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Senaryo:
Halimbawa may ka date ka. date lang naman at wala kang balak ligawan siya. Isang gabi nag clubbing kayo sa isang malaking first class na club. E di Inom-inom kayo, shooting pulutan, sayaw-sayaw, kwentuhan, joking-joking at tawanan kayong dalawa. hahaha! hihihi! hohoho hahaha! So far so good.. Ang saya saya ng gabi niyong dalawa. Ang lakas mong tumoma so after one hour lang, nag excuse ka sa ka-date mo para jumingle. Tumayo ka at naglakad patungo sa CR. Nang malapit ka na sa CR, napansin mo na may apat na tsiks sa isang lamesa. puro tsiks lang at magaganda pa. Ngumiti sa iyo ang pinakamaganda. To make it more interesting, maganda na tisay pa. And as you were smiling back to her, na shock ka ng ma realized mo siya yung BIG CRUSH mo. Lumuwa ang matama mo and at the same time you sorta whispered under your breath "Holy Sh!t. This is my Effing chance to hook up with her" You were at the right place, the right time and the right ambiance. And on top of that, feeling gwapo ka hahaha

Not a minute too soon, you realized may ka-date ka pala. hahaha.

How would you handle the situation. Paano mo mapapa disappear yung ka-date mo para maki-table ka sa mga tsiks?

Let's here it from the veteran tsikboys
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  • F-A SoldierF-A Soldier PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    I'm not a veteran, a guru, a self proclaimed lady's man, a pimp, or anything just a regular guy...but can I answer your question?

    Well, from experience, my Lao friend's use the term 'hunger of the eye'. It's what we call 'patay gutom' in Filipino. IMHO there are times for everything and patience is a virtue that goes a long way. Obviously you just can't dig out and say 'fck it' to your date, in fact that's jacked up. I believe in karma, so should you. Sometimes you gotta play the cards right even if you don't win that hand. Think about it if you just ditched your date to go to that table and you messed up with that girl, who do you come home to that night? All that work and both prospects gone.

    This is what I would do: plant the seed. Go up to that hot girl wave and introduce yourself. Make them smile, make a good impression, and then say goodbye that you're with friends and that you'd like maybe to take her out in a different opportune time. Then go back to your date, make it even a better night and you might hit jackpot with her that night, if not, then you've established a base. So count your blessings in the end of the night:

    1. you had a great date with someone, you and her had a great time and dinner

    2. you've introduced yourself with another hot chic a. good impression b. establish contacts

    3. you've shown that you're not cheap. when you make someone excited about something then take that something away from her, it leaves them wanting more. truth: people (not just girls) LIKE things that they don't and presumed cannot have. It's not so much that it appraise the real value, but its presumed value.

    4. You feel good about yourself, and your conscience is intact. You weren't a jerk by leaving your original date.

    Sometimes you have to play so that you may not win the battle, but MAYBE with the right moves, the war.
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Simple situation: I'd approach my hot crush and explain to her that I have a date at the moment. If she's interested, she can give me her contact details so I can catch up with her tomorrow or some other time.

    Meanwhile, I'll continue on with my current date and get laid that night....

    -Just_JT
    Elementary.my.dear.Watson.
  • rickymrickym PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    JUST_JT wrote: »
    Simple situation: I'd approach my hot crush and explain to her that I have a date at the moment. If she's interested, she can give me her contact details so I can catch up with her tomorrow or some other time.

    Meanwhile, I'll continue on with my current date and get laid that night....

    -Just_JT
    Elementary.my.dear.Watson.

    i'd have the same answer as you, but if i feel that my crush is the type of woman who feels threatened by another woman. i'd transfer to another club with the excuse that i want to go to several clubs in one night (feeling rich). that way i can also be romantic with my date and romantic with my crush the next time.
  • darmonxdarmonx PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    rickym wrote: »
    i'd have the same answer as you, but if i feel that my crush is the type of woman who feels threatened by another woman. i'd transfer to another club with the excuse that i want to go to several clubs in one night (feeling rich). that way i can also be romantic with my date and romantic with my crush the next time.

    Agree. Hindi rin ako tsikboy pero bastos naman kung iiwanan mo yung date mo na nakabitin lang.

