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Guys question lang, what's your take on your gf/bf having plans for a vacation with friends and you're not even included. She/he doesn't even have vacation plans for the both of you :grrr:

I've asked her before if she wants to go out of town, but she said she doesn't have enough money for the trip. But now she has other plans? :bop:

Should I feel bad or just shrug it off?

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  • purpleheadd07purpleheadd07 PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    baka naman hindi mo din ka close ang barkada niya kaya feeling niya ma OP ka kung kasama ka.

    legal ba kayo? baka hirap siya magpaalam sa magulang niya kung kayo lang ang lalabas.

    nagse-sex na ba kayo? baka ayaw niya pa na may mangayri sa inyo hihi.

    or baka naman kasi gusto niya ikaw ang gagastos, sabihan mo libre para di na siya mag worry about budget. o kaya offer mo day trip lang muna like antipolo or tagaytay or luneta perhaps, mga ganun. :D
  • I'm always with her naman if merong occasion or other na lakad. And yes her parents knows me and we had our vacation naman before.

    Siguro she wants nga na libre :rolleyes:
    But if she has other plans with her friends malamang kkb naman sila.
  • blue_tracerblue_tracer PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    wala ka bang direct connection sa mga friends niya o barkada? kasi kung hindi ka rin lang close sa kanila.. hayaan mo na lang sumama gf mo sa outing nila. para naman meron space para sa sarili niya.

    iba yung atmosphere ng labas barkada/close friends.. iba rin yung atmosphere ng labas mag bf-gf. obviously, the later is more romantic.

    kung meron ka rin lang sobrang money eh di ikaw na muna sumagot sa labas/trip ninyo. mahirap laging hanapin yung 50/50 thing.. minsan di nangyayari yan. ikaw na muna magbigay. :)
  • saan ba ang plano nyo sana? baka nga naghihint ng libre :glee:
  • JUST_JTJUST_JT PEx Influencer ⭐⭐⭐
    Guys question lang, what's your take on your gf/bf having plans for a vacation with friends and you're not even included. She/he doesn't even have vacation plans for the both of you :grrr:

    I've asked her before if she wants to go out of town, but she said she doesn't have enough money for the trip. But now she has other plans? :bop:

    Should I feel bad or just shrug it off?

    She needs some TIME OFF from you.

    -Just_JT
    So.please.don't.suffocate.her.
  • ...wakaranai...wakaranai PEx Veteran ⭐⭐
    maybe your gf just wants to bond with her friends. magkaiba naman kasi yung kasama mo yung bf mo and kasama mo yung friends mo. now regarding the plans for the both of you to have a vacation, mag-initiate ka na. so that when you discuss it with her, meron ng concrete na plano.

    don't get offended if she wants to go somewhere with her friends. ikaw din, try mo din makipag-bonding sa mga friends mo.
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