls find it gross. Your aim should be like Daniel Craig's James Bond or Christian Bale's Bruce Wayne. Don't go any bigger than that.

    2. Fix up yur face. Get a hip but classic haircut. If you're balding, shave it all off like Jason Statham. Take proper care of your face. Use moisturizers and facial wash (google facial care for men) to avoid pimples.

    3. Dress well. Go for staples and classics instead of trends. Stay away from silly ***** like crocs, uggs, or skinny jeans. It's more practical as you don't have to replace classic wardrobe pieces for as long as they last. Also, wear clothes that fit right. Always. Both tops and bottoms. Clothes should skim the body without being skin tight. Also take note of proper color coordination.

    4. Be CONFIDENT without being arrogant/mayabang. Even if you're not, just pretend to be confident and before you know it you'll be confident for real. Always stand tall, and never appear to be shy.
  • @EJ12- HOw about giving tips for the ladies too?;)
  • bdm1211bdm1211 PEx Rookie ⭐
    halos nagawa ko na yan tol.nag gym na ako,tried ko na yung mga shirts and jeans na sinabi mo.even gone through facial centers.laki na nga ng nagastos ko eh. pero pag tinignan talaga yung face talong talo.

    pag naglalakad nga ako halos nakayuko na lang ako sa hiya ko sa itsura ko eh.
  • bdm1211 wrote: »
    halos nagawa ko na yan tol.nag gym na ako,tried ko na yung mga shirts and jeans na sinabi mo.even gone through facial centers.laki na nga ng nagastos ko eh. pero pag tinignan talaga yung face talong talo.

    pag naglalakad nga ako halos nakayuko na lang ako sa hiya ko sa itsura ko eh.

    cheer up! baka naman maganda kang ngumiti?
  • malungkot nya yan, basta dadating din yung para sayo... smile ka na ok?
  • Baka masyadong maganda ang mga prospects mo. Ideally it should be someone similar to you. Maybe a girl who's not pretty but sexy and can dress well.

    Better yet, magpayaman ka.
  • Most important of all is adopt a confident attitude. If you're ashamed of your looks it will reflect in your aura (posture, demeanor/swagger etc.) BE CONFIDENT. Work with what you have. Even though you're ugly you can still act smooth and confident. I'll cite Daniel Craig again as an example. Before Casino Royale, everyone said he was the ugliest Bond ever. Some said he looked like a monkey in a suit, and I didn't disagree. But when you watch the movie, his confidence makes him much much more attractive. Just do it dude, be confident. It should show in your demeanor and facial expression. Forget about your ugliness, look are overrated.
  • - Study yourself and be good on things that you do.
    - Carry yourself with confidence and dress well.
    - Try not to be talkative. Mas may dating ang lalaking tahimik at confident(Parang Whisper hehe)
    - At saka di totoo yung pag panget ka walang magkakagusto sayo.


    Para sa akin ang pinaka pangit na lalake ay yung mga hindi productive at walang pakinabang sa lipunan. Yung mga walang trabaho at pabigat sa magulang heheheh. Kung ganitu ka maniniwala ako pangit ka nga ^_^

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  • bdm1211bdm1211 PEx Rookie ⭐
    ej12 wrote: »
    Baka masyadong maganda ang mga prospects mo. Ideally it should be someone similar to you. Maybe a girl who's not pretty but sexy and can dress well.

    Better yet, magpayaman ka.

    honestly hindi nga eh.karamihan sa kanila hindi naman maganda, hindi naman panget.nagkakacrush ako sa maganda, given na yun.so kung ano man yung sasabihin nila eh ok lang, maganda sila eh.pero yung iba nagtataka ako kasi masakit naman talagang magsalita.di naman siguro masamang magkacrush diba?
  • bdm1211bdm1211 PEx Rookie ⭐
    ej12 wrote: »
    If you're ashamed of your looks it will reflect in your aura (posture, demeanor/swagger etc.)

    yah I agree.nagrereflect nga siya, lalo sa eyes ko. para nga daw walang buhay, laging malungkot.
  • bdm1211bdm1211 PEx Rookie ⭐
    ej12 wrote: »
    look are overrated.

    I agree, pero yun yung unang nakikita eh.sabi nung isang thread na nabasa ko, trigger point yun kung pwedeng magkagusto sayo ang isang girl or hindi.
  • oi ts, wag ka, yung frend ng pinsan ko maganda tapos ang napangasawa eh talagang hindi bagay sa kanya..basta..haha..hindi kami makapaniwala na yun ang naging husband niya :bashful: :lol: in gods will, makakahanap ka din ts..for d meantime, mag exert kp ng dobleng effort 4 improvement ;) gudlak :)
  • ej12 wrote: »
    Baka masyadong maganda ang mga prospects mo. Ideally it should be someone similar to you. Maybe a girl who's not pretty but sexy and can dress well.

    Better yet, magpayaman ka.

    ang problem kapag mayaman ka. hindi mo sigurado kung love or pera lang ang habol.
    - Study yourself and be good on things that you do.
    - Carry yourself with confidence and dress well.
    - Try not to be talkative. Mas may dating ang lalaking tahimik at confident
    (Parang Whisper hehe)
    - At saka di totoo yung pag panget ka walang magkakagusto sayo.


    Para sa akin ang pinaka pangit na lalake ay yung mga hindi productive at walang pakinabang sa lipunan. Yung mga walang trabaho at pabigat sa magulang heheheh. Kung ganitu ka maniniwala ako pangit ka nga ^_^

    agree lalo na sa nakaBOLD
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