    Keep in mind that girls talk too. If you dumped your date to hang out with your crush, word will go around. Lahat ng kaibigan at kamag anakan ng babaeing dinump mo ikekwento yung ginawa mong basta na lang siyang dinipatsa nung gabing yun.
  • ildiavoloildiavolo PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    I'm not a veteran, a guru, a self proclaimed lady's man, a pimp, or anything just a regular guy...but can I answer your question?

    Well, from experience, my Lao friend's use the term 'hunger of the eye'. It's what we call 'patay gutom' in Filipino. IMHO there are times for everything and patience is a virtue that goes a long way. Obviously you just can't dig out and say 'fck it' to your date, in fact that's jacked up. I believe in karma, so should you. Sometimes you gotta play the cards right even if you don't win that hand. Think about it if you just ditched your date to go to that table and you messed up with that girl, who do you come home to that night? All that work and both prospects gone.

    This is what I would do: plant the seed. Go up to that hot girl wave and introduce yourself. Make them smile, make a good impression, and then say goodbye that you're with friends and that you'd like maybe to take her out in a different opportune time. Then go back to your date, make it even a better night and you might hit jackpot with her that night, if not, then you've established a base. So count your blessings in the end of the night:

    1. you had a great date with someone, you and her had a great time and dinner

    2. you've introduced yourself with another hot chic a. good impression b. establish contacts

    3. you've shown that you're not cheap. when you make someone excited about something then take that something away from her, it leaves them wanting more. truth: people (not just girls) LIKE things that they don't and presumed cannot have. It's not so much that it appraise the real value, but its presumed value.

    4. You feel good about yourself, and your conscience is intact. You weren't a jerk by leaving your original date.

    Sometimes you have to play so that you may not win the battle, but MAYBE with the right moves, the war.

    this is the best answer so far.
  • Good advice guys but it's a how-to question. :D

    Mga tsikboys, given the above senaryo
    "Paano mo mapapa disappear yung ka-date mo para maki-table ka sa mga tsiks?"

    We're not looking for the best answer. We're not after giving advice so that tsikboy can get laid with his current date. The goal is to make your current date disappear (out of the picture) so as you can co-mingle with your BIG CRUSH and the other 3 ladies.
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Mr.Sungit wrote: »
    The goal is to make your current date disappear (out of the picture) so as you can co-mingle with your BIG CRUSH and the other 3 ladies.

    This is not my style. In my book, ONLY AN ARSEHOLE would do this. The current date deserves a good night out, too.

    -Just_JT
    The.crush.can.have.another.day.with.the.Babe.Magnet.Mr.Suave
  • ^^ *hug* ^^
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    gusto mo itsa-puwera yun ka date mo dahil nasa bar/club yung crush mo.. hhmm may chance na mag backfire sa iyo ito.

    pag ginawa mo yan.. hindi na siguro uulit pa maki-pag date sa iyo yang isang girl.

    at doon sa crush mo.. puwedeng mag 50/50 ang effect nito. puwede siya 'bumilib' or.. puwede rin backfire ito dahil nakita niya papano ka mag treat ng isang girl pag harap ka sa isang alanganin na situation at biglaan pa.

    isa pa.. granting na namataan mo nga itong crush mo, hindi pa naman considered na ideal ang situation ah.. marami siyang kasama. puwede ka lumapit sa table nila at bulungan siya na mag date kayo sa next available skeds ninyo.


    pero, siyempre iba-iba ang tao.. at internet lang naman ito, hindi kita judge.

    kung ang tanong mo papano 'makatakas' sa situation.. mag tawag ka ng mga kakilala mong guys/girls na may gimik din sa labas baka malapit lang.

    pa-join mo sila sa table ninyo (nitong ka date mo) para ma-neutralize ang 'dating' mode ninyong dalawa. as a group na.. pa lipat-lipat ka na lang ng table niyan.

    pag ang plan mag kuwentuhan lang kayo ng crush mo, tutal marami naman sila, mas maganda kung ikaw pa rin maghahatid doon sa orig. na ka date mo.

    pag may plano kang take home itong si crush mo :hiya: eh timbrehan mo naman sa mga kasama mo na sila na lang maghatid doon sa isa.

    rude and so ungentleman pa rin.. pero, kung yun ang gusto mong gawin eh.

    btw, hindi ako tsikboy. nakisabat lang ako dito. :hiya:
  • rickymrickym PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Mr.Sungit wrote: »
    Good advice guys but it's a how-to question. :D

    Mga tsikboys, given the above senaryo
    "Paano mo mapapa disappear yung ka-date mo para maki-table ka sa mga tsiks?"

