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Backstabbers, true friends and problem w/ friends. HELP?!

MADAMI KA NGANG FRIEND, PERO DI MO ALAM KUNG SINO *** TRUE FRIEND MO SA KANILA! DIBA?


Naiirita na kasi ako sa mga BACKSTABBERS eh..
but I`m dealing with them....Okay ***, antayin ko na *** ma-karma sila. Pero, hurt na talaga ako. Bus mates ko sila, batchmates and EX-friends' tapos everyday kami nag-kikita.. di ko na matiis, natutulog na *** ako sa bus, para mapag-usapan nila ako.. di ko sila pinapansin pero napipikon na ako.

Tapos pag-may nag-kakacrush sa akin na "friend" ko, I usually be mean to them, but I smile at them and hang out with them. But I stay away, because I don`t want us to end in being gf`s... especially if were BOTH girls... i call it, g-to-g. girls' court me, but I say "no". I don`t want to be conduct probation AGAIN. Tapos, magiging hate na nila ako. Pero mahal pa rin nila ako.


And *** mga friends ko tinatawag akong LONER, LOSER, STUPID, GAGA, BOBO, PANGIT... lahat na!!!wala namang positive sa akin!!!at hindi ko alam kung may true friends ako. kasi lahat ng kasabay ko every lunch, recess and dismissal parati nila akong inaaway..
d k alam..
And yung seatmate ko, ang talino niya, pero ayaw niya ata ako kaibiganin. She ignores me. And pag-kinakausap niya ako, she can`t look straight... Feeling ko hate niya ako.WALA NAMAN AKONG GINAGAWA SA KANILA.
So, if I`m alone I go in the bathroom and cry there..
HELP. TIPS. :}
I feel betrayed.

Comments

  • dalawa lang yan

    its either masasama lang ugali ng lahat ng "friends" mo

    or

    may something sa ugali mo na ayaw nila


    sa tingin mo, kumusta naman ba ang pakikitungo mo sa kanila at sa ibang tao?
  • @imustbeinlove,

    Siguro just be nice to them. Either inggit lang sila sa iyo or baka may little problem ka nga sa attitude mo.

    Sa exclusive school ka siguro nag-aaral, cause friends mo na girls do court you. Don't be mean to them just say NO and tama yun na you still greet and smile to them.

    Don't be pushed by peer pressure, Uso kasi yan sa school. Sa tingin ko inggit lang sila and di ka naman siguro pangit dahil some of your friends do have a crush on you.

    And regarding sa seatmate mong matalino, you could talk to her na kayong dalawa lang and ask her kung may problem nga ba.....

    Enjoy your studies. :bop:
  • saweverythingsaweverything PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    ts its hight time to stay away from them
  • MADAMI KA NGANG FRIEND, PERO DI MO ALAM KUNG SINO *** TRUE FRIEND MO SA KANILA! DIBA?


    And pag-kinakausap niya ako, she can`t look straight...
    Naku naku... actually, I'm going through this "friends prob". Tama. Madami ka ngang kaibigan pero hindi mo alam kung totoo sila.
    Let me share mine.

    I have "friends" na kasundo ko from mid-June until mid-August. Lagi ko silang kasabay kumain, we've done stuffs together at pag uwian, mag-memerienda kami ng sabay-sabay. masaya naman silang kasama.

    Until one day, hindi ako nakasabay sa kanila nung lunch time kase I was busy that time...

    hanggang sa nagsunod-sunod na ganun. I don't know why pero nung time na yun parang feeling ko humihiwalay na sila sakin, hindi na rin nag-gigreet ng "Hi, *********! *beso*". iba na yung treatment, kumbaga. I approached them once because I miss them so badly kahit na araw-araw ko silang nakikita (classmates ko rin kase sila) pero parang nasampal pa ko sa mukha kase dinedma nila ko. :depressed:

    Ayun... sa iba na ko sumasama ngayon kase nga feeling ko hindi na ko welcome sa kanila. I've decided na rin na huwag nang sumama sa kanila kase lalapit pa lang ako (e.g. magtatanong about sa studies), dedma na yung facial expressions nila. Alam niyo ba yung feeling na ganun? Yung parang clueless na clueless ka na kase hindi mo alam kung bakit sila naging ganun? Para kong nababastos at napaplastikan at the same time. :rolleyes:

    And just like you said, pag kinakausap mo siya, she can't look straight. Ganyan yung pinagdadaanan ko ngayon dahil yung isa sa kanila, hindi rin makatingin ng maayos sakin pag kinakausap ko. Hindi ko nga alam kung anu yung tinanim niya sa utak niya at bigla nalang siyang naging ganun.

    I don't know if I'd say sorry to them and I don't think I should kase wala naman akong ginawang masama sa kanila. They just don't treat me the way they did before.

    Now I wanted to have a new set of good and true friends that would always be there for me and would make me feel better everyday.

    Advise ko sayo TS, just pray for them 'cause it really works. Ako kase, down na down ako nung time na hindi nila ko pinapansin at super dedma na sila kaya ginawa ko, I prayed hard and I learned to let go of them. Kung ayaw nila sayo, 'di wag. Marami ka pang makikilala so just be careful in choosing your friends na makakasama mo. Wag mong piliin yung mga BI. *okay*
  • Juan_1 wrote: »
    @imustbeinlove,

    Siguro just be nice to them.
    ^yeah. KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS. :naughty:
  • Last year, there`s a girl na siniraan niya ako in their section. So, many people hated me. But, when I added them in Y!M and chated with them, they told me, " hindi ka naman masama. Ang bait mo pala."
    Until now, that we`re classmates, we`re having a good relationship and she understands me. I think *** naninira sa akin ay insecure. I just need to deal with them and I`ll tell the teacher. THANKS FOR THE HELP. And "imhere03", thanks for the story. nakaka-relate ako ;)
    I`ll make a better change. I know its hard but I need to do it. And won`t go to my BI friends na ;)
  • SirZapSirZap PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    imhere03 wrote: »
    ^yeah. KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS. :naughty:

    thats bad advice, aabusuhin ka lang. biruin mo hihiraman ka ng hindi magbabayad o isosoli. kasi kung susunod ako dyan being KIND mauubos kayaman ko :rotflmao:
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