    We're not looking for the best answer. We're not after giving advice so that tsikboy can get laid with his current date. The goal is to make your current date disappear (out of the picture) so as you can co-mingle with your BIG CRUSH and the other 3 ladies.

    naku, don't do that, a girl just did that with me the other day. she rushed me to go to a bar with her. then when i got there, this foreigner was hitting on her. she was smiling the whole time. so what i did was i talked to the other foreigner with us. she kinda felt out of place. you know narcissistic women love to have several men.

    then she paid for her bill then went to her bf. may bf pala siya na foreigner, in the table just around 3 tables away in the same bar. by that time her sister who is actually my good friend apologized. she asked me if her sister asked me to come and i said yes, then i showed her the texts. so she got mad at her sis. i told my friend that she shouldn't feel sorry for me since i met two nice foreigners and am having a nice chat. and i'm used to women like her sis. the problem i said is that her sister is acting like a prostitute or a gro. so i advised her to stay away from her sis or she might be mistaken as a cheap pinay also.

    the foreigner beside us was furious. she said she knew the girl's bf and he was married and not divorced. he said "in the philippines everything can happen".

    anyway the sis who is my friend is trying to make up, she asked me out the other day but i told her i will start being free on monday.

    yes, word does get around. any woman or man who attempts that will be considered ***** material.
  • hyperspacehyperspace PEx Rookie ⭐
    it depends, if my date is also hot, then id go for my date. if not then ill just make an excuse that im not feeling well blah blah blah or something came up blah blah blah.... i will never tell her the real reason. thats just rude. hehehe
  • tell your date if you could sit down with others....ang saya nun....hahaha.
  • LimpBwiZitLimpBwiZit PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    utusan ko ang date ko bumili ng yosi sa 7-11. while she's away, aya-in ko yong 4 chicks na lumipat sa malayong bar. then text the date na sumunod na lang sya doon.
  • Ice BurnIce Burn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    I'm not a guy but I think the above mentioned scenario will never happen to a real tsikboy.

    Why?

    Because a real tsikboy would've hooked up with the Big Crush (and/or including the pretty friends) a long time ago that is why he is a real tsikboy. The current date is the next Big Crush the tsikboy intends to hook up with.

    Wala lang. :lol:
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    ice_burn *okay*

    mr. ts:

    iwanan mo man yung current date mo.. gaano kataas ang chance na paguwi mo kasama mo na yung crush mo?

    ang mangyayari.. zero-chance ka na sa orig. mong date.. tapos 50/50 lang dito sa crush mo.

    puwede naman kasing tuloy lang kayo ng ka-date mo.. may be next time kayo naman ni crush.

    boy: hi crush..

    crush: crush ka diyan. upo ka muna, isang shot.

    boy: o sige isang shot lang.. :cheers:

    boy: alright.. i have to go, may kasama ako eh. next hah labas naman tayo?


    naaakks! :hiya: :lol:
  • Ice BurnIce Burn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    And to add, here in the Philippines it's really a big feat to mack on a girl with several of her girlfriends in tow with her. If you ditch your current date then for sure you'll end up with no date because fat chance the big crush's friends will let her go with you. :lol:

    On Girl groups. There's usually an unwritten rule never to let the other go off with some random guy. Because of concern (or cattiness). But they came in a group, they will leave in a group, leaving you and your boner ALONE. :lol:

    Also, a real tsikboy knows not to mack on a girl if several of her friends are with her. Why mack on one in front of many? Eh di the tsikboy lost his chance with the other friends. :lol:
  • redhakawredhakaw PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    I'm an honest person, and I don't give a damn what my current date will feel.

    If indeed I saw my big crush, and I have lost my interest in my current date. I will right away tell her:

    "sorry for being an *****, but I want to be honest and fair with you. you just lost my attention, it's not you, it's not me, it's because of her"

    *pointing at the big crush*

    "so to save us from time, and lies, I will have to leave you, good night to you, and it was a pleasant night, hope you can find your way to continue it."

    :evil:
  • hyperspacehyperspace PEx Rookie ⭐
    ^^^
    i dont think it will be a good idea because you cannot approach your big crush with a big red hand mark on your face
  • Ice BurnIce Burn PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Or a broken nose for that matter.
  • redhakawredhakaw PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    understandable, but atleast I'm honest and straightforward.

    just have to dodge those attacks now :D